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Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 1:07pm On Apr 08
Jummymine:
Hello,please,can someone help with this?
Where will I put the red and black cable?
Thanks

At the X and Y. Congratulations you finally bought Predator.

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Education / Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by AnaCheks(m): 7:16am On Feb 04
Please bouse, i skipped two papers, ie i didn't write the exams. Now I want to write them and I'm seeing additional courses, what could be the problem please.. Attached is the additional..


And it was remaining only two

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 10:30pm On Jan 08
ACKayleb:
@Kingrshd3 please do u know anything about rural electrification agency level 8 salary and if they are allowances or upfront, thank u
Please is anything happening there?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 12:39pm On Nov 27, 2023
omavicky:
Abeg ooo.. University of Port Harcourt is recruiting...who has connect please, am a mother of two I really need the job...I have masters and am currently doing my PHD.
It is well. Only one woman can help you here, but I don't know if she'll be happy if i mention her. Nwanyiogwashi
Phones / Re: ### Xiaomi Thread For Tweaking Of Phones & Help Spot ### by AnaCheks(m): 1:47pm On Sep 09, 2023
GrandMufti:


Look for a PC, backup and factory reset.

But it's looking like a hardware issue
Thanks
Phones / Re: ### Xiaomi Thread For Tweaking Of Phones & Help Spot ### by AnaCheks(m): 10:42pm On Sep 07, 2023
Cc GrandMufti
Please my redmi 10c is just pressing on it's own, if i press the power button it will lock and calm down. I don't know what is wrong. Please this miui 14 how e be?
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Effect On Nigeria Politics Picture Included by AnaCheks(m): 7:19am On Jun 13, 2023
Nwanyiogwashi:
Peter obi is the reason no Nigeria politician is doing this to deceive the massess cheesy grin cheesy grin
Please can you help me, I'll go anywhere available. Please help me
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 10:29pm On May 25, 2023
Assurance001:
A close relative got FMC onitsha yesterday.
Thank you Hussen24 for your selfless contribution in this thread.
Missed Ola's exit too(missed getting across to him because I have no cash to pay)
I pray he continues being good wherever he is.
To us all who are job seekers(without cash and connection) may God stand for us.
To everyone who contributed positively in this thread. Thank you and God bless you all.

To those who got elevated from here remember not to bite the finger that fed you.
To the antagonist(s) in the group too please remove bad blood let peace reign.

To those who are in position to help please don't relent, out of 10, 1 must be grateful.

To those about to give up, somebody somewhere wish to be like and all of us must not be employed by the government. Let us embrace skills and hope for the best.

Thank you all

Congratulations. Please are they still giving out APL? I asked about this FMC Onitsha some days ago
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 8:02pm On May 19, 2023
Hussen24:
Please all those that keep PM me. I don't have connection to give you job. The little one coming in ( mostly medical related) are not even enough to give my family members and friends. The country hard oo. I still have a brother at home with no job.

Just ask your question here, If I have the answer I will reply you.

Thank you.
Please any infor on FMC Onitsha. Can you help enquire please?
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 1:54pm On May 03, 2023
aieromon:


Check battery stores.
Thanks so much
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 3:05pm On May 02, 2023
E be like say I dey on my own ooo. Make una help me na. I dey find generator battery that can serve 9kVa
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 12:12pm On Apr 30, 2023
AnaCheks:
Please which battery is good for a 9kva generator?
Please sombody should help me ooo
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 2:43pm On Apr 29, 2023
enochogaga:


Sure
Please which battery is good for a 9kva generator?
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 10:45pm On Apr 23, 2023
enochogaga:
Hello Everyone is been a long time proff is now in lagos grin grin grin
Wow... Welcome back. Welcome to Lagos. Now you can help me find better Predator Generator
Family / Re: Problem With My Wife, Mother, And Mother Inlaw. by AnaCheks(m): 1:38pm On Feb 20, 2023
Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you 🙏

.... You are truly a man. Keep it up. Now from what you wrote up here, you are the man, you have to make your mum understand she has no right in your marriage. Yes, as far as your marriage is concerned, she is a third party. She should stay clear. If you don't make her understand that now, she will stress the hell out of you. Everyone in my family knows, if you disrespect my wife, you have disrespected me, and i will you show you shege. If you left your fathers house to go to her house to marry her, mehn, she deserves every respect from your family including your mum. My happiness is that you Love your wife and she have not disrespected your mum in any way.. Make your mum fall in line, and enjoy your marriage

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Family / Re: Problem With My Wife, Mother, And Mother Inlaw. by AnaCheks(m): 1:25pm On Feb 20, 2023
Zonefree:
" can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong."



This is where I confirmed you're not yet a Man. I'm very sure you didn't tell us the full story. You withheld some information just to glorify your wife and mother in-law. Your post is just to paint your mom as the bad person here.


Ask yourself, if you drop dead now(God forbid), what do you think will happen in the next 6 months?

I'll tell you.

Your mum will be shattered. She'll mourn you till the rest of her life. She may not recover from the shock as you're her only son.

But, your beloved wife and her mother in-law will move on. Within six months of your death, another man will be shinning your beloved wife's congo and there's nothing you can do from the grave. Your beloved wife will remarry after your memorial service, if you're a Christian.

Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relative. Be wise.

Shalom.
I pity the wife you'll marry.

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Directed Employment Of All Non-Anambra Workers Reviewed (2011) by AnaCheks(m): 7:38am On Feb 03, 2023
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 7:23pm On Feb 02, 2023
SolaOkedara:
Pls I was short- listed for ihs towers technical skills acquisition program assessment ... What should I expect in the assessment??
Can anyone also help me past questions.... Thanks
Please are they still sending mails, i didn't receive

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 7:15pm On Feb 02, 2023
Shukusheka:
If you had an offer as a Manager for FIRS or NERC, which should one take? Which of the agencies pay more?
If you are an engineer, or want to build a career, Nerc is best. I'll choose nerc any day

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Politics / Re: Tinubu Presidential Campaign Rally In Anambra (Pictures, Video) by AnaCheks(m): 5:40pm On Jan 31, 2023
garfield1:
Tinubu pulled a bigger crowd in anambra than obi
grin grin grin cheesy they loaded people with 608 buses to the venue
Politics / Re: Early Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally by AnaCheks(m): 2:34pm On Jan 31, 2023
Dapagun:
#TinubuInAnambra

Agba shaa ọsọ, agụ ọ mile. K'ana ejegogodi
Politics / Re: PDP Goes After Wike’s Loyalists, Targets Governor Ikpeazu by AnaCheks(m): 7:18am On Jan 29, 2023
Las las Ikpeazu will support another candidate and PDP will lose Abia State. You can't win a state election from outside the state, PDP NWC take note. Worst when you are not the ruling party

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Did You Receive Similar Message From NPC? by AnaCheks(m): 8:26pm On Jan 26, 2023
captain2020:



Go to your local government area for screening. Your status will Change after screening. I just did mine today
What did you apply for please?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 5:45pm On Jan 23, 2023
Nasb7377:


They recruited almost 1000 last year
Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 10:47am On Jan 23, 2023
Mahmoud2020:
Population have recruited woo, dey even plenty have a friend that don't even have a seat in the office.


Please is National Population Commission recruiting.?
Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by AnaCheks(m): 10:21am On Jan 23, 2023
Hussen24:
Polytechnics.... APLs will flow massively comes February... Some already dishing out.
Please is National Population Commission recruiting.?
Career / Re: COREN Registration Thread by AnaCheks(m): 10:42am On Jan 02, 2023
Ovii123:


Thanks but I think I have 4 years experience cos I graduated in 2018.

Please give me more details
But you said 2 years experience initially. To Apply for COREN you'll need 4yrs experience and it starts from year of graduation. So check if you have up to that, then apply.
Career / Re: COREN Registration Thread by AnaCheks(m): 11:24pm On Jan 01, 2023
Ovii123:
Please I need the details guidelines on registering as an Engr, I have two years working experience. Please a good Samaritan should help me, I really want to register this year.
You need 4 years experience.
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 9:23pm On Dec 23, 2022
solaiphones:

Very stronger ask anyone that knows very well about the generator.
Okay, thanks
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 8:02pm On Dec 23, 2022
solaiphones:

The engine is very strong. You can’t compare it with all these chinko gen.
But it always comes as fairy used. In that case is it still stronger than our chinkos ?
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by AnaCheks(m): 6:51pm On Dec 23, 2022
solaiphones:

wow this is the type of gen i m also using. i use nomal mobil oil for mine
Is this Predator Generator really worth it?

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