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Smhart1: You need to sleep and wake up to reality

As in?

Dyt: Talkin abt fluid, u for use hand dey comot am na
Shior

Now she a biatch?
I can bet jst her chattin u up, ur anger will subside
I like dat lady
Its gd to put men like u in places u belong

I understand where you're coming from . .
But u can never understand where I am coming from, Dyt.

krafty iyk: OP some girls are custom made to be used and dumped, i mean that's the way the r created, your mistake was trying to keep such girl, it cant just work...
for a girl who hails from a poor family background, who now lives an extravagant lifestyle..na na na, it's better you experience a broken relationship, than experiencing a divorce tomorrow.
delete her from your dp, fbk, cell phone, etc, this will enable u 4get her ASAP.
as for the car, haba, weren't you too fast to buy a car for a girl ,le'me ask, whose name is on the receipt, if it's yours, go get it back with the speed of light, cos she would have done worst if she was in ur shoe, i bet you have a lacky cousin who can irk out a living by using it as a taxi cab..[b]you get to see this as a God's gift window to escape from a useless relationship..

Applause . . . Yes i was too hasty, but at least I kept it in my name for posterity reasons .
And just exactly what I envisaged would happen,finally happened . . .
Truthfully, she has no remorse. And it ends here, no going back . . Dyt can spit for all i can

Smhart1: The op is very scared of loosing her. @op you are shouting here because you bought her a car and you want it back. You tagged the lady 'black' as if she never did anything pleasing to you. The best is for you two to settle your differences and move on

Bros, you no fit understand, I aint scared of anyting . .

Dyt: No one o
That's why I wanna b ur gf na


And by takin ur car back, I hp u will give her back all d abortions and styles she gave u

And i hope she will give me back all the lost "fluid>"
Like i said, stop jumping to conclusions . . . Abortion? Zero, hell yeah. The bitch never even got pregnant for me for 1 second
; you're talking abortion . . Rubbish

Dyt: U kept on goin abt d car
My car dis
Car dat
Come off it abeg

Yes oh, my car ohhhhhhhhhh
And come to think of what ; why would i be ashamed to say you . .
Has anyone ever bought you a car . . Don't lie plz . . .

Agbgift: And I guess she is among the guest viewing this thread.
@ op you need serious flogging. You be first class abaya.
What is your aim of directing her to this thread?
So that she will see your update and get scared and start begging you?
Its obvious, you love and want her back,even if she uses your head to pound. So why disturb us with your cry before?
Everybody the thread is closed. @op doesn't need anymore advise.

Biased, once again.

UPDATE:

I sent her a message on BBM, pointing to this thread. And here's her response:

Wow
That was interesting
So you need the car?
I hope you reported to the police
You?
I really have nothing to say
Whatever you like, go on and do it
I will be waiting . . .

Dyt: See coward
U had to create another handle
Smh, grow some balls


U want us to know u met on NL innit? So ur likes can bash us kwa
I am ready for all of una

Dyt, I take God beg you. We dey fight ni . . ?
And yes, I had to create another handle not even because of her; but because of your likes.
I'm a popular face and Nairaland, Is it such a bad thing to crave anonymity?
And stop the insults already . . .It's rather immature
And we didn't meet on Nairaland . . I introduced her and she became a member . .
Get your facts right; ask questions. dont just jump into conclusions . . .
Good "dyt".

Dyt: Bia
And what u feeling like?
Some king?
Wetin u do sef wey u dey beat chest? Common car? Ur mates dey buy house for maitama n asokoro, u dey there dey flex muscles
*mimics him, I will mk sure she treks to where she drove to*
U be God?
U think if u go she can't get a better man?

See abt the pictures, I do it a lot when I wanna get his attention, infact, I use myself and a mans pix jst to get him jealous
Am sure if she comes here now, her story will be diff frm urs, y'all likes to paint ursef white

If u wanna collect ur car, do so and some makin noise
Hisses

Quite sad, that you're not viewing this from my perspective. Your judgment is biased.
My mates dey buy house . . Okay, I don buy car, and the relationship come worsen , ,
what would have happend if i bought a house . ? Tell me
She cant get a better man, no be swear . .
Na from small, we dey know pikin wey dey enter bush. Unless of course, she changes her lifestyle,
what sort of man would wanna pass through what I am going through. Only he
who wear the shoe knows where it pinches. . .
Do you till today, her family doesn't know who bought the car for her? I was expecting her to tell them
she never did, So when they popped the question on how she got a car considering the fact she's a low-income earner
I would really love to know what she told them for an answer

shizzle11: Op listen, you will be a very bug fool if you don't retrieve that car from her. It doesn't matter if its on the high end or not. See I'm trying to be as civil as possible and restrain from insulting you cos you were forthright.

As for the girl, isn't she case people describe as using your husband for boyfriend and vice versa. At 29, the shediott is still misbehaving, shows she doesn't even think ahead. I blame you though for over loving her, going. back severally go beg her even when she's obviously at fault, and that probably got into her head and now its to late cos you can no longer curtail her excesses. In 5years time I bet shell rue this chance when she starts running from pillar to post searching for Mr 'right'.

This is another example for guys who express excessive love for their girl friends, a woman they are not married to. I dont see why you will buy a car for your girl friend with your hard earned money when you are not a polithiefian or a dangote, what sort of love is that, a girl you are not even engaged too, some guys sef......and when the girls call us mugu, we go dey vex. mtchewww

Splendid . . noted. Mayne, the excesses are just much

rill: Just know that once u collect the car, its possible she comes back begging. Then, u wud realise how fake she is and,u do the needful.

What is the needful?

jane05: sorry for derailing from d matter but y do guys always say dey loved too much...y not find out y ur lover stopped loving u...ohhhh chim ooooo

Some girls will never love, no matter how much you love them
they will only pretend and they are so good at it, you'll never know and doubt it, until one day . .
some girls cannot be satisfied, and u know this

Cold faya: I see d OP returning back to d girl when she comes begging. Its obvious d girl has a hold on him and he can't carryout this online threats of dumping her arseeee. He really still likes d girl even when its obvious he's d maga here.#imseeingtins.


And oh pls don't 4get to keep us In touch with d latest. Dis promises to b an interesting ride.

Done that before, but i don carry am out put jara sef . . See u

^ I can gladly say the problem was me, cos I "over-loved" her and she took advantage of her.
No biggie, i can actually forfeit it, although it's a high-end one . .
I know she will sell it, cos she can't maintain it, I've been maintaining it from my own side of the world, so u see . .
But i will not allow her sell that car and deposit the money into her account and still spend it frivolously . .
Nope, i'll take the smile away and derive her of that pleasure. She has to trek to all the places she's driven too . .
And maybe she can just see life from a different perspective.
Talking about myself, I know the stuff I'm made of; buh I guess we all make mistakes, and this is mine

Shedysworld: How can u give out a gift and still want to retrieve it. Since u could buy her a car it shows u are worth much more than that, if I were u I'll forget the car and move on, believe me she will come back begging soon. Mind u Owning a car is not just it, keeping it moving is the real thing

Noted, thanks

Update for her (cos she;s also a nairalander):

I've actually reported to top-ranking police friends and have declared the car as forcefully taken/stolen.
I tell this girl can play games and if she senses i wanna retrieve might do something funny.
At least she knows I kept the originals with me, and datz y i kept them with me
So if she is hesitant, she know's what will follow .. I will not be labeled a fool. I refuse to be one, not anymore

Your juju don fail . . .

hapithots: Based on your response, I would say let her go.
I dont want to sound snobbish, but a girl ffrom a low income background that
you bought a car for and fund her family expenses is probably just using you
to cater to her financial needs.
And actually, you dont have to spend so much on a girl...its too much since you are not even engaged.
Be very sure a lady is in love with you and totally committed before you start spending that much. It is not worth it.
If a lady appreciates you and values you...she wont require that much money from you...and if she does...(say she is from an already
wealthy background and used to that lifestyle), she would show appreciation.
I think she is shady and not worth your time...Quit tripping...leave her alone.

Noted, thanks a lot; but my car nko?

booqee: ^^seriously @op, this is not a topic to be debated. common sense should tell u dat d girl dey use u as her maga. collect ur car and run. end of story

Noted!

SpaceWorld 2013: Only if this story's true, she's not your wife. Only if you cherish long life with peace, run far away from her. Peace!

It's as true as the word "truth."

booqee: some kain threads for naira land sef

Duhhhhhhh

hapithots: 0.do you still love her?
1. And are you sure she still loves you or ever loved you?
2. What is her background/family like? Are they poor/well educated/nice people/etc?
3. What are her friends like? Do you trust her?
4. If you still love her and you are sure she loves you, then give the relationship a chance.
Perhaps, she is uploading pics to get your attention and not necessarily to look for another guy.
People in love do crazy things sometimes.

0. I've never stopped loving her but I will in due time.
1. I can't say, cos I swear, d tin dey confuse me. The heart of a woman, they say, is like a deep well, n can hold a thousand secrets.
2. Below average background cos i remmber funding her account for her use (n instead she shared it amongst her family from 1st to last). .long story sha
3. Female friends. Just only 1, married with a daughter. Male friends. Them plenty, but she claims to only keep them online and not in real life.
4. I gave it a chance before when we broke up, when she was seeing somebody behind my back. Bros, this aint 2nd chance, I aint Lorenzo

As for the pics, na she sabi, she aint even my friend on FB, has refused to add me. Na mago mago I use add her for FB

Dyt: Op
Me ayam single o

Ehen, oya gimme the list to wife you . . A 2015 Lamborghini Aventador , i guess?

4 posters above me have advised me to collect the car back . . .
I guessed as much, and yes I bought the car for her cos I was ready to marry her . . .I gave her all the good tins of life and made her look good . .
for some other guy I guess . . Dont know?
But right now, it's just so obvious the handwriting's on the wall . . .There's a lot more I would rather not say unless of course, i;m being asked.
But seriously, am baffled, how can a 29yr old not know the difference between the taste of salt and of sugar?


*Runs off to collect the car . . .

Not to bore you all with long talk ;

Met her in late-2011 and we broke up late-2012. We made up around Feb 2013 and I got boxed up quite well. Bought a car for myself; and bought one for her around Sept 2013 . .

But her attitude is pissing me off. I always try to live on a budget; and she doesn't. She's the big-spender type of grl and I have always told her it's good to save for the rainy days. All na wash!!! She nor dey gree hear.

What pisses me is that this lady is actually 29. How can a 29-year old not know how to manage finances?

We had a quarrel last three weeks and she drove home, and ever since has not called me or even pinged or sent a message.
She's actually waiting for me to say I'm sorry (for a crime i didn't commit; she's wrong not me). Ive done that before, always saying sorry and pampering her even when I am right. But no more!! I refuse to do so again. Right now, she uploads pics of her jugs on Facebook and BBM;
What the heck is she doing? Trying to find another man? I have totally lost it.

How can you not even call me? To know even if Im alive or dead after 3weeks . . instead you're busy changing DPs on BBM
Well, I've decided to move on, but i can forfeit all i've spent and invested . . But I no fit leave the car? I only gave her the copies.
The originals are in my name, so I want it back. I can actually leave it for her, but i don't want anyone pointing at me to her friends,
calling me the greatest mugu of all time . . .

What do you think?