₦airaland Forum

stanliwise:
All this patriarchy men. I will see your reaction when you learn your daughter's husband is sleeping around. I guess yoh will say above

In fact I’ll be happy if my daughter’s husband is sleeping around because that shows that he’s a real man

couragemurphy:
No doubt about who you are. Your page says it all..... since you only Follow women/girls on Nairaland, I am not dissapointed. Woman wrapperrr. Try harder, maybe the oloshos here will give you free kpekus. Anú-òhà

That’s female account. You should know it when you see one. She’s just a regular coward who doesn’t want ya to call her a hoe and that’s what brought the m

cococandy:
If the women can endure the slut dogs of men who think it’s okay to sleep around, I don’t see why the men can’t do the same. It’s unfortunate that what you call African culture is suddenly shameful to you when it’s a woman doing it. That should tell you something. But one can’t argue with cognitive dissonance. It usually doesn’t allow its victim to see how they dig huge mental discourse holes for themselves

How you people’s disgusting nature doesn’t make you puke in your sleep is still a wonder for right thinking people.

It’s not a wonder. The problem you have is that you think men and women are the same. My sister they are not. Men have been marrying many wives since 20,000BC. But just try and have side nigga first with your husband. If e no go design your face with blow before sending you out of his house. You’re not equal to your husband and so listen to what we are telling you now

cococandy:
You’re really pained. Sorry

He’s not pained. He’s telling you the reality. Don’t come to nairaland and cry that your husband cheats on you when it’s time

cococandy:
@bold goes against your post. Because everything you classify as African is foolishly foolish. You can’t advocate for foolishness and then turn around to say this is Africa let’s not be foolish. You must have problems with insight

It’s not foolishness. So far we are Africans, we must follow our culture no matter what.

PatrioticNaija:
Children of nowadays claim to know too much. especially the ones still praying and searching for husbands.
''he that blows the piper dictate the tune'' In this part of the world, what the guy said is valid.
Think about these.....
1. A man can decide whenever he wants to marry....... A woman cant do that, but will keep praying and waiting for a man to propose
2. A man can marry even more than two women and they will all live under his control..... A woman cant do that
3. A woman doesn't mind if a married man proposes....... but a man will
4. 5 women can live under one roof with a man......... a woman can't marry two men under her roof etc

So in conclusion, until a woman can marry more than one man under her roof, then you can compare yourself with a man.
This is Africa, let's not be stupidly stupid. Though I know matured ladies that are married dont reason the way kinds here on Nairaland do

You have said it all. Those women are just being emotional and they have forgotten that emotional talks is different from reality

seguno2:
Do women pay dowry to marry their husband?
Do women go to their husband’s family house to marry him into hers?
Do women marry more than one husband?
Do women pay when out on a date?
Do women pay for housekeeping?
Etc.
Does he who pays the piper no longer dictate the tune

Fact bro you’re on point. The problem with Nigerians is that we don’t like to always hear the truth. 90% of married men cheat, forget all the social media pretence

Emaprince:
That's the rule of Oloshoism. If you are proud to be tossed around and fukced by several men, then you are worthless and...well, deservedly fukced, used and dumped by several men.

However, a man can proudly lay as many women as he wants and still feel like the king of the jungle. Its not easy to be a hunter and nail so many bush animals in a day.

Do not compare because at the end of the day, women loses and cries.

Bro you got my point. Don’t mind these women because so many of them know their husband have side chicks but they will always pretend online like their husband isn’t cheating on them lol

Reiia:
Then he can get a divorce. You don't support cheating but you are here making silly excuses for cheating.

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A man will always be a man and there is no big deal if as a man you cheat on your wife because the man may decide to add another wife and Na side chick go turn wife

Les:
what happened to self control on the side of the rodents? Get his points, Cheating is not gender based!

Who told you that? Men have been cheating since 10,000BC and it will never change no matter what

cococandy:
You sound desperate

Why don’t you try it first and see how it works out for you

It will surely work out. I’m gonna try it because i can’t be fucking one wife for the rest of my life. A side chick will be added and when I’m tired of her, I’ll get another side chick

pek:
You can joke or keep been stupid but don't bring God into it.

It’s not a joke bro. How many wives does Solomon, Abraham, David, saul have? Or you don’t know that you just have a side chick first, study her if she’s faithful before turning the side chick to a wife

cosse:
oga compresor.....u need horse whip.......wet one!

Why is everyone making it a big deal. Are you telling me some wives doesn’t know that their husband have side chicks?

chiefqueen:
And you said went to school.
It's not a fucking rule. You cheat because you're a cheap disrespectful piece of shit. If you like variety, don't marry someone and promise to be faithful. Now that is a rule. Shamelessly talking nonsense.

Aunty I’m sorry for making you angry. But that’s the bitter truth. Have you seen where a woman have more than one husband in Nigeria? No. But a man can marry as many wives as he want and Na from side chick wife Dey come. All the wives can live peacefully and so far the man can take care of them, that shouldn’t be a problem

omoagbeke:
Fact! If you see me with another woman, I'll say I want to marry a second wife, but if I catch you with another man.......

Yes you got my point. If my wife caught me cheating, i can always say i want to marry another wife. But she dare not have a side nigga

cococandy:
Dumb analogy

Not dumb analogy. It’s the truth and they say the truth is bitter

cococandy:
Bukatyne

Here’s one of your unsaved Christian brothers.
He claims God condones his infidelity but it’s abomination to God for a woman to do same.

I.e God made the rules for women only

So many men in the Bible married many wives. And you must have a side chick first before making her your wife

koyyes:
Shut up your pit latrine mouth.

You and others can reason and talk like diseased dogs on rampage mode but keep God out of your misery.

Its your type that can never live with a female for more than one minute.

f@ggot.

Aunty no vex. Na so God create us. No be our fault

lefulefu:
hm

Na so now

stanliwise:
patriarchy

It’s nature bro not patriarchy

1Dray:
Which stupid nature? Don't accuse nature for your cheating attitude.

That’s how God created men and we can’t change the nature

Preshy561:
Only a woman that depends on her cheating husbands money finds it difficult to leave.
Once a woman has her own money, forget it bro.

It’s true but not all women with money will leave

Preshy561:
This is senseless.
Women leave cos their husbands cheat or cos they are tired of the marriage.
And if she's the owner of the house, you the husband will vacate. It's simple.

The woman will find it hard to leave and which type of man stays in his wife’s house ? If i chest and my wife leaves, she will be replaced immediately

Preshy561:
Many women have been leaving their marriages for ages.
Say something new.

Yes that’s my point. When a woman cheats, she has to leave because it’s abomination but when a man has side chicks, the wife must not leave or get angry because it’s the law of nature

Ishilove:
And who made this rule?

God made the rule and we must follow God’s word. As a woman can you have side nigga? The answer is no. But a man can have side chick anytime because men can marry many wives, women can’t

Election and violence are 5&6

Ishilove:
So based on your analogy, us women can have more than one dick since it is 'nature'? We can have side niggas whether our husbands are handsome or not. Anytime we are tired of his dick, we summon our manfriends to give us a different style and feel of their rock hard kukumba

No women can’t have side nigga because a padlock that can be open with any type of key is a useless padlock but a key that can open many types of padlock is a master key

lefulefu:
at least as u dey busy bang ur sidechick ur wife go also dey busy bang her side guy

Lol the wife go pack her bag leave house nah. Women aren’t allowed to have more than 1 lover. But men can have as many as we want

Preshy561:
Yes oo.
Same with women, a woman must have 2 or more men who she fvcks anytime she wants.
That's the rule of nature.

Yes then the woman is ready to leave the husband house. No sugercoating, just try it with your husband

Preshy561:
Men, those women you chase online most times, your wives are prettier than them.

Just look at a beautiful woman going to jail cos of a community smelly dick

A man must have a side chick whether wife is pretty or not. That’s the rule of nature. Don’t think you can have your husbands dick alone because it’s meant for 2 or more women