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Life is boring
Life is tough
Life is hard
Life is evil
Life is wicked
Life is cruel
Life is Mean

Life is a lonely place. Crowded but empty.

You're a happy now and the next minute, you're sad. Sadder than ever.

The saddest world I've ever seen.

No family, no life. No family, no defence. No family, no helper.

No family, no Love. No family, nobody to listen to you.

Why is life without a friend?
Want is life without a family?
What is life without finance? Everyone despises you when you are broke and struggling.

Who will hold my hand and give me a place to stand?

Who will lead me and make me a better person?

ZeemsPropeties:
The first and most important truth in life is how hard it is.
Knowing that, you have to go extra hard at something productive. The only hardship a person should face is in their line of work.
Work hard and life will be easier for you.

Life is so so hard .
You work hard, but life doesn't get easier

lordm:
Dude . Let him tell the guy to leave him a alone

Is well

lordm:
Thunder fire Una two.

Brotherly

yarimo:
if you have anything to say, say it here . I don't have time to be checking notification. Isn't that simple

Oga abeg dey one place

yarimo:
what is the notification all about

Oga, stop that. If u can't see the notification on your dashboard, then leave it. Haba!

Stop pretending not to understand what I'm saying and trying to make things difficult.

yarimo:
Yes

See notifications

yarimo:
yes in fact capital YES

Wow.. and you also assist someone who is in need?

yarimo:
Hahahahaha before accreditation on election day, all the losers will soon congratulate president TINUBU as president elect in 2027 presidential election

Are u living well?

lordm:
Will choose to be born. Life is not a bed of roses. No problem last forever

You would not understand.

May God be merciful unto us

There are times I just sit back, fold my arms and think deeply about life.

Most times, I just wonder if I would have chosen to be borned if only I knew what the world is like.

Nobody chooses to be born. If I had the opportunity to choose and decide, I would have decided not to be born at all.

Some persons are enjoying and living their lives to the fullest, while same can't be said for others.

If My creator had shown me a glimpse of how life would had spanned out, I would reject the offer to be born.

We don't have the powers to choose our nationality, parents and family we are come from. We don't choose our tribe, we don't choose whether to be minority or majority.
Human-beings are not all equal after all.

I regret been Born.
I regret my existence.
I'm only living, I'm not existing. I work hard, I pray and I hope the story changes soon.

2mch:
A lot of parents traumatize their kids for life. Even the good ones because parenting does not end and as parents, we don’t know it all. We just pray to make the right decisions. See yourself as a blank slate, even though you have been hurt by strangers. At least you had no expectation that they were obligated to love you! Focus on your life and count your blessings.

Try to live a good life with discipline and commitment, so you can have a family some day! Sorry about your experience, but if it makes you feel better, everyone in life has their own struggles and hurt! Wishing you a great life and loving family which you will create, with all the knowledge you have acquired as an orphan.

You're actually 2much just like your Moniker for this piece. I appreciate your input. God bless you. It's not easy at all.

9182736455O1999:
Bro you aren't weak, it's normal to feel that way. It's part of the emotional attributes instilled in we humans from our creator. Nobody might really understand how you feel. Life's not fair on the normal scale, we just have know that and live with it but whatever comes at you should not overwhelm you. Just live life bro. ✌️

Thank you Sir 🙏

ZeemsPropeties:
This is not to seem insensitive but drug prices are expensive everywhere. The corporations producing these drugs are in the profit business. Their sole aim is profit maximization and not healing the sick or whatever noble purpose we may think. Which is why it is always advisable to have an insurance plan especially to cover health.
I wish you the best but please, sign up for the NHIS plan. God bless.

Thank you.

dollypi:
It is greed from the pharmaceutical companies.

The National Health insurance service costs less than 25k/year and subsidises some of the drug costs.

I wholly agree with you Sir 🙏

I really feel for our women honestly. It's never easy.

Same women wouldn't sleep at night because oga wants her to ride on him till daybreak. When it's daybreak, she has to prep the kids for sch and prepare breakfast for them and probably go to her own place of work. If she's a full-time housewife, she has to sleep during the day when the kids are away. But if oga dey house, him go still wan knack madam in the afternoon. It's tiring.

God bless all mothers

Why is nobody saying anything about this?
Why are we all silent?

I have been sick and confined to the room. I'm suffering from Typhoid and maleria having already done some tests.

The drugs prescribed for me are not affordable at all. I'm someone that hardly fall sick. I have never been admitted to the hospital, but this time if I had the resources, I would gladly submit myself to the hospital for comprehensive treatment because the typhoid has already eaten me so deeply. I've lost my sense for taste, my eyes are always teary and my vision blurred. A lot that I can't mention. When it started last year, I didn't give much attention to it because I felt I was a commando and James Bond so nothing was going to happen to me. Now, same typhoid has brought me down to my knees and made me a vegetable.
I went to the pharmacy and when I was told the cost of the drugs, the illness increased instantly and I became drowsy right there. I left there disappointed.
What's going on?
Is it that the government want to increase mortality rate ?
This is evil.

Nobody wants to spend their hardearned money on medications. Nobody prays to be sick. Something needs to be done as quickly as possible. Where is our minister of health?
If I die, know that Nigeria happened to me.

All these growths are just on paper , nothing feasible here

LilMissFavvy:
You just have to let go of the past. Release the pains and move on. When you are of age, find a good lady who loves you and settle down, the love of a wife and children will help you heal.

This is true.
Thanks so much

You may call me a Weakling, you may call me any name, but I will never feel Bad about letting this out. God knows I'm not weak.
I've kept quiet for a long Time. The universe, right from when I was birthed, hasn't been kind to me.

I feel really good and happy seeing my agemates with their parents, merrying together and showing love to one another. The love, the bond and unity that exist within them is something I cherish so well.

I have a lot of questions to ask about why some events happen in life. But nobody can give me any convincing response. If I ever get married and have kids, I pray for long life so I can take care of my kids have them with me until they are of age and can defend themselves before living with someone else. I was never cared for. Didn't know my parents. The hurts are too many to mention. I never enjoyed childhood, I hate life.
What does it mean when people talk about fatherly or motherly love?
What is family bond?
What does it mean when they say "family is everything" ?

The family is the first agent of socialization, so what happens when you are unable to have an experience of the first?

Mariangeles:
Yes. 🙂

Why replying to such question?

columbus007:
Madam wait, don't you have sponge? There good sponge you can use now.

Sometimes I feel really very sad for you.

Bahamas95:
I'm an introvert but I dey learn work for where your own dey, at least I talk to few people at times when need be.

I don't have any close friend(s) at the moment, only colleagues and acquaintances and I like it this way.....I'm more comfortable with my siblings around me than strangers.

Though it's not easy, you have to forget about the past and come outta your shell.

Thanks

Zaheertyler:
Learn how to live with pain and disappointment from humans the more you experience the more you become wiser (not like them but able to stand your ground on the right actions you take)
Moreover the only person you can trust is God almighty so if you’re to learn relationship it’s time to build a personal one with him and remain faithful

It's not as easy as you think Sir. But thank you

Bahamas95:
Is this a Nollywood movie script or what?

I find this very difficult to believe.

I swear to God, this is Real. Not a script. Life happens. I'm a victim of circumstances

Attention seeker

Fellas, I'm badly damaged mentally and emotionally and psychologically. I really need you guys to help me out. I don't know if I am Normal. I'm totally disconnected from the world because I feel the world is a Mean and cruel habitat to dwell in. Based on my life's experiences, I don't do the following:

I don't Mix with people.

I don't socialize at all.

I don't visit people and people don't visit me.

I don't have or keep friends. I have so many friends but I don't have a "Friend".

I don't have a girlfriend and I don't intend to marry.

I don't attend weddings, Burials, Birthday parties, club or any social events. I hate crowd.

I don't go to church. I'm christian by religion.

I'm too calm but I get angry easily when I'm provoked.

I don't have any business with my colleagues except it's work-related. I see everyone as a Betrayer. Traitor and Snake.

I try as much as possible to avoid troubles. I barely talk. On work-free days, I can stay a whole day in my room without talking to anyone. I don't call people and I don't pick people's calls except its very important.

Little things piss me up because I find it hard to Talk and converse with people. I only talk when I am asked to anchor an official public event because I have good oratory skills.

I didn't know my parents because they both died same day when I was barely a year old, so a lot happened to me while living with relatives. A lot happened that I can't start saying them here. I remembered how my anty's husband sexually molested me by having anal sex with me repeatedly even when my Anty was aware. I tried to reveal this, but I was threatened and I had nobody to hear me out. I was eventually thrown out to the streets.
I was physically assaulted several times and taken advantage of.

While others were in the class learning, I was on the streets hawking and having no home to return to, after the day's hustle.
I met a man who took me in and asked that I serve him as his houseboy for a number of years so he would train me in school and I had to accept because I wanted to go to school. At some point, the man's wife tried to discredit me and she succeeded in causing a disaffection between me and her husband, I fell out with him and I was thrown out for no good reason. I dropped out of school.
The psychological impact of all these still haunt me. Nobody to talk to.

At this point, I would rather choose to live with wild animals than being friends with humans.