Pets › Re: Woman Left Speechless After Talking Bird Tries To Communicate With Her Dog (vid) by ARISHEM: 6:15pm On Jul 25 |
The dog got scared. Over here in my village we call it possessed or bewitchment and not intelligent.  |
Crime › Re: Man Recounts Spending 47 Years In Prison After Detention At Age 13 by ARISHEM: 4:24pm On Jul 25 |
The compensation he deserves is more than invaluable. He is right when he rejected the kind of material compensation which I know amounts to nothing to how much time and life that has been wasted |
Politics › Re: Fake Agency Originated From Buhari Government— Budget Office Explains by ARISHEM: 2:19pm On Jul 25 |
What he did with the billions allocated to the agency is still a mystery. |
Romance › Re: Man Exposes Hookup Girls Operating In Gwarinpa, Abuja (Video) by ARISHEM: 12:29pm On Jul 25*. Modified: 4:18pm On Jul 25 |
That means if you ask a man how he met his wife. And his reply is on how he met her in those places. Know that the man has married a correct prostitute |
Politics › Re: IG Orders Police Officers To Shoot Anyone Carrying Illegal Firearms by ARISHEM: 10:59am On Jul 25 |
runningriot: Are dispatched riders license to lethal or assault rifles? Haven't you heard that some of them unknowingly transport them to criminals |
Family › Re: Gen Z Kids Will Think That This Is A Shrine (photo) by ARISHEM: 9:28am On Jul 25 |
It becomes worse during Christmas.  |
Politics › Re: IG Orders Police Officers To Shoot Anyone Carrying Illegal Firearms by ARISHEM: 9:25am On Jul 25 |
Even if it is a dispatch rider.  |
Education › Re: How 21 Former Almajiri Children Learned Drone Assembly by ARISHEM: 6:36am On Jul 25 |
Of all training available, it is drone assembly they teach them.  |
Family › Re: They Became Best Friends – Then Discovered They Were Brother And Sister by ARISHEM: 10:31pm On Jul 24 |
Thank God they didn't fvck their brains out before realising they were siblings.  |
Romance › Re: Drunk Man Promised Lady ₦500k At The Club, But Gave Her ₦20k In The Morning by ARISHEM: 4:53pm On Jul 24 |
What work did he give her at the club for him to say he will pay her N500,000.  |
Food › Re: Someone Said He Bought These For ₦10,000 In 2021 (Photo) by ARISHEM: 3:43pm On Jul 24 |
guobe: Did a little search on Ai on a crate of egg in 2021 Tinubu goons will still say it is a lie. That AI can't be verified. |
Sports › Re: Marc Cucurella Keeps Long Hair Because Of His Autistic Son Mateo by ARISHEM: 3:14pm On Jul 24 |
His hair was long before he had his son. And since that is how his son can identify him he will leave that hair uncut |
Romance › Re: What To Do If A Woman Rejects You by ARISHEM: 3:00pm On Jul 24 |
Only a coward will insult and mock a girl or proceed to assault and aggression just because she rejected him. |
Crime › Re: U.S. Department Of State Condemns Killing Of Rev. Dachomo's Family Members by ARISHEM: 2:57pm On Jul 24*. Modified: 3:40pm On Jul 24 |
Gumi should be identified as the suspect. He will not condemn the attacks but will scream empty coffins |
Science/Technology › Re: Bioko Island Where Rare Primates Are Vanishing by ARISHEM: 11:30am On Jul 24 |
Rare animals like this are mother nature gifts. But here in Africa it is food |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Alejandra Omaña 'Amaranta Hank' Sworn In As Senator In Colombia (Pic) by ARISHEM: 11:24am On Jul 24 |
They made ashewo their leader. |
Politics › Re: I Governed Osun For Eight Years Without Owning A House – Aregbesola by ARISHEM: 11:02am On Jul 24 |
Yet you own hectares of land, estates, hotels, guest houses, factories and companies. Meanwhile that could mean house is different from mansion. You can't deceive me.  |
Crime › Re: "If You Were Igbo..."– Police Officer, UK Returnee Clash Over Bribe Request by ARISHEM: 10:09am On Jul 24 |
Once they are on the road with that uniform they lose their senses immediately |
Travel › Re: Fake Job Offers Lured Us Into Cote D’Ivoire Sex Slavery — Survivors by ARISHEM: 7:34am On Jul 24 |
The operators deserve life imprisonments. I hope they get caught. |
Romance › Re: I Intended To Propose, But Ended Up Breaking Up On Her Birthday by ARISHEM: 2:05am On Jul 24*. Modified: 2:54am On Jul 25 |
Many ladies mails and inboxes are full of preeqs of different sizes and structures. It's not new that they receive all this gbolas on a daily basis on their social media handles from strangers. The important thing is the conversations made during the sending of the gbolas and the interactions and feedbacks between the sender and the recipients. Jumping into conclusion that she is unfaithful because she receive preeq photo without finding any verbal or written romantic interactions involved is over reacting. You don't deserve her. |
Romance › Re: Man Caught His Wife With A Love Machine (Video) by ARISHEM: 3:37pm On Jul 23*. Modified: 12:27am On Jul 24 |
The exchange coming from this yoruba couples are so hilarious.  The dead shock husband while clapping his hands keep repeating you use money buy dildõ. Is my preeq not big enough for you. Shey you no dey cry as I dey give am to you.......................  And the alarmed crying wife tried in vain to shut him up by saying leave me alone. Do you know the reason why I got it. Do you want the Neighbourhood to hear what you are saying. Calm down small and let me explain.............  |
Crime › Re: Court Sentences Kidnappers Of Oyo Schoolchildren To Life Imprisonment by ARISHEM: 1:45pm On Jul 23*. Modified: 2:39pm On Jul 23 |
What is wrong with Nigerian judiciary. The reasons they kidnap the school children was because some of the terrorists were imprisoned by wanting the government to free them. The colleagues of these ones might kidnap another set of school children and want to force another swap leading to death of some people.
I am sure the families of the victims they murdered and the community they attacked won't be satisfied with this judgement. |
Romance › Re: My Near Rape Experiences by ARISHEM: 12:10pm On Jul 23 |
BosyBabe: Good day, after going through a lot of back and forth within myself I finally decided to put my story out there. This is not in a bid to garner sympathy but in the hope that my story could help someone get out of a similar situation.
Growing up as a young lady in Nigeria is quite difficult especially one who receives a lot of male attention. I experienced a lot of abuse while growing up. I was beaten, fingered, molested and harassed as early as age 4. At a point I tried to speak up but I wasnt believed so I became accustomed to it and didnt bother to mention it again.
My first near-rape experience occurred at age 16. The perpetrator was a coursemate who happened to like me and had been asking me out for a couple of months. Despite my continually rejecting him, he was persistent. At a point he started stalking me, then calling me with strange numbers and calling at odd hours like 1 or 2am. I just overlooked it all and felt he would get tired at some point.
The day that the incident occurred I was going to school at around 5pm to study for a test. On my way, I noticed the guy following me. He than came up to me and asked for me to hear him out but i refused. We kept arguing for about 3 hours on the road, I kept trying to get away but he wouldn't let me, I even tried to get the attention of a few passersby but no one bothered to help (they probably thought it was a lovers quarrel). At a point I began crying and begging him to let me go but he refused.
A friend of his saw us and came up to us and asked me to just hear the guy out. I finally agreed because I was so exhausted and drained. They both suggested that I and the guy go and talk in his friends room which was just across the road. I agreed and we went in, I sat on the bed and listened. This guy proceeded to kneel and beg me to date him, I agreed just so he would let me be.
The next thing I knew was that he had jumped on me and started groping me. I struggled, cried and pleaded with him but he didnt stop. He went on to rip my trousers open and pull off my panties. I struggled furiously and even tried to screamed but that earned me some dirty slaps. I felt defeated. All I could think of was how much I hated the helplessness I felt which was so similar to what I felt as a child.
Suddenly, a thought popped into my head about a rape survival story I had seen a while back, I decided to try it out. I stopped struggling and just acted calm, I guess he took that as good sign and stopped hitting me. He held my two hands with his one hand and used the other to pull down his trouser. He then began to rub himself on me, I prayed and made a split second decision. I pulled my knee up and hit him in the balls as hard as I could before he could recover I pushed him off, jumped up and began to scream as loud as I could, I carried a standing fan which was close by and smashed every single thing I could in the room. People came rushing in and that's how I was saved. It was so crazy that a guy had to help me with something to cover up because I didn't even realize that I was naked from the waist down.
A few years later, I had my second near-rape encounter. One night while going to the hostel after seeing a friend, I was accosted by a security personnel. He claimed that I was out too late and he would have to take me to the security office, I was surprised because that was around 9pm and there were still other people around so I argued with him, a colleague of his intervened and insisted that I follow them to the security office.
I agreed to go but I kept my distance from them. While walking, the security officer suddenly pushed me into a dark corner, pressed himself against me and began to tell me all the things he was going to do to me for arguing with him. I began to struggle and cry, I couldn't believe this was happening again. He tore my gown open and then my panties. When I tried to cover myself, he slammed my head and hands against the wall with such force that my wristwatch broke.
Once again faced with a situation I felt helpless to do anything about, I calmed myself down and said a silent prayer. I then began to pet him. I told him I wanted this too but it was all to sudden, he didnt listen to me at first but went on to pull down his trousers he then tried to penetrate me but i kept begging him that we should please hold off a bit
Eventually, he listened and said I was right because he doesnt trust uni girls so it would be best for him to use a condom considering that hes a family man. He held me and kept running his hands all over my body and told me that he wants me so much and I should promise that I would come see him the next day when he calls me. He even threatened to harm me if I didn't do as I promised. I did as he asked, gave him my number, promised to be back and ran as fast as my legs could take me.
The next day, with the support of friends I went to the school authorities, reported and he was subsequently sacked.
Despite years of abuse, these two events helped me see that I didnt have to always be a victim but that I can also be a victor. I was not as helpless as I thought.
The major point I would like to point out from my story is that aggression is not always the best option, often at times we can fight these rapists by being calm and rational. I went on to watch rape survival stories and realized that so many rape survivors avoid being raped, killed or further harmed by trying to reason with their attackers.
Also, allowing an attacker feel that he is in control can give one the opportunity to take him unawares and take back control. Being angry, fighting back, insulting him or threatening to expose him when the opportunity comes can just lead to more violence or him even going as far as trying to shut you up permanently. Thank God for your life. Not many ladies are lucky to recount all this. If you had died in the first escape experience the guy would defend himself with the usual excuse randy guys make by saying you were his girlfriend and cook up false stories that you were sick during your visitation. What happened to the him afterwards. Was he arrested. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Luis De La Fuente Has Officially Completed International Football by ARISHEM: 8:53am On Jul 23 |
He conquered all. He is an emperor of all trophies and international football |
Sports › Re: FIFA Names Nigeria Among 10 Countries That Must Not Miss 2030 World Cup by ARISHEM: 6:38am On Jul 23 |
Is our NFF serious. After they Bleep up they will now put the blame on the players. |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Shares New Bikini Pictures by ARISHEM: 10:38pm On Jul 22 |
Mad man |
Politics › Re: Adeleke's Reelection Suffers Setback Over Hashim As Stakeholders Setup Committee by ARISHEM: 9:01pm On Jul 22 |
Adeleke thinks he is a charismatic leader |
Celebrities › Re: DJ Chicken Hails Seyi Tinubu As ‘daddy’ After Release From Prison by ARISHEM: 5:03pm On Jul 22*. Modified: 9:11pm On Jul 22 |
What Prison did to him is more than brain resetting magic. Seeing how he switched jersey immediately shows they must have chickened him out to comply to terms and conditions for his release. A youth calling another youth of 8 to 10 years older than him Daddy after he had boastfully criticize him is something else.
That guy is indeed a chicken. |
Education › Re: Maryam Yusuf Won Gold For Nigeria. Why Is Her Niqab The Story? by ARISHEM: 4:02pm On Jul 22 |
You can be disowned by your family and guarantors if you don't wear that thing |
Education › Re: WAEC, NECO Fee Hike Suspended Because Of Election, Parents Allege by ARISHEM: 12:51pm On Jul 22*. Modified: 10:42pm On Jul 22 |
After election the hike will proceed. And all manners of concocted flimsy reasons for the hike will be given.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Excavator Destroys A Grave (Video) by ARISHEM: 10:50am On Jul 22 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Excavator Destroys A Grave (Video) by ARISHEM: 11:32pm On Jul 21*. Modified: 9:25pm On Jul 22 |
Where did this happen. That excavator operator no fear at all. His supervisor hold cross in case of the eventuality of a zombie flying out of the grave |