i have been dating this guy for 5 months now. before we stated dating, he calls me regularly and always want to talk to me but after some period of dating the rate at which we communicate has decreased.i dont feel any connection with him. and another thing is he is yet to pay the money he owes me and keeps saying he will pay but still noting but even at i dont use that against him, i still hold on to the relationship. am not the type of person that puts pressure on somone. he recently got a job in another state and at times he wont call for days but still i try to call and all, our communication level is lower. i really dont know what to do. something in me wants to quit and another part wants me to hold on.