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Chigurl, you are not alone with your experience. Here in London, where I am living, people do not have nice stories about the Nigerian guys. I have a lot of Nigerian girl friends here and the stories they tell me are often so sad. They all turned away from their own men because of that. It is really heartbreaking what these guys are doing. I myself suffered badly from a Nigerian guy. I would never again fall for one. The white guys know much better how to treat a woman, how to make her feel appreciated and happy.
I never thought I would say something like this one day.

What is that 
Affairs?
I never had any affair in my entire life. I just had two long relationships altogether.
How can you know that I "flaunt around those that are lifeless"
He is never lifeless at all, by the way.
And I am someone who does not need to flaunt around anyone.
He was the one who found me.
And he tried everything to get me and it took him 18 months.
My heart is broken and I am fed up with this forum.
Cheers!

Thanks for your answers.
And now to you "chrisd".
I am not british, I am just living there.
My man persuaded me to be his wife and I resisted long time because I did not support the idea of a black-white relationship in the beginning.  I had heard too many bad stories about Nigerian guys. But he got me where he wanted me after one and a half years.
My mentality is to fully to be on the side of my man once I am his, obey him and support him and be faithful and honest.
I did everything for him until things didnt work any more. I even forgot about my own wishes because I always was his dedicated woman.
Maybe you are frustrated "chrisd", thats why you are writing silly nuisance.
British women have more brain than you, thats for sure.

Hello to everybody here!
I am a white woman and I want to find out something from the Nigerian people here. Maybe you can be so kind to give me honest answers.
I have been together with my man for seven years now. He is Edo from Benin City.
He holds the European passport.
Broken Heart

For years now I have been supporting him financially. He had so many projects which all failed.
I knew it before and advised him not to do that but look for a proper job with a regular income.
He always became very angry when I wanted to advise him and in the end I let him do what he wanted and had to pay the lost money.
Recently he decided to study. I have to mention that he is in his late fourties, not a young boy any more. I supported him with a lot of money as well but now I must face a court trial because I am unable to pay my bills any more.
I am absolutely unable to help him any more for a while. He refuses to understand this and said he will look for another woman and just broke up our relationship like that.
I am really devastated.
I am not an ugly woman. I am pretty, all what a man can long for, with a good job.
Once he betrayed me with another girl but he came back. I saw the girl. She could not compare herself to me. We had big trouble when this happened.
He always said that he will never find another woman like me.
And now, because of money, he dumps me.
His siblings like me and they say that he made a big mistake
I love him still and my heart is broken.
Is this a common behaviour of Nigerian men?