₦airaland Forum

Willy2025:
Patanmi is a strong supporter of extremists by extension the BH and ISWAP its offshoot. It will be catastrophic if the man is elected under any political party at all. He introduced BVN and NIN, yet violent crimes like banditry and kidnapping are on exponential increase with the NIN serving no value for the security agencies.

ARISHEM:
The US are trying to bring out a reason why they should attack Iran. They want to frustrate Iran and force them to be the first to attack their vessels. And give the world a good justification when they retaliate.
That reminds me of pearl harbor. Back then Japan was forced to attack US ships and vessels and before you know it, things got out of hand.

ufotunang:
.. don't you see the man looks like Osama bin laden 🙄

dapadawee:
Your comment even made you more hypocritical than I thought. Where did you hear the pastor saying he's not a true Christian.

dapadawee:
You could see the excess in the pastors action but very blind to see the excessive beard. Hypocrite

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

Openair:
Technically it's still 6 when you count our win next week.