Xenry:
If you have focus/aim in this life, then you would leave certain stuffs and girls alone and hustle like say tommorow no dey. Girls are emotional beings, and emotions are distractive.
It usually ends in premium tears, because you guys may eventually break up when she finds a rich or better dude. They like money, not the time you spend with them— so use that time and make money (that will eventually attract them to you).
Wahala for who dey view/see fvcking, dating or chasing girls as his top priorities, because for me anything about love, sex or dating no dey enter my head these days... It's more like a scam to me, because it would eventually return to the nothingness it came from.
Though money may not form a healthy relationship for you, but at least it can attract people and you would run the rest by yourself.
Inside this life, you would eventually realize that you are actually alone. Even your siblings will eventually get their own family and stop being bothered about you, are your parents currently being bothered more about their siblings? No, and that's how it would eventually be with you—they would always choose their family over you. We actually came to the world alone, live alone and will eventually leave alone.
So what I'm saying is this, stop deceiving yourself, if you are handsome, cute or get pink lips, my brother forget about those things, money na fineness — nothing else. So improve yourself mentally, physically, emotionally and financially, because it is your better-self that would attract people, love and better opportunities to you. The street ain't smiling bro, so try and always get things right. |
abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.
Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.
When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.
His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.
I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.
My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do. |
Romance › Re: The Street Ain't Smiling, Be Strong And You Will Make It Big! by ardythe0: 3:39am On Mar 09, 2021
