Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,152,692 members, 7,816,827 topics. Date: Friday, 03 May 2024 at 06:03 PM

Anthonysilvia's Posts

Nairaland Forum / Anthonysilvia's Profile / Anthonysilvia's Posts

(1) (of 1 pages)

Romance / How To Apologize To Your Ex by Anthonysilvia: 10:36pm On Aug 24, 2014
When trying to figure out how to apologize to your ex it is very important that you realize that a good apology has the possibility of saving your relationship. That being said a bad apology could destroy your chances of getting your ex back.

So the answer to "How To Apologize To Your Ex" is not as simple as it seems. It is important you understand the true meaning of an apology. When making an true apology you must admit your wrongdoing without any justification or excuses. You never want to say I'm sorry But... Just take responsibility and admit that you were completely wrong.

Don't wait to make the apology, just be quick and timely if you know you messed up then fess up! The last thing you want to do is make your ex's feelings toward you get worse over time. Make it a heartfelt, sincere apology.

When you apologize make sure the apology is for exactly what you did wrong. Don't be simple minded and just say, "I'm sorry" you need to tell them exactly what you are sorry for and add a couple of examples on how you could of handled the situation more appropriately.

You want to admit your wrong doings and never shift the apology to reasons you may have acted the way you did. Just act maturely and fess up to what you did with no excuses. They need to know that you understand what you did, and you know that it was wrong.

You may be in the situation that your actions need an explanation. If so make sure to be truthful and honest. They will understand that you are not perfect, and will be more likely to forgive you.

"How to apologize to your ex" is a frequently asked question and most people do not know a true apology. It shows that you are sincere and acting very mature that you are trying to find out how to do it right.

You need to make amends in your apology. You should ask them what you can possibly do to win back their trust. If your ex tells you, then be sure to make a commitment to changing your ways. If your ex will not tell you then dig deep and I'm sure you will find a way to make it up to here. And remember actions speak louder than words.

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

Now you can stop your break up or lover’s rejection...even if your situation seems hopeless! There are specific techniques that will show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying... Visit Does My Ex Boyfriend Still Love Me

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Here's a video to help you:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1ry2p_zYMg
How To Contact Your Ex
Romance / My Ex Is Mad At Me - How To Get Your Ex To Forgive You by Anthonysilvia: 10:38pm On Aug 23, 2014
So you did something to upset your ex and you want forgiveness. It's not an easy task, is it? Begging for forgiveness isn't going to work if you haven't tried that already. In fact, it'll probably make you just look weak and pathetic.

If you really want to get your ex to forgive you for everything you've felt like you've done wrong, then you should probably learn how to get your ex back the right way!

So rule number one of getting your ex to forgive you is to not act desperate. Again, no begging. Yes, you need to be sorry for whatever you did. Yes, you need to be held accountable for the errors that you've made, but if you cry, weep, beg, plead on your knees, you'll totally turn your ex off.

What you need to do is apologize via words and then say something along the lines of "I know apologizing isn't enough and I wish I could do more, but I can't." Then end it.

The second rule is to give your ex some space. After you apologize, don't keep apologizing. Let the apology fester in his or her mind. You're likely going to have to apologize again in the future, but once you do it a few times, you should back off.

Why?

Well, a few reasons. Emotions are a strong force once you apologize to someone, the anger, sadness, and depression aren't going to go away overnight. You'll have to wait. I mean, think about the last time you were really angry at somebody and then they apologized. I bet your anger didn't vanish in a millisecond - I bet it took a little bit of time before the adrenaline and emotions subsided.

That's when you probably started to feel like a rational human being again!

So I would suggest you give your ex a few weeks to simmer down.

Rule number three is to make him or her forget about what you did wrong. After you've apologized and let things simmer down, contact your ex again but don't bring up anything serious or dramatic. You want to avoid the serious and dramatic right now.

Message him or her in a playful tone. Don't apologize again and don't seem edgy or depressed - just seem happy and convey to your ex that your life is in order.

You'll want to hit the so-called "reset" button on your guys' relationship, so that means that the past should be gone and erased from your memory, and you need to start fresh by rebuilding your image.

Look, your ex is never going to forget what you did wrong. As the old adage goes, "forgive but don't forget" - but to be honest, the last part of that adage is unnecessary. People never forget when they've been so wronged.

What you can control is the present. So focus on making your ex feel good, instead of telling him or her how much you feel bad.

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

Now you can stop your break up or lover’s rejection...even if your situation seems hopeless! There are specific techniques that will show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying... Visit How to Make Your Ex Jealous

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Here's a video to help you get your ex back:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-TrzNZFm8Y

How to Get Back Your Love
Romance / How To Save A Relationship - 7 Things You Can Do Right Now To Stop A Breakup by Anthonysilvia: 10:22pm On Aug 23, 2014
It is possible to save a relationship even if you seem to be the only one who is trying to fix it. That's because these 7 tips will make your partner ALSO want to stop the breakup from happening, and the best part is, you can do these things 7 things RIGHT NOW to save your relationship:

Suspend Your Emotions - When we are emotional we say rash things, make hasty decisions, and do things we later regret. The sooner you suspend your emotions, the sooner you gain control and the sooner your partner will calm down.

Talk Without Pointing Fingers - The breakup is happening, because you two can't ever have a discussion without the blame and judgment games happening. Suspend your criticisms, judgments, and comebacks and have a discussion that's void of all the negativity from your end.

ASK Your Partner What Is Going Wrong - The fights are happening, because your partner feels they aren't being heard; thus you can eliminate it by simply asking them what they think is going wrong. Hear them out, and listen, even when they criticize and judge you, because they simply just want you to listen for a change.

Admit That You Need To Change - You've spent a lot of your time denying that you need to change by never admitting your mistakes, and by justifying your poor actions. Be humble and recognize openly to your partner that you need to change and ask for their input.

Remove The Relationship Talks - Right now both of you are concentrating on everything that is going wrong with the relationship and it puts a lot of stress and strain on both of you, and on the relationship. Take some space and don't discuss the relationship, and instead discuss each other individually and your individual goals for instance.

Do A Check Up System - Give your partner a chance to tell you what to do, and let them tell you how they want you to do it. THEN, create a check up system wherein you check up with your partner to ensure that they are happy with your progress and that things are going the way they want finally. Giving your partner some control here will help them feel like it's a two way street, instead of just a one way, wherein only YOU make the decisions.

Tell Your Partner You Appreciate Them - He/she may feel like you don't appreciate them enough. They may think you take them for granted, are not thankful, and simply don't know everything that they sacrifice for you. Let them know that you appreciate them by telling them how and why you do, so that your partner can feel desired and useful again.

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

Now you can stop your break up or lover’s rejection...even if your situation seems hopeless! There are specific techniques that will show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying... Visit How to Get Your Ex Back to find out more.

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Here's a video to help you:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzJuQs5GnzU

How to Make My Ex Miss Me

(1) (of 1 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 40
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.