Ibechris2:
Marriage is good!

That does not mean it does not have its ups and down.
Marriage isn't for unstable set of people,u have to be mentally,financially and psychologically prepared to be able to face what is in it.

If u are a pro in being irresponsible the truth is,ur marriage may not last,if u don't take care of your children,u will also have it tough also...

In fact,Marriage is a complex institution that that has no basic formula therefore,what works for u will certainly not work for me.

Marriage is not a scam take it or leave it but being single till old age is the modern day scam.

Wise words from a wise man

If the horror stories about marriage emanating from the Nairaland front-page lately are anything to go by then you'd honestly feel that the institution called marriage is all doom and gloom, you start asking yourself if it's really worth it anymore....at a point you just might start seeing yourself repping 'team single is bae' or 'team baby mama no drama' , but I'd gladly tell you that contrary to what you read on the front page of the dailies about marriage, it is still a beautiful thing to behold.

I had a date scheduled for this evening so I decided to take time out to do a little sight seeing of sorts before my date arrived.... Having settled down with a drink my eyes couldn't stop themselves from wondering around.
I caught a glance of two beautiful couples with kids, and just as I was still in awe of them, boom!!! another beautiful couple sauntered in, what got me astonished with this new couple was that though they had two kids already, the wife was visibly pregnant and the man just couldn't help himself pampering her, from the stairwells up to the entrance and even till they sat down,. It was almost as if it was their first date.

I saw a few more couples and it was a sight to behold, even when my date arrived I was feeling like the odd one out.

Make of it what you will, marriage is a beautiful thing when it's with the right person.

Have a good evening everyone!

Cc Royalroy , lalasticlala, marpol