tallfish145: As a woman assuming your husband who is going through some financial stress walked up to you and ask you to sell any of your valuables to start some business that will be for the interest of the family. Note,the intention is to use the money to start something that will be for the benefit of his family. Can you make such sacrifice
Gentlesoul2021: I don’t know what prompt me in doing this
An average man salary is 100k Oya let’s calculate the total money he spend in a year 100k in a year is 1million
House rent 300,000 in a year Food every month 30k manageable 360k Kids school fees let’s say average schl lowest of the lowest 10k per term nd he has 2kids that’s 20k per term times 4term in a year 80,000 Tfare from his house to work daily 1k that’s 360k Electricity 5k per month that’s 60k yearly
Let’s just add this up first that’s close to 1.2million on a year
Do you still want to be a liability? Do you still think a man will marry you without having a surge of income
Do you still think a man won’t run away if your Wahala plenty
Addressing his fans during a live session, award-winning Nigerian artiste, Burna Boy revealed that his current busy life style won’t allow him have time for his kids as much as he would like to.
He added that he would start having kids when he’s more settled and can be there for them everyday.
I support you hundred percent. Don't have any kids yet. If possible don't have kids.
Melagros: COMRADES, below are the photos of the Tor Tiv reconciling SGF Akume and Hyacinth Alia the governor of Benue State after a longstanding feud between the duo, now they are back on track together for the interest and progress of Benue State
However, the case is usually different when it comes to political loggerheads in the Niger Delta. The political scenario displaying itself in Rivers State today, it had displayed itself in the Niger Delta States. Bayelsa State, is between Jonathan and Sylva. Edo State, Oshiomhole vs Obaseki. Rivers State, Ameachi vs Wike. Rivers State, Fubara vs Wike. Akwa Ibom State, Udom vs Akpabio etc. These political actors involved in a messy impasse that they don't say 'Hi' to each other to the extent that they even deleted each others phone numbers from their phones. Some enmity lasted as long as ten years without reconciliation up till date
Let us talk about the political situation in Rivers State today, who do you think suppose to reconcile the warring parties? The elders? The past governors? Or the traditional rulers? Because the president has tried his best in this case, unfortunately it could not work. Why do you think that political misunderstanding in Rivers State is always irreconcilable till infinity?
Here is a picture of men hugging each other. Whereas one big sadist fool on here said men who hug themselves are gay. Wereeey sombody.
labake1: As a proud Liberal and Gender Feminist, I can't help but enlightened you about the various kinds of Feminism we have. So you can do more research. Plus, I have a recognized certificate in "Feminism and Social Studies" and also a research paper on FEMINISM. You can ask me any questions.
Feminists wey no get money or fit spend money for man. Eyin wereeey😂
The best thing for any sane nigerian man now is to enjoy his live. Leave those who still want to get hooked up. They will always learn the hardest way.
Most of the men don't know what those women are up to these days. Emotionally damaged, entitled, and extremely hypergamous bitches everywhere.
As for me i have zeroed my mind as well. Na wickedness remain for street now!
Double0h7: She must’ve been fine af because she had you bugging out for 2 years. I can’t even remember the name of the person I dated 2 years ago. All this is to console yourself and I hope it works. According to you you have won 🥇
Hahahaha OP sef na chief simp. How can someone curve you for two years. I don't waste time in deleting and blocking stupid forming people.
Well, it is 2024 and I have dislodged myself of any emotional attachment to her but I did notice that she has been making some compliments on my pictures but I didn't move.
Previously I didn't share my pictures much but I started doing that more often started in 2023. And the compliments kept coming whenever she saw my pictures... Of course, it was a sign, I knew what it was but I didn't move.
On the other hand, when upload hers, I just view them and never say a word of compliment, unlike what I used to do 2 years ago.
Then I decided to probe and find out what was happening because all these compliments can't just be for no reason.
I teased her that I had wanted to marry her and she chose her job for better or worse. She then responded with a meme and said she was just trying to get back on her feet and things were hard (excuses she used to give). I told her she would have communicated with me and not that I would have hindered her in any way but would have supported her.
Now, I have opened the window for her to come out openly (with that thing that has been making her compliment my pictures) and she took it....
Guess what? She said well I am expecting your wedding invitation soon.
Now, a novice would think she meant wedding invitation, but I knew it meant something else and had to reply by playing along. I told asked her if she does not want to get married that it is her I want to marry (just pulling her legs lol).
She then asked "But you are in a relationship". She is trying to see if the window is still open for her to come in.
This further confirmed what I was suspecting. I revealed that I had one before but pulled out because she did not want to cook.
So I asked her, do you want to tell me that you haven't been in a relationship all this while? She said she tried talking to SOMEONE NEW AFTER ME BUT THE GUY LEFT TO THE UNITED KINGDOM
Hmmm..... Now the picture is clear. Her plan A failed, so she wanted to fall back on me as a backup plan, hence the reason for all those compliment for which she didn't do more than compliment because she thought it was enough to get me running back to her.
Anyway, I told her she messed up and that at a point, I had wanted to even relocate to her base because of her...
She then asked "Do you still like me that much?" hmmm So she knew all along that I liked her but was intentionally sabotaging the whole thing.
I later told her that it is too late now because I already had someone I wanted to marry. Her tone of message changed and you could feel the regret coming from her end.
I told her she messed up big time and I only did what she wanted me to do, which was leave her alone. I reminded her of how she sabotaged two attempts I made to see her and let's talk, even last year 2023, I tried again. I said a lot and told her and told her that I am only revealing all these to her cos I wanted her to do better.
She promised to do better and change. She expressed she has learned her lessons and will do better.
At one point, I was forced to ask her and said I thought it was not important to her like she was not interested in a relationship(cos that was the impression she was always giving as per busy busy, work)... She queried why wouldn't it be important. She admitted that is important to her but she was just trying to clear up before throwing up her emotions again (excused from backfired plans). I say excuse cos I was patient enough... At a point she said God will bring her own... Oh really? Bring your own? I thought you weren't ready for a relationship?
There were other things she said... but I was satisfied that I had gotten the information I needed at last. Unfortunately for her, I do not give such ladies a second chance, ladies who consider me as backup... I never take that backup option. If you read the two links I dropped above, you see where I told her to delete my number
Summary is: A girl telling you she is not ready for a relationship or she is busy is lying to you. She is saying all that because she has her eyes somewhere else. She will only consider you IF the one she is aiming for is no longer available and you as a man MUST make sure you do not take her back. A woman who never wanted you in the past cannot want you in the present.
She will only pretend and mask it because she needs to procreate and you seem like the only available choice to help her achieve that, it does not mean she suddenly loves, like or want you. Women are expect at sacrificing their desires at the expense of getting married and having kids. This means they can furk a guy the don't love and bear his child.
Another thing they do not consider is that as much as they are aiming for that richer, more comfortable dude, over 50 girls are aiming for the same... the competition is high and does not favour their usual "shakara"
I just felt like sharing the ending story... I am glad it happened, I am glad to find out that I was actually a great dude (according her lol).
I do hope the smart ladies who will read this piece will pick a feather of wisdom from this... Sorry for the typo.. I am just trying to type as fast as I can because I have some other task to handle.
Problems of those of you who do marriage😂
We na partnership and friends we dey do. No emotional attachment or whatsoever. Nigeria is the worst place to be in the world for anything meaningful talkless looking for emotional things. Your fastest route to misery.
Samson said more than that until he met his Waterloo in female gender. A woman is giving u advise on her gender and u re forming boss, your time never reach in their hands.
Stop giving attention to kids. He will learn with time.
The best lessons of life are always learnt the hardest and regretful way.
I'm 21 years and would be 22 this year. I would be finishing school by September and I plan to leave my parents house totally by the end of this year. Although staying with my parents guarantee me free food and comfort I think on the long run it would limit me.
What's your advice??
You have overstayed at your parents house. Leave that house immediately. At your age 22years, You are supposed to have your personal house and be married and also have a good business or job.
As for me i left my parents house when i was 15years old. I built my first house when i clocked 19years old. I have three houses and landed properties across the country today.
It might be very challenging at first but you will scale through. Don't let anyone discourage you.
BigYash: Once secondary pikin carry em mama phone login nairaland ,na once you go know.. This one don go argue with his mates in class,come here wan insult his parents age mates ..
lamboloosta: Honestly it's really tiring and frustrating to be single because most ladies always assume how can a good looking guy like me not have a woman.
There's this loneliness that comes with been Single and everyone would think you're actually good but it's a BIG FAT LIE.
When ladies see me, what comes to their mind is *He's A Player*
Excuse you... It ain't my fault that I'm good looking.
I'm 32
I'm Yoruba
I'm AA
I'm a Christian
I'm 6'1
I'm moderately built because I work out.
I reside in Lagos.
I drive on Uber.
I'm a Car Dealer.
I'm into Project Management & Supervision as well.
I'm very big on RESPECT, Cleanliness & Godliness.
I speak English, Yoruba & Pidgin fluently
I'm a very understanding guy but I'm not perfect as mistakes are inevitable.
I've met some ladies but truth is they really don't tick my boxes I set as the benchmark.
WHAT'S MY IDEAL WOMAN ?
Intelligent
Diligent
Kind & Respectful
Smart
Beautiful
Independent (Have a job)
Good Looking.
I prefer ladies with BIG BUM & BOOBS .
Any complexion is acceptable as long as you're pretty asf
Please be Neat, like Extremely Neat
A Christian Yoruba Lady preferably who resides in Lagos.
Abeg I like food o! so please you must know how to cook but if you don't, we can learn on YouTube together lol. I'm a good cook anyways.
If you fall into this category please kindly reach me on WhatsApp:07088104438
I'm actually looking for a serious relationship that would lead to Marriage if God wills it.
Please speak well and type well abeg.
Lol this one no fit hold body again. How many ladies have you seen posting this kind of post
YoungLionken: Sometimes, I look at men listening to Westlife and Celine Dion with disgust . And I always suspect them to be gay too..
I mean, I can't imagine myself singing Celine Dion with passion or whatever that is ...
Celinedion is still better but all these nigerian artiste songs is too simpish most especially that young john or whatever he call himself. Well it's not new that nigerian men are generally simps.
Melagros: COMRADES, abeg make una leave tinubu alone, the man don cast, and confused, I'm pretty sure that Tinubu is regretting ever rigging election in Nigeria by now
Lol funny creatures. Regret what exactly?
Someone that his having his best time of life and fill fulfilled by accomplishing his greatest mission on earth which is make more massive wealth and inflict excruciating pains on the forever green zombees.
UniversalGee: Like I said, it's online marketing. And yeah, passive income is earning without doing any work. I really did a whole lot of hard work in the past to set everything up though. And from time to time, I do make some updates, but so far, it's fully automated.
Family / Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Anunakeeh: 6:12pm On May 16
. And I always suspect them to be gay too..