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I think the trad is more important.


of course it's traditional marriage because both families most be aware and approve of the marriage and finally God is called upon to consumate d marriage, having said that i think d white wedding is just done to keep up with social trends.if am to list types of wedding in order of priority it will go like this:

TRADITIONAL
COURT
WHITE

Taking the debate a step further lets consider the consequences (i,e the legal status of each type)
ihave heard that the one you conduct first is the one that is considered paramount. That is if you do the trad then it is the customary rules that will govern the wedding.
(Are there any lawyers in the house that can shed light on this.). If that is true then I think the correct sequence will be registry/court , then trad and then church

@ fellybabe
What type of question is this.
Didnt u do biology in school.
If u need some ingredients I know some willing donors o

@ TOH
I have read it and I think you are aactually throwing out the baby with the bath water. He made some agravating statements in one of his posts but I think the main thrust of his argument is still in line with the position that people in a loving relationship would put each other interest first. A man that loves his wife would put her interest first and a woman that loves her husband will willingly submit.

The dictionary defines submissiveness as The quality or state of willingly carrying out the wishes of others. I think that is pretty self xplanatory, it doesnt mean letting a man beat on you or force you to his wish. in fact it is just another word for love, because isnt that love? willingly carrying out the wishes of others.

Thanks for giving us a good definition.

A way to solve all this jazz? just marry somebody you love who loves you and y'all will be mutually submissive, so it's all good.
True talk

I feel that there's a lot of static over this because a lot of people go by the negative connotations that have been attached to submissiveness instead of its original meaning which was probably what paul meant when he originally wrote thsi scripture.
My feelings exactly

PS
This issue is really not that important to be taking personal shots at each other yo, It's not like whatever is said here will change the course of the world you kno.
You're too much

yeah. Had a crush on snazzy. Pity she is taken. Saw her boo on her profile. Which I could boo him out of her life,

Definitely.

babyosisi:
Amen

Thank you.

ThiefOfHearts:
In case you didnt know, the women that are screaming are those screaming against men that DONT believe it's a two way thing but a thing that should only be done by women

Is that really hard to comprehend? Seriously?

So at last u r admiting that u can submit to a man under the condition that he also submits.  
So what's so different between this statement and the point made by Frankiriri.
I believe that any man that loves his wife would always want what is best for her and thus would listen to her and even take her advise even though  he may try to pass it off as his own

I have dated someone whose ex is my friend. Nothing dey there

Snazzy is da hottest

socially its no sin but lets face facts I dont know of any religion practiced in Africa tht does not frown against it. me, I am a christain and that one na d log wey dey my eye. But I know that I will overcome it sha. In d meantime I am smooching away