Dcaliphate: Mine was this year. Was in a relationship with a working class girl, she's done with her bsc and nysc, was working and doing her msc. Smart pretty girl. 28 yrs old.
Dated her for like 10months, then started talking marriage and took her to see my parents. She's always been scared of marriage for reasons not clear to me. So as soon as the talk of marriage came in we started having issues from nowhere. I even started having attacks. She one day just up and told me she wanted out, that she's tired of relationships. I cried, i was shattered, I was confused.
I started seeing her in my dream and in each dream there's always a man in the picture (even b4 she asked for a breakup I've seen her in my dream and a man was there in the picture).
Two days after she asked for a breakup i saw her in my dream. This time it was her, the man and kids in a family house all living normal, i was like a spectator in the dream.
Without telling my dream to anyone I consulted a pastor friend of mine who has the gift of seeing to pray with me about the issue cos i really loved the girl and somehow within me i knew that wasn't her (i didnt tell the pastor about the dream). The pastor told me days after that she's initiated in the marine kingdom, the pastor even mentioned words she used when breaking up with me, words i never told him, he said those words weren't hers. A spirit spoke thru her.. (NB: she has always told me alot that atimes she says things that she doesn't even know when it comes out of her mouth). I was shocked and scared. I mustered up courage and confronted her with the revelations. She confirmed it was true, no marriage attempt on her has been successful no matter how much she wanted it, a problem will always break the relationship. She told me of dreams she usually has of having sex in her dream, even of recent after she broke up with me two men came and raped her in her dream. She said even her mom has been told of the issue at hand and has been praying about it. She cried that night, she was even scared.
But later on self deception came in, she told herself she was ok. She refused the help she admitted to needing after i told her what the issue with her was. Today we are no longer together but i still try to encourage her from afar. She has lost interest in even going to church. She's become defensive about the whole thing.
Anyone who tells you spirit husband is a myth is only spiritually blind. When they know better, they'll respond better.
These are real issues.
If u want to marry better be prayerful no matter how much unholy u think you've been or u think u are, still pray. Once your heart is pure towards her, God will come to your aid and reveal things you can't sense with your physical senses., u know love blinds. You too as a man please know that sex isn't love. Be wise. Good day to you Sir, Please how can I get intouch with you privately, for more clarification on the subject matter. I look forward to your response. Thanks in anticipation |