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StPete:
Did it ever occur to you that she probably was a virgin at the time she told u she was, and then lost it in the course of ur 11 months dating? Just my thoughts

i think you a point but i dnt think so,becouse since i met her i have not cought her with any bad habit,her work place is not to her house and when she leave work she went home straight,even most of my friends living in dsame street with her used to give an imformation,so i think she had lost it b4 we met,

jcross19:
do you want to marry her?, do you have a plan with her?, well relationship build on lies can't survive marital pressure or tension because there will be no trust. Lying to you for 11 months. Wow that's deception . But the truth is that don't love a woman because she is a virgin if you do after she lost her virgin to you, the love you have her shivering and may not survive. You ladies you can't tie a man down by claiming what you are not because when he find out the trust is lost

like i said i realy love her naturaly not becouse she said she is a virgine,i have plan for her,i realy want to marry her but am realy confuse after i heard her story,she lied and she dnt even tell me maybe after 2month,she just tell me yesterday,infact very painful

Good morning brother and sister,please your candid advise is urgently needed,i met a girl last year which i realy love whole heartedly and i also believe she love me more,but something happen yesterday which realy scared me and also put me in a confussion state,when we first met last year she claim to be a virgine,though i didnt believe her until she said she could swear with the holy book {bible or quran} i said no problem she would do it anytime she came to my place but i have already believe her by the she speaks and by her character,she refuse to visit me,but i was thinking perhaps she was scare,i dnt mind becaus i realy love her,we have dated for 11 month until yesterday she text me that i should come online for important isue,when i log in she beging to tell story that a guy she was dating before add pills inside juice for her when she visited him so by the time she woke,she has lost ha virginity,am very angry becous she lied to me when we met that she was a virgine,please am confuse what should i do