₦airaland Forum

NwaAmaikpe:



We have all been misled for so long, but it is best we demystify this myth, not for ourselves but for posterity and people in your shoes; because you will soon be gaslighted by woke people who will call you inconsiderate, selfish, nagging and not supportive enough.

First things first, she has to quit the job and be a housewife for a while if you are to salvage your relationship.

Sex is not a want, it is a need.
A human need, which comes with an urge....just the same way as hunger.

We all know that women view marriage as a trophy that gives them the privilege of the title 'Mrs' and having children, but she should not rub it on your face that your job is done.

It is justified to come back from work really drained and not have the appetite for sex, just like it is possible to come back so drained from work that you can't even eat till you've rested.
You've not written anywhere that you chuck your preek straight at her face once she walks through the door, so I just have to believe that you initiate sex when you have assessed it to be alright to.

As long as a person is not mentally or emotionally distressed wherein a temporary loss in appetite arises,
(emphasis on the word temporary, because when someone gets a terrible news, they'd instantly lose the appetite for food, and grieve for days but they eventually recommence eating).

So a persistent refusal of intimacy and becoming workcentric despite appeals and interventions from her parents is a symptom of an even more malignant problem.
How come the same woman who is too tired for sex, is not too tired to breastfeed her kids; simply because it is a need.
But these are both needs?

My worry even gets worse with your concern about the kids not getting much attention from her.
If her job is not what the family survives on, why will she be that passionate to work on public holidays, school holidays, and every Saturday?
Reflect on this and you'd see, you alone enabled her!

Verily, verily, I can say unto you, if the Holy Bible deemed it fit to equate a mother's love and attention for her own kids as unshakeable, then you do not need a native doctor to tell you there is a big distraction somewhere.

A big distraction that she has become addicted to, because every woman who has cheated will tell you that there is nothing as addictive as the attention from a strange man.
So break the addiction and get her to quit that job ASAP.

God forbid that a woman you married with your own money does not get turned on when you touch her.
It is a natural response to stimuli, because that same woman who has painted sex with you to be a difficult chore will get drenchingly wet if she reads an erotic novel, watch porn or gets fiddled by another man.

Social media, streaming sites, greed, an excess of men ever-ready to shag people's wifes and acute poverty has made Nigerian women extremely susceptible to not just being distracted but ultimately unfaithful.

If she does not value your preek, look for someone who will. But because no one will love your preek like you, try to masturrbate a bit more as you seek clarity to this misfortune in your relationship.

Because like I said when i started off, sex is a need and if she does not want to get this need from you, who then is meeting this need for her when she leaves your house for work?

Educationalserv:
marry Second wife problem solved
you be African Man don't let Europeans used religion to make you unafrica

emkz:
Natashism

Natashism: is an infection whose major symptom is the artistry of prostituting from one controversy to another without following any to the end or supplying evidence on claims made.

Supply evidence in the court of public opinion where trial was initiated by them. They didn't.

File a case in court and present evidence. No.

Okay, file evidence in senate petition. They filed affidavit.

What kind of law are they teaching?

The virus has caused a pandemic of endless drama.

Say NO to possession of Natashism.

All these could not have happened if she had simply moved to her seat.

But without authorization, she went to Interparliamentary Union and claimed to have registered as an independent with the insignia "Nigeria" boldly in front of her. For that alone, she must he punished. Her issue with Akpabio is a separate matter.

If she registered as an independent, she had no right to sit behind the "Nigeria" insignia witjout authorization. That way, she made herself a representative of the country, whereas she went there to peddle her issue with Akpabio.

That is treason.

Educationalserv:
bros I be Long term investor .Fixed income , Stock market ,Land banking . Forget alll this suit wearing grammer Portfolio this and that .
Am given your real life experience not grammar .so of the fund manager don't have real life experience of 15 years
finish university and start wearing suit up and down with big grammar.
Big Grammer told us if we Float Naira we land and Converge at 750 .that man always on channels new
now we Crash landed at 1638 wiping 10 year investment in Naira value

GOFRONT:
Me I want to donor.......Will they give me a sweet girl??

rotecch77:
Watch out

Educationalserv:
I regret investing in naira Treasury bill for last 10 years . inflation and devaluation has made it a stupid investment.
Our parents where not wrong .
Land /real estate Remain the passive way to riches
Am a Victim learn from me
My business partner that bought 3 plots in a Govt Layouts 5m 12years ago built duplexs
on it has Sold them for 450m naira in 2025
Properties have reprice and added devaluation and inflation and profit.
Another Land bought for 800k in 2006
Built a bungalow for 3m
Sold to 80m .
Outside the rent that he has received

Shellsploit:
Ndi aka odo

AllBlack:
I write well and I have written for people too (paid) but sometimes it is okay to be goofy and they say PICTURES SAY A THOUSAND WORDS so I think it is cool to be creative with memes. Some are D.O.A but when you meet creative people with wicked sense of humour, you will appreciate stuff like this.
Now for you to come up with such a BASE conclusion shows how BASIC you and your sense of humour are. Your point of view clearly shows how narrow minded you are.

Eriokanmi:
Keep exposing yourself. You go tink say na oyinbo land you dey. When your yam sprouts, you eat it with your hands covering your mouth. It's a wise adage. You're not impressing anyone by exposing yourself to the public. Keep your fortune to yourself. It's very risky in our clime. Enough said

Built2last:
Can anyone tell me why businesses spring up in Nigeria. Begins to bloom and blossom and give it 10 to 20 years. It fizzles out.

I have been thinking about this

Mr Biggs- Gone.
KFC almost Dead.
SFC -Dead
Savanna Chum chum- Dead

Countless businesses in all sectors. Start and never exceeds 2 to 3 decades.

Only few musicians last 15 years actively in the scene and they fade. Why can't they write and keep pushing out music. Even if they can't write. People hire writers. What is wrong with Naija.

The same time English people built their rail ways was when they built the ones they left in Nigeria. 30 years after they left. rail way died. efforts to resuscitate it has taken ages.

What is wrong with our Country?

dominique:
No evidence of this other than a tweet from their handle

Righteousness2:
Iron dome, Golden Dome; Good, technical and cool.
But dont be Deceived or let anyone Deceive you.
ISRAEL Orginal iron dome is not its Weapons or Expertise.

ISRAEL'S IRON DOME that has kept its SURVIVAL and VICTORY from Generation to Generation is GOD'S COVENANT WITH ISRAEL.

No nation on the face of the Earth, irrespective of how Strong, technical, rich or Powerful you are, can go through a Quater of what the Jews/ ISRAEL have been through and still be alive talkless of Striving in VICTORY, GLORY and PROSPERITY.

Imagine a nation with less than 10Million people, living in the Midst of Fierce Deadly Enemies and Haters, yet Prospering Tremendously and Ruling in the MIDST of its Enemies. IT CAN ONLY BE THE ALMIGHTHY GOD. IT CAN ONLY BE THE GOD OF ABRAHAM, ISAAC AND ISRAEL KEEPING TO HIS COVENANT.

lexy2014:
are you saying that you have been worn out by my questions?

Angelfrost:
Lol... I think he meant to say:

No man SHOULD go 3 or more rounds in a night.

Just like it is unhealthy to over-eat, over-exercise, etc... Same goes for sex too.

Naturally, the body is not designed for such needless exertion.

Sex no be food abeg.

Proserpina:
he's right because I think he's right

lexy2014:
cc: Assistant DG , Nairaland, these is the guy I am talking about, ban this account for 7000 years, hahaha









what have you started again?

Mightymanna:
Be where you are loved no matter their condition

Kingpele:
Ok well I believe the governor is doing everything APC is known for ,they're even complaining to the master of grab it and run away with it..like he's different

lexy2014:
what have you started again?

lexy2014:
This account will be banned again like l did few days ago 😔

lexy2014:
what have you started again?

lexy2014:
what have you started again?

lexy2014:
how do you know that the dude is not busy?

why should he not be proud of his sexual proficiency and stamina?

descarado:
The right people who should debate this are ladies. Not men. Even pigs can fly here

lexy2014:
what is their God-given energy truly intended for?

how is the present state of nigeria a product of most men not using their God-given energy for what it was truly intended for?

lexy2014:
how do you know that the dude is not busy?

why should he not be proud of his sexual proficiency and stamina?