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Interesting, really so interesting... Indeed, interesting.

EmekaA125:
So sad.
No matter how hard the economy is, don't let the thought of suicide come into your mind. There's hope tomorrow only if you stay alive today.

You don't read before commenting?? Interesting, so interesting.

Hmmmmm, Lord have mercy, it is well sha... It is indeed well

They'd never surrender, they're insatiable, no matter how much they make, it'd never ever be enough, same thing applies to almost all of the criminals around the world, e.g kidnappers, armed robbers, ritualists, etc

The more money they make the more they're desperate and fighting to make more without ever having any second thought that they've made enough and should rest and enjoy their loot In peace, a pure definition of greeddd

Therock5555:
I thought I was heartless oh, but even me wouldn't keep ignoring a lady wey I put for house for a day complete to be begging me like a god.....




Baba if the marriage don taya you, quit now. What kind of wicked heart be this? Seriously you seem underaged cause na wetin person dey do before e turn 21 nai you still dey do so ...

And you actually do think that I haven't tried to quit, on different occasions?

paba:
Like this, your life don spoil, na the woman wey still dey worry herself i dey pity, she just dey waste her love & emotions ... But shame nor catch you as u dey type all dis

I am not an hypocrite like you, I say things exactly the way they're without ommiting anything or painting anyone bad, If I had wanted to claim a saint here I would have clearly done that without blinking an eye and no one would know, and most especially no one would be blaming and throwing insults at me right now, but I'm not an hypocrite, I'm straight forward and I say things exactly the way they're without pretending to be a saint.

StPete:
If I tell you say I don pass through this your exact shoe, will you believe. But las las, these type of women makes good mothers and good wives. She will always respect you and will do your bidding as opposed to a woman who knows you love her and will disrespect or always threaten you with leaving or dating outside marriage.

In a nutshell, make sure a woman’s love is higher than yours in marriage and you will go far in that marriage

Boss I understand what you went through but I think It's not that similar to mine, this girl cleary knows how desperately I love chubby women how I'm always viewing pictures of them on Instagram and the rest, how I fsntazises about chubby women all the time. She's not in anywhere chubby not even 30% of how chubby I need my woman to be. But yet she has been on a diet for a while now, contemplating on slimming down, even when she's not even up to 20 or 30% in a ratio of 100, close to what I really and extremely sexually attracted to.

Myrepublic:
Oga you are judging by what you wrote up there, except that's not what actually happened. Four months after child birth,you still give her belle. And you first allowed her do three abortions. Your wife o.. Oga nau... plz go home and settle with your wife,and take out emotions from what you do.

Act as a man,and do the right thing at the right time. Go and do family planning,and if it's not good for her health,then you find safer ways to avoid pregnancy even while una mueghesuegbe. Pls go home because of your child..

No problem, i will think about what you've said and make a decision, thank you for dropping an awesome comment without Insults, like almost everyone that had commented had done here, thank you.

Laird:
You don't appear to respect your wife.

You appear to be maltreating her if all You wrote is true and it is wrong.
All shades of wrong
It is improper

Why did You not ise family planning if You don't want her to het pregnant

Yes You dont like her

But dont treat her this way

It's very wrong

I stopped reading after "If all you wrote is true" so I would just wake up one morning or should I rather say evening, because I created this thread in the evening, I would just wake up and start typing non existence things and things that didn't happen, for what exactly, If I may ask

Myrepublic:
You are the problem here. You know you like sex,so why go against family planning? That woman seem understanding,na you be the problem. I hope you don't loose her,and fall into the arms of a troublesome woman later.

There's a saying that If he never happen to you advice go full the mouth, I'm not In anyway the problem sir, the only mistake I made which I'd gladly accept without being bias, Is the fact that I didn't option In for family planning. Otherwise, na who wear shoe know where he for the pinch am.

motymop:
This is not a healthy relationship. It’s emotionally and physically abusive. your wife needs support, healing and possibly separation from you for for her mental, physical, and emotional safety.

you needs serious therapy. you are toxic, unfaithful, and completely lacking in accountability.

your child is growing up in a volatile home, and that’s a tragedy in itself.

your wife need to leave if she has sense and seek help.

Anything when one happen make he happen, if she one go make she go, one thing I will never ever do In my life and day to day existence Is to beg a woman to stay, when women full everywhere?

motymop:
This is not a healthy relationship. It’s emotionally and physically abusive. your wife needs support, healing and possibly separation from you for for her mental, physical, and emotional safety.

you needs serious therapy. you are toxic, unfaithful, and completely lacking in accountability.

your child is growing up in a volatile home, and that’s a tragedy in itself.

your wife need to leave if she has sense and seek help.

Anything when one happen make he happen, if she one go make she go, women full everywhere.

LilMissFavvy:
When parents refuse to empower their female children, through education or learning a trade, then such a female child will end up as t0y in the hands of men. If not for lack of what to do, what would make a lady spend hours on phone sending messages to a partner wh0 doesn't deserve it. She doesn't know where her next meal will come from and she isn't ready to work and be useful to herself.

And who told you that she doesn't have some savings to fend for herself?

DSS1335:
I keep writing and spam bot keep deleting. What this guy need is a brutal counseling

Because of all that I said, in which I forgot to state that I'm responsible in taking care of my son, I always provide his needs, even though I normally complains before doing it, I still does it, so when it comes to that aspect regarding being responsible for my son, It's a pass for me.

ShobayoEmma:
If it's not attention you seek, then you're a sociopath.
Women can be so loving, and they can also be so deadly, it all depends on how you treat them.



Tinubu, a bad man with good intention

I'm equally as well also deadly, no woman go chook hands for my eyes and I go fold arms dey look her, an eye for an eye, no one has the monopoly of violence. A man can also be so loving and equally as well deadly, tit for tat.

StPete:
Pick her call and go home. If she gets used to you not responding, you will forever blame yourself.

I would be glad If such eventually happens, I'm not living the life that I want, I need a woman whom would love me and I would also love her in return, and not a one sided love like what I'm currently experiencing, no sexual attraction etc. Na me wear shoes na me know where he for dey pain me.

NotOfThisWorld:
Sooo, you're a shameless, horrible married man who married a woman you didn't love but only due to your impregnating her, who has 'daily reckless sexcapades' (raw sex) with other women, and due to the awful ways you treat your wife, have treated her, and your beating her during her previous pregnancies, she decided to terminate her recent pregnancy, as she has terminated other pregnancies before and even after marriage. Soooo, because you didn't want her to terminate this pregnancy (knowing you've no ounce of love for her and won't show her any love or attention during the pregnancy, as you don't show her these, pregnant or not), you've packed out of the house. Soooo, it's her we should be blaming, huh? Are you not a monster?

And I didn't best her during her last pregnancy, I haven't hit her to the point she has a swollen eyes or lips, like some other men does to their wives on a weekly basis, I nor bad reach like that. Nor dey tag me wetin I nor be.

So those that their man lives abroad who's there with them to show them love and attention during the period of their pregnancy?

I didn't packed out of the house, I only went out temporarily and would be returning two days from now.

DonEd:
Instead of allaying her fears and worries u are here seeking validation for your selfish moves.

Have u ever thought about the pains they going through trying to bring a child into this world and everything that accompanies it?

Some men sha

9 months pains? And the pains a man goes through? A life time pain, hustling day and night to provide for a woman, abi to work money easy? You're comparing something of just mare 9 months to the awful daily pains a man goes through until the day he dies.

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Good evening Nairalanders,

I'm so sorry to bore you all with such long episode, I tried to make It brief, but I thought It's appropriate to spill all that has been happening between I and my wife.

About a year ago my wife got pregnant, which led to us eventually getting married, after eventually delivering the baby through CS, although she's not supposed to have birthed with CS but It ended that way because she wanted to birth our son on my birthday, like she wanted us both to have the same birthday which later became a reality because she's almost due for delivery, just a week remaining, so on the morning of my birthday she went to the hospital and got herself Induced which later ended up In her birthing through CS.

Our son Is a year and 5 day's old already, and since then we've done 3 abortions, although she has been pestering for family planning but I have always refused due to my daily reckless sexcapade, on a regular and daily basis. I also really needed the family planning to be done but at same time I've been avoiding It and coming up with excuses whenever she reminded me about It, due to the fact that she told me that all tests would be carried out before they'd proceed with the family planning, but I'm just so scared of what the results of some of the tests might seem, most especially HIV, hepatitis and the rest of deadly STDS out there.

Back to the topic, I already made mentioned that we've aborted 3 pregnancy ever since a year ago after she gave birth, and the last being two days ago.

The first came in barely 4 months after she gave birth, It was too early so we terminated it, and the second came 3 months later, we wanted to keep it but our son got seriously sick and we assumed it was due to the pregnancy so we terminated it, and the last that we terminated two days ago have been what's currently causing issues between us.

When we newly found out she was pregnant recently, I insisted she terminate it but she disagree, few days later she's the one insisting that we terminate it and seeing our son I disagreed mainly due to the fact that what if we had terminated it like other 8 we've terminated back then we were still dating and before we got married, and the reminder three we terminated after we got married. But she was still insisting that we terminate it, with her always reminding me I told her to do what she likes, then she said she need my word to agree that I fully backed her removing it and stand by the decision, I agreed, but I was angry but didn't tell her anything or admitted I'm angry and my response didn't come directly from my heart, she actually thought it came from my mind but it didn't, ever since she removed the pregnancy, I had refused to talk to her, It's not mainly due to the pregnancy she removed but due to the flimsy excused she made when I asked her that if she's not scared for her life due to the numerous abortions, I asked her if to dey do abortions dey sweet her, I plainly told her that if tomorrow she got pregnant and start having miscarriages due to her womb not strong enough to carry pregnancies due to numerous abortions she has done in the past and most especially this in particular that she insisted we terminate, that I will leave with immediate effect without blinking an eye, or get other girls pregnant outside our marriage, that even now that we're still married that she decide to terminate a pregnancy due to excuses that I will get another girl pregnant and none of her family members would dare question or talk to me anyhow, that I will give them problem they've never seen In their entire existence before, as she choose to remove pregnancy inside marriage that after all I do not intend getting married to her but I did due to pressure from her, when we decide to leave the only pregnancy we haven't aborted, that she was the one pressuring me to remove shame from her eyes and marry her, which I did.

Nevertheless, here are the flimsy excuses she gave regarding not wanting to keep the pregnancies, with of course I won't be biased here, every single thing she said is 100% true.

She said that when she was pregnant with our first son that she went through hell crying every day and night due to my nonchalant attitude, that I'm not always at home, going out every blessed day around 9AM to drink and coming home around 12 or latest 1 on a daily basis carrying different girls and having raw sex with them without condom as she's very much aware how I hate sex with condom, that when we first met she recalled insisting on condom which I brought out not knowing that I have already bursted a huge hole at the tip of the condom and the sex later ending as raw sex, I don't know how she found out that I'm still doing same with every girls I have had sex with on a daily basis until date, but it's true, I won't deny that.

She made mentioned that she initially wanted to keep the pregnancy but she decide to terminate it due to the way I'm behaving she talked about the way I treated her last week Sunday and every other day, that she prays I've changed if she eventually got pregnant again, which I plainly told her to rot in hell that absolutely no way she and I are going to have another baby again, and if eventually I ever decide to sleep with her and she eventually got pregnant she will continue terminating every pregnancy as there's no single change forthcoming, as she already had petty excuse to terminate a pregnancy.

She made mentioned that if mood swings that normally accompany pregnancy eventually start, if I would be able to handle it. She made mentioned that when she was pregnant with our first son I was always quarreling her on a daily basis and some time beating her, which I won't deny but I didn't do such more than 3 times, in fact ever since we started dating and got married which is up to 4 years and counting, I have never laid my hands on her up to 6 times in total, God Almighty bear me withness, there was a day we had issues which got out both parents involved, she told them that I'm beating her, I couldn't believe that she could do such, nevertheless that's bygone.

She made mentioned that she's always begging me day and night to love and give her attention, which I won't deny, I really do not love her and I give her no atom of attention, but I reminded her about those working outside the country that normally goes to their wives once a year, stay a week or two and return back, that even if the wife is pregnant she won't cry for love and attention for a whole 9 months until she eventually gave birth because she clearly knows the husband is not around, I reminded her that what if she's one of those women, what would she do, that she should imagine herself in that shoe and stop crying for love and attention on a daily basis.

She made mentioned that whenever she ask me for money that I always complain and shout at her that I don't have, all the time. This is true but I always also give her the money even after shouting and complaining that I don't have.

She complained that she have nothing doing but I'm driving two cars that she has been begging me for years to open business for her but I would always tell her that she should have had something doing before entering into marriage, that she got married to me with the hope that I would rescue her, that other girls that have something doing before getting marriage do not have two heads that she should go and meet her father to open business for her that I'm not her father "although her father Is late" that sometimes even if she tells or call me that she's hungry that I would tell her that I'm not her father, that she's leveraging on the marriage to dump all her responsibilities on me that she's a full grown adult with two hands and two legs like me, so she should fend for herself.

And lastly, she made mentioned that she was willing to keep the baby but she don't want a situation whereby she would start thinking critically again. I'm very much aware that she does loves me so terribly, and would do anything for me absolutely anything that I can think of, I can vouch anywhere that if I develop kidney disease today, she's ready to sacrifice one of her kidney for me, but I don't know why I can't reciprocate her love care and everything else back, worst still this recent development really so hardened my heart towards her, It makes me have a certain hatred for her that I wasn't there before.

To round things up, it's been more than 24 hours and counting that I left house, I haven't spoke to her, returned her picked her numerous calls, or returned her WhatsApp and endless Facebook tests.

I'm surprised and amazed that she's have been claiming that she don't know what she did to me, that she has been asking me what she did but I'm not talking, I had wanted to respond that it's due to the pregnancy she aborted but I still don't want to talk to her yet or return home, I will return home and finally talk to her next tomorrow, maybe by then my anger might have calmed a bit. Nevertheless, I'm currently In an hotel having a constant thought of everything that had transpired.

Below are screenshot of her chats asking me what she did, which of course I'm so surprised that she's asking such even when the answer to her question Is crystal clear and glaring.

honsule:
camry displays on the odometer Trip A or B is in miles. so lets assume 55miles equivalent to 88.514 kilometres.
pls note:
If on the odometer, your outer markings which are bigger are in MPH, it means your car calculates its distance in miles on the trip metre. But,

If the outer markings which are bigger on the odometer are in KM/H, it means your car calculates its distance in km on the trip metre. It depends in which country the car was manufactured. my CAMRY 2010 with a venza engine was manufactured in the USA.
Maybe i should buy 25k fuel and test mine and see how many miles i will get. just that it has been long i bought fuel, CNG all the way with a 90L fiber cylinder in my trunk

I got 34 miles , which is equivalent to 55 kilometers.

Stainlezzking:
Please how much did you get the muscle for ?

7.2m

Interesting…

MightySparrow:
Going through about half of your story, what killed your father is already beckoning to you. It depends on your response.




Prepare to meet your dad.

I’m, I would try all possible best to tone it down, It won’t be in anyway easy to completely stop, but I’d do all I can to tone things down.

Two days ago "Saturday" I went took a test, I did Liver function and kidney function test, I also did liver and kidney scan, total of 39k.

I did these tests because liver problem killed my dad 21 years ago, due to excessive drinking, stout was his favorite then. The Dr said that the drink chopped off parts of his liver.

Back to topic, I have been feeling a lot of pains lately at the right side of my stomach, and I found myself drinking excessively lately and taking other drugs.

I normally drink 6 to 7 bottles of guiness on a daily basis, the minimum I have recorded within the last few months Is 4 bottles In a day.

Within the last 90 days, If I haven't drank guiness, It won't be more than three days, or four at most. If that's the only problem then it'd be a very good thing for me, I won't be too anxious to take a test.

I also normally take tramadol and refnol on a daily basis, daily dose of my tramadol intake is 800mg, last two weeks I bought 11 Sachet of teka tramadol for 110,000 naira, the sellers were arguing with me that I intend selling them, I told them that I normally take it and it won't last me up to 13 days but them nor believe me, they thought I'm buying it to resell, I also take Hygra daily for filmer erection.

I can't remember when last I didn't had sex, I normally sex every single day of my life, at least two to three prostitutes everyday, all skin to skin "without condom" at the brothel.

Also, whenever I called a runs girl to come meet me at the hotel, I normally opens the condom, and then use my teeth to tear the mouth and insert it back into the Sachet, and when the girl comes I pretend to open it, then I'd wear it and start bleeping, few minutes later my penis would shoot out of the hole and it'd turn to skin to skin sex, sometimes they'd be aware and sometimes they won't, majority of them once they're aware and ask me to use another, I'd tell them it's the last that I got and they would have no choice than to continue with the sex.

This Is my daily lifestyle, this morning alone, I have taken two guiness at the hotel I'm currently in right now, "pics below"

I newly got married, it's been 8 months now, and I have a son. I'm scared, the pains I'm feeling at the right side of my stomach is getting intense on a daily basis.

After taking the test two days ago, the doctor was not around to interpret the result for me, I went this morning and they told me he isn't coming today, until tomorrow. I'm so very anxious right now, please doctors in the house, help me interpret this result.

captainking:
From this reports.. Your kidneys and liver is fine..

Thank you so very much sir, I greatly appreciate your response….. Thank you so much sir

captainking:
You are fine man.. No cause for alarm..

You’re serious about this?? Nothing is wrong with my liver??

matify83:
Both results are within normal limits .

Wondering the basis for RFT and LFT?

If done without a doctor's recommendation, then it's a complete waste of naira.

So you mean I’m alright and nothing’s wrong with my liver??

All the sleepless nights, unable to eat, anger, frustrations for the past 8 months were all for nothing…..Thank you Jesus Christ, thank you Lord God Almighty.

immortalcrown:
You were not supposed to go for the test without a doctor's directive.

I did it because I just wanted to know if I’m fine, based on some symptoms I’m experiencing.

Good evening nairalanders, I did a liver function blood test this afternoon but I don't understand what the result says. I asked one of the doctors to interpret it for me where I did the test but he could not, saying I should wait for the main doctor to arrive to interpret it for me, I waited for 4 hours and he didn't arrived, they later told me that he won't be available until next tomorrow.

I did this test because my father died of liver disease 2007 due to excessive drinking. I have been drinking also for the past couple of years but it seems to be getting worst lately, I have duely advised myself and I intended to tone it down to at least 3 or 4 times a week.

So please, doctors in the house help me and interpret this result, please as I'm quite scared and anxious to know what it entails.