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Education › Re: Should I Quit University And Join The Military? Need Honest Advice From Serv by Askaboutme29378(op): 11:20am On Sep 16
sacajawea:
Seems like a fake story.
Why tf would you wanna do that??!
thought it was a regular Univ till I heard, Nigerian army University... as how??
Why?
It’s a civilian university.. just carry the military name to be prestigious google search it
Education › Re: Should I Quit University And Join The Military? Need Honest Advice From Serv by Askaboutme29378(op): 8:54am On Sep 16
Oracleee:
Dear op, if it were the Navy or Air Force, I could have told you to go ahead. I also left university many years ago in my fourth year. Though at the time, I joined through the Officer Cadet route I meant the Defence Academy.

So, my advice to you is this. The Army is not even like the Navy or the Air Force. They recruit, advertise, and enlist people to join. So don't expect any fireworks or assume that everything will work out in your favour when things don't go your way.

Of course, we have people who go on courses to study nursing, for example. One of my godsons, who was a corporal, recently went on a nursing course in Lagos, at the Nigerian Army School of Nursing, and today he is a nurse. He is anticipating doing a Short Service Commission to become a commissioned officer. But the chances are slim, like I told him, because we have nurses who even have MSc and are still serving in the ranks.

I remember I had an instructor when I was a cadet in G-branch who had a PhD but was still Warrant Officer.

So, I advise you to finish your degree. But if you have the opportunity to join the Navy or the Air Force, I can advise you to go for it. That is where I believe you may have better opportunities.

In the Navy and Air Force, as long as you are willing to go to school and you have a good rapport with your superiors, especially your direct Commanding Officer, there may be opportunities for you to progress, go to school, and improve yourself, including the possibility of getting commissioned.

Though branch commissioning in the Air Force is very difficult to get, even harder than getting EC in the army.

But still, if it is the Navy or Air Force, I would advise you to consider it.

One thing I have noticed about the Air Force is that whenever I go to the base to see some of my coursemates, many of these Air Force personnel have master's degrees and even PhDs, and they are still serving as soldiers.

So, if it is the Air Force or Navy you want to join, I could tell you to go ahead, but make sure you continue developing yourself academically. Develop a good rapport with your superiors and conduct yourself properly.

You can even put in your papers along the line if you eventually decide that you no longer want the job. People leave the service after some time because they are no longer interested.

So, that's my advice for you. if it is the Army, reconsider your options. stretch yourself, You are studying a good course.

But if it is the Navy or Air Force you want to join, I could advise you to go ahead. Develop a good rapport with your superiors, especially your commander. Wherever ship you are posted to if you are in the Navy, develop yourself and maintain a good relationship with your superiors.

And if you are in the Air Force, wherever you are posted, do the same. As long as you are not in the Regiment, because if you are in the Regiment in the Air Force, it might be more difficult for you to go to school because of operations and many other responsibilities.

That's my advice.

Pray for direction from God in all. All you need to do is ask him for wisdom and he will show you the way. Goodluck with your choices. If you eventually join the army, try and reach out still. I believe airforce form is currently in sale though.
Thank you very much sir for taking your time to explain all these to me I really appreciate it 🙏

Your advice has given me a lot to think about especially concerning finishing my degree and the differences between the Army Navy and Air Force

Sir if you don’t mind can I have your number so I can reach out to you privately from time to time for more guidance I would really appreciate being able to speak with someone who has actual military experience before making such an important decision

Thank you once again sir and God bless you
Education › Re: Should I Quit University And Join The Military? Need Honest Advice From Serv by Askaboutme29378(op): 10:28pm On Sep 15
KillJoy62:
You can join if u want, but have this in mind, when you join as an other rank that is through recruitment NCO, you would have to serve for a certain period either as a Lance Corporal or Corporal before you can apply for army sponsorship to further your studies this will be of great help when you want to apply for commissioning as SSC or DSSC or Executive Commission. The army would not honour your certificate if you got it through self sponsorship. Also when you join you may have to find a way to looby so as to get the corp of your choice because if you don't follow it up you will end up as a Bloody INFANTUA ICC and Jaji would be your home ground.

My brother I would not say don't join nor join but know that you are going to trade your freedom. Who no come no go know wetin I see.
Thank you very much sir I really appreciate this detailed explanation especially since you are speaking from experience

Please sir I want to ask some more questions so I can properly understand what I would be getting into

1. How many years or what rank does one normally need to reach before becoming eligible to apply for Army sponsorship for university
2. When you say the Army may not honour a certificate obtained through self sponsorship does that mean it cannot be used for SSC or DSSC commissioning or are there specific conditions attached to it
3. Between SSC DSSC and Executive Commission which of these routes is realistically available to someone who joins as a recruit and later obtains a degree through Army sponsorship
4. If someone joins with WAEC and wants to eventually move into Military Police or Provost how is the corps actually assigned and how much influence does the recruit have over the corps they are posted to
5. When you say someone may have to lobby to get the corps of their choice does that mean the posting is mostly based on the needs of the Army rather than personal choice
6. Lastly sir when you say you are trading your freedom what are the biggest things you have personally experienced that you think someone considering joining should know before making the decision

I’m asking all these because my reason for considering the military is mainly financial pressure but I also want to protect my long term career and education
Education › Re: Should I Quit University And Join The Military? Need Honest Advice From Serv by Askaboutme29378(op): 10:26pm On Sep 15
Ayodeleomo:
please donot join now.Try and finish your degree because when you join for you to go to school,you have to serve some years.I am serving soldier,i am talking out of experience.
Thank you sir I really appreciate your advice especially since you are currently serving

Please sir I want to understand the situation better

How many years does a recruit normally have to serve before being allowed to further his education

If someone joins with WAEC and later gains admission into a university can the military sponsor the education or does the person have to fund it himself

Also can a serving soldier obtain a degree and later use the degree to apply for commissioning or promotion to officer rank

And from your experience sir what are the biggest disadvantages you have seen among people who joined with only WAEC compared with those who joined after obtaining a degree

My main problem is financial pressure and that is why I am considering joining but I don’t want to make a decision that will limit my future career growth
Education › Re: Should I Quit University And Join The Military? Need Honest Advice From Serv by Askaboutme29378(op): 10:11pm On Sep 15
ExudeLoveToAll:
Bro u go regret later ooooooo if you join the military with WAEC, if you can push ahead and finish before joining the military through DSS. Once you join as a recruit that's it, you will serve for 35 years complaining all through your career

For your career growth complete your studies.
Thank you sir I really appreciate the advice 🙏

Please sir I want to understand more from your experience

When you say once someone joins as a recruit that’s it does it mean there is little or no opportunity for an enlisted person to further their education and rise in rank

Also if someone joins with WAEC and later obtains a degree while serving can he use that degree to pursue commissioning or move into a higher career path

And what exactly do you mean by joining through DSS after completing my studies Do you mean I should finish my Software Engineering degree first and then apply through a graduate entry route

Lastly sir between someone who joins with WAEC and someone who joins after obtaining a degree what are the major differences in career progression salary opportunities and retirement benefits

I’m asking because my main problem is financial and I don’t want to make a decision now that I will regret later
Education › Should I Quit University And Join The Military? Need Honest Advice From Serv by Askaboutme29378(op): 4:02pm On Sep 15
Good day sir/ma. I’m currently a 200-level student at Nigerian Army University Biu studying Software Engineering.

Due to serious financial difficulties, I’ve been considering leaving school temporarily to join the Armed Forces so I can become financially stable and hopefully continue my education later through the military.

I would really appreciate honest advice from people who already have experience in the military.

Is joining the military at this stage a wise decision, especially when I already have a university education in progress? What are the realities of joining as a recruit, particularly regarding salary, career progression, further education and the possibility of eventually returning to university?

I’m also particularly interested in the military/police or Provost side of the military. I would like to know whether it is possible to enter that area as a recruit and how someone can eventually get into Military Police/Provost duties.

Please don’t just tell me “join” or “don’t join.” I want to understand the advantages, disadvantages and things someone in my position should seriously consider before making the decision.

I would genuinely appreciate advice from people who have actually served or are currently serving.
Education › Re: Life Lately… by Askaboutme29378(op): 10:49pm On Aug 12
Lastpharoah33:
Like drifting into oblivion through sleep or something?,

I do think about that too, all the time. Although things are taking a bit shape now than few years ago.

If you're not that brave to do it, then try to exist anyway.



Well, trying to exist in a world that seem not to are about me is harder than expected 😔😔😔 , cause at some point you loose the zeal to live . Life seem meaningless, just trying to find my place jn this world and I seem not to find it, I just 😔😔 wishing life could end it all

I used the word 'exist' because, majority of this country's citizen are just existing, not living. And I happened to be one of them.

Take one day at a time, that's how I push through the dark thoughts all the time. Thinking about what happens in the minute, talk more of the future, can be exhausting at this stage.

Just, live.
Education › Re: Life Lately… by Askaboutme29378(op): 9:42pm On Aug 11
Lastpharoah33:
The only favor I need from you, stranger, is not to bring in innocent souls into this mess you find yourself already.

Children were never blessings, as our parents were meant to believe. Do the best you can, and if it seems like there's no light at the end of the tunnel, you can always pull the plug.

No hard feelings, 👍
I have no intention to do so, I really want to pull the plug but it seem more like am scared to do myself I just want life to do it naturally … am tried just wish death upon myself …
Education › Re: Life Lately… by Askaboutme29378(op): 9:40pm On Aug 11
Imalwayshorny:
can you relocate to Zambia 🇿🇲
Smile, make life happen to you
Education › Life Lately… by Askaboutme29378(op): 7:13pm On Aug 11
Lately life has been hard and down and it feels like even the heavens are angry with me

I honestly do not know when everything became this heavy

It feels like I wake up every day carrying problems that were already waiting for me before I even opened my eyes

Sometimes I look at my life and wonder how I got here

I lost my father and life never really felt the same after that

My mother has struggled and I have watched someone I love go through things I wish I could take away

And somehow I am expected to keep moving like none of it affects me

I am a student trying to build a future while worrying about things that have nothing to do with school

I have exams to worry about and a whole life to figure out

Money has been another constant battle

There have been times when I had to think about what I could sell what I could sacrifice and what I could do just to get through another difficult period

I have had dreams that suddenly became things I had to postpone because survival came first

I have had things I cared about leave my hands because I needed to solve problems that could not wait

Sometimes I look at everything I have lost and wonder what I actually have left

I know people see me talking laughing joking and moving around

But they do not see the thoughts I carry when everything becomes quiet

They do not see how tired I get from pretending that everything is normal

They do not see how many times I have had to encourage myself when there was nobody around to encourage me

There are moments when I wonder if all this struggle is actually leading somewhere

I wonder if the future I keep imagining is really waiting for me

I wonder how much longer I have to keep fighting through things I never asked for

Sometimes I just want life to stop being so difficult for a moment

Not asking for everything to become perfect

Just asking for one peaceful moment where I do not have to worry about what comes next

I have felt alone even when people were around me

I have felt broke even when I tried everything I could

I have felt lost while pretending I knew exactly where I was going

And sometimes the hardest part is knowing that I am still young and already feel so tired of carrying things that feel much older than me

There were moments when I questioned whether all this pain was worth enduring

Moments when the future looked so far away that I could not see myself reaching it

Everything looked dark

No answers

No clear direction

Just one problem after another

And for a while I started believing that maybe this was simply what my life was going to be
Nairaland General › Re: How Much Is The Cost Of RAM In Your Area? by Askaboutme29378(m): 8:38am On Oct 19, 2024
Does it matter....
Nairaland General › Re: See Why I Hate My Religion, Christianity by Askaboutme29378(m): 10:59pm On Oct 18, 2024
Hi are you still there
Education › Re: How I Almost Lost My Life In Swimming by Askaboutme29378(op): 1:11pm On Oct 18, 2024
Myrepublic:
Omo.. I had such experience in another way . My I was still conscious to some extent,but couldn't feel my body anymore. I could hear people talk,but their voices were fading kind of.. When I regained myself,I was like WOW.. Thank you Almighty God,Thank you Lord Jesus Christ,thank you Holy Spirit,for the grace ,mercies and love... God is too big abeg..

Who no go ,no know.
It was a life changing experience for me
Education › Re: How I Almost Lost My Life In Swimming by Askaboutme29378(op): 12:20pm On Oct 17, 2024
I remember the silence. The stillness. The feeling of weightlessness. I was trapped under the water , my lungs burning, my heart racing. The world above was distant, muffled. I saw my life flash before me – memories of laughter, tears, and loved ones.

Suddenly, the struggle ceased. My body relaxed, and I felt...free. The pain dissipated, replaced by an eerie calm. I watched as the air bubbles escaped my lips, rising to the surface.

In that moment, I thought, 'This is it. This is the end.' But instead of fear, I felt curiosity. What lies beyond? Is this the transition to whatever comes next?

As my vision faded, I heard whispers – soft, gentle voices calling my name. I tried to respond, but my voice was gone. The darkness enveloped me, and I slipped away.

Then, nothing.

Until...

A hand grasped mine, pulling me back. A voice shouted, 'Breathe!' And I did. The rush of air was agonizing, but I was alive. The world roared back into focus, and I knew I'd been given a second chance
Education › How I Almost Lost My Life In Swimming by Askaboutme29378(op):
I will be posting my own first

I hope you post yourself
Education › I Need Your Help !!! Not Money by Askaboutme29378(op): 12:49pm On Aug 15, 2024
Good day ma/sir
I want to travel from Lagos to Kaduna for my post Utme(AFIT) I don't know anybody in Kaduna nor have any relative there..
I don't know where I can see a vehicle
GIGM posted over 38k for the trip going alone
I don't have that kind of money


Where can I see cheap transport vehicle heading to Kaduna.. and coming to Lagos too ...


I don
Education › Info About Efcc Academy by Askaboutme29378(op): 7:44pm On Nov 26, 2023
Hello everyone! I hope you're all doing well. I have recently completed my WAEC exams and I am looking to continue my education. However, my family is currently facing financial instability. I have been exploring the available free academies in Nigeria, and I came across the EFCC Academy. I was wondering if anyone could provide me with useful information about it, as my internet search yielded no results. Is it a conventional academy, and can I pursue an engineering course there? Thank you in advance for any helpful information you can provide.

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