mayorgbasky:


I booked the appointment on Fri, Sep 16, 2022, at 5:10 PM and I'm yet to get a date.

Any update... I need to call the embassy

Maybe you should contact them, I applied April last year, and received a mail for AD last week.

OluwaTofunmiiii:


Applying for student visa you have to book on their website and it comes with a waiting period of like 22months if I am write and I don't know cost

It's not upto 22 months, I applied for AD last year April and I received a mail last week to confirm appointment.

Though I will not use it, I am waiting for Chancenkarte

The only trophy Klopp is winning before leaving is the league Cup. I wonder what is in his mind when he makes his team selection.

Why did Klopp even play Quansah, what happened to Konate?

Should Liverpool drop points on this game, their title hopes are gone because Arsenal and City's form is something else.

Jeon:
She won't throw you like a thrash, if you treated your wife good right from the beginning of your marriage.

There are good and bad people. More explicitly as we have bad men, there are bad women too.

You women should stop this saying when a woman treats her husband bad, that the man must have treated her bad first.

There are women who are plain wicked, no matter how good a man treats them, they will still treat him bad.

Wickedness is not gender specific and women are not immune from it.

Leave her alone and come back to Ghana. You obviously don't love your wife.
Love is a fundamental ingredient to keep a man in marriage.

Congratulations Ighodalo!

The next governor of Edo State.

Thief dey catch thief....interesting

My favourite food....Never!

This is how we go back to being a mid table team.

Thank you Mr. Klopp, you gave us great memories.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

My brother, you better borrow sense now and leave that girl alone, if you proceed to marry her, you'll see shege in the marriage.

pansophist:
What about selling real foods instead of snacks? With real food, you can raise a family with it. You can also do catering for others, and expand with it.

Also, real food have a way of absorbing the food needs of the family. Your family can feed off from it and you won't feel it much, compare to buying food from scratch to cook.

Love800 you should consider this advice.

ppogba:


This comment would have been different if Liverpool had won by 4 or 5 as largely predicted.

Sorry daddy.

I'm not talking based on today's results only. Mind you I never expected Liverpool to beat Man Utd scoring many goals, I knew Ten Hag will try to prove a point considering the series of bad results he has had in the last couple of weeks.
Man City will win the EPL for a record four season a row. I do not see Arsenal stopping them.

This Liverpool team cannot win the EPL title. Nunez should be permanently placed on the bench. We also need a complete overhaul of our midfield.

Rickmann:




This dss are so shameless, always disgracing themselves. Do they even know how elite they are? What business do they have with small civil cases like this?

This is not a civil case, it's a criminal case.

Up Liverpool

#YNWA

Let's go Reds!!!

#YNWA

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.


Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.



The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.





I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

Hmm......Nairaland has become a war zone.

In the Politics section, it is ethnic/religious fight...

In the Family/Romance section, it is fight between Redpillers/Alpha Male wanna be and Feminists/Woke Women....SMH

mariahAngel:


They're not comparable, and you know it.

You women always try to lighten verbal abuse, maybe because many of you have a sharp mouth and are guilty of it. What you don't know is that verbal abuse is equally as deadly as physical abuse. Verbal abuse has both mental and psychological effects on men. Many men have been sent to their early graves because of verbal abuse. Unfortunately, the society will continue to excuse it and expect men to live with it, just as many of you are suggesting in this thread.

.........

Apus:
1. No matter how educated or intelligent they may be, they are more emotional than rational, hence behave stupidly most times.

2. They are cunny and sly hence the need to always deal with them with extra caution.

3. If you find one that truly loves you unconditionally as a man, count yourself as one of the luckiest men on earth.

Women don't love men unconditionally, they only love their children unconditionally.

Jewessgratitud3:
I don't know when some women will have sense. You asked a man who's seeking your hands in marriage how much he's earning, he didn't tell you and you didn't do your findings then before going ahead to marry him. It's now you're trying to find out how much a corporal is earning. After you don enter fire

I don kukuma talk my own, if as a man you're not stinkingly wealthy ( especially in this present economy) don't come near me.

marriage is not a prison with years of hard labor, why are you men now trapping innocent girls in poverty in the name of marriage? If you're not financially capable yet, you no go sit down your own? Abi which one come be enter finish com dey cry no money no money?? Hm!

Madam, you go ask tire. Question wey you supposed ask before you enter.

Madam as you dey find stinkingly rich man, you yourself (in your forties) are you stinkingly rich. Because a man stinkingly rich will definitely ask you that question, that what have you been doing with yourself all this time, that at forty something you are not stinkingly rich

PaigeTaylor:

I'm not perfect either. Never said I was. And that was my past life, something I wanted a solution to because I want to forget it, that's why I brought it to nairaland. Didn't you see where I said I didn't want a broken home? It's my past, Why bring it up?

Well, it doesn't seem like "it's your past" to me. It appears you're still very much emotionally attached to him and even still desiring him.
How do you feel your husband would feel knowing that his wife is desiring another man's touch? You guys should sit down and talk about your issues.

PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years. He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night. But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. Passwords his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.
Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work. Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.
The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.
She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.
I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.
He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.
HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?

Well, I have gone through your previous post and you're just as unfaithful as your husband. You both need counselling.

Caaz:
They should be also give room for polyandrous marriages too.
I still insist....the gods were biased!

Maybe when women start paying groom prices and performing traditional marriage rites for men, polyandry might be allowed for them.
Even the West that y'all are copying hook line and sinker don't practice polyandry.

Caaz:
Same deity should also caution the men to keep their Gbola solely for their wives.


Our ancestors were really biased against the women folks.
What's good for the geese is equally fit for the gander.

The african traditional marriage rites allows polygamy. That's the reason adultery was only enforced on women. Monogamy is a western culture.

2014

Lagos to Calabar, Calabar back to Lagos.

Booked a return ticket for just 27k that time. That was when Naija was still good.

Let's go reds!

#YNWA

Reinaldo:


Don't settle for less and have regrets later

I'm not giving up on the pursuance of success, just looking at exploring other opportunities.

Rubyjade:
Why?

Largely the western culture and the effect it might have on my children. I cringe when I see and read on how they are practically trying to shove the whole LGBTQ nonsense down the throats of innocent children.

I'm in a similar situation as the OP. I was keen on japa few months ago, but unfortunately my plans didn't pan out as I envisaged. Now I am not really keen on the whole japa thingy anymore.

rolams:


Stingy how?

Was it not Liverpool that first offered 110 million for the guy?

Chelsea offered him 8 years contract while Liverpool offered him 5 years that's the reason he went to Chelsea.

I don't think it was only about the duration of contract that made Caicedo and Lavia to ditch LFC for Chelsea. I think the wages Chelsea offered might also be higher. Liverpool is not actually generous when it comes to wages, that's why players will prefer the likes of Chelsea and City that offer better wages. Why do you think Fabinho left us for Arabian league? It is the same wage issue. Honestly, Liverpool has to do something about their remuneration package for their players, otherwise it will get to a time, we will not even be able to attract decent average players talk more of world class players.