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Romance / W by ayogun22: 10:52am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Just a random thought....which hurts more to be in love with a girl who you invested alot in but does not full reciprocate your feelings/love for one reason or the other or to be in love, date the girl she loves you back but then breaks your heart later. Girls vice versa as well. |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 8:03pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
christinie: thanks and i'm not Amos lol |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 8:02pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Kingsley1000: hmmm some badness as in ? pls explain |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 4:47pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
FunnyDude: lol mummy's boy do make the best husband haha |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 4:41pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
christinie: Thanks.....appreciated. I do want true love. It does make me feel like a softy which can be embarassing especially when the girls find out. They take advantage of it 1 Like |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 4:23pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Didnt open up for people to shoot me down...advice needed not criticism 1 Like |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 4:16pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: Very productive advice |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 4:08pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
falconey: I know i have being taken advantage of well. Espeically no iv lol. I am still recovering from that 1 Like |
Romance / Re: ik by ayogun22: 4:06pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
missdebs: i definitely do lol 1 Like |
Romance / ik by ayogun22: 3:52pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: Did You Actually Get Over The Heartbreak? by ayogun22: 11:01am On Sep 04, 2015 |
OK i will agree with your point and also disagree (i) I agree that when you have relationship issues and bring them online especially Nairaland (from reading extensively) the overiding advice is quite rash. Breakup with her, she is no longer into u, she is shagging someone else. It happened to me once when i was having issues with my ex who i was in a LDR with. Very sweet girl and she showed a lot of love. We started having issues (mainly due to my own wahala) and she wanted a break which i didnt want so i kept trying to change her mind. I came on here and i took a terrible advice that she never loved me and only dated me cos of the abroad factor. He encouraged me to get closure by sending her very awful text and locking up which i did. Worst decision i have made so far in my relationship. So yes be careful when seeking advice online cos you are usually vulnurable and whatever people tell you can seem like the right thing. (ii) I think when a babe cheats on you though and she wasnt raped you have to breakup with her though. Thats the ultimate offence in my opinion. What is going on with you right now is that you are deeply inlove with her. You should not try and make someone that cheated on you fall in love with you again. The relationship wont work. |
Romance / Re: Proof: Maturity Is Overrated by ayogun22: 12:46am On Sep 04, 2015 |
in a similar situation now. turn between the norm of doing what is mature to my own inner feelings 1 Like |
Romance / Re: H by ayogun22: 1:25pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
stanvesco: Ok maybe I'm coming across as a proper novice but not true. I've done the confidence thing but when i do it I come across as arrogant which is a turnoff. I can also be overly emotional. The stress can be too much |
Romance / Re: H by ayogun22: 1:13pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
martyns303: Ok maybe my message made me come across as a nerd but I am far from it. I dress really well, fresh hair cut na my thing. I used to go out a lot of time but it's reduced significantly. Now just on occasions. In terms of looks yes I won't say I am Mr handsome but not bad looking. Just the height thing has entered my head bad. I'm also not much of a sweet talker. Too official as they say. But most people do tell me that I'm not a typical PhD student cos I do have a social life but I'm just shy as well and low confidence. |
Romance / Re: H by ayogun22: 12:16pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Maamin: Lol then I will have to be high all my life |
Romance / Re: H by ayogun22: 11:47am On Sep 02, 2015 |
ibrams: I try but just my nature I guess to not have the confidence. Do me kusaaa ? |
Romance / H by ayogun22: 11:28am On Sep 02, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 7:56am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Still woke up this morning and this shit is killing me. Probably from reading posts here on Nairaland. Should have come on here long ago. Although love blinders might need you to get hurt first to realise your mistakes. I really wanna get my mind out to her. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 4:44pm On Sep 01, 2015 |
sailor1234: Thanks bro, i have decided not to send it. You guys have made me see the light. Not very necessary. Its eating me inside though but i have to find a way to let it go |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 2:00pm On Sep 01, 2015 |
funshy87: good point...i am not versed in handling more than one babe at a time. I have to learn now. but i cant forget her not because of that but my ego and my mind constantly making me feel like shit for her playing me |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 1:58pm On Sep 01, 2015 |
Glowstone: yes i dey carry am. na my fault. she just be one babe wey sabi handle me well. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 12:17pm On Sep 01, 2015 |
People say move on but i dont seem to know how. It seems to keep playing in my head all the time. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 11:18am On Sep 01, 2015 |
handsomeyitayo: Very similar but me i dan fall for it probably because i liked her alot and was attracted to her and she used the fact that we havent had sex to her advantage well. I will inbox u. advice def needed |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 9:36am On Sep 01, 2015 |
handsomeyitayo: Yea i know....dont know why she has gotten into my head so much. Maybe na jazz lol, or na pride or ego that a smallie mugud me up. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 8:33am On Sep 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness: looooool.......ok i know how that comes off but thats not it. I am pissed i let her a mugun me up. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 7:58am On Sep 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness: No real undisputed proof but i have a number of circumstancial evidence. She made friends with a ceritifed runs girl during nysc, she clubs (drinks n smokes), she once told me she could me a side chick (yes and i still continued liking her na real mumu button or because she neva open leg), i once told her a friend of mine got divorced cos she cheated on her husband and she replied by saying that is not enough reason. I could tell from her explanation that she was getting scared cos i told her i will never take that. She is bleaching and the way she went to church with her side boobs showing once (she came to see me after). All this just drew my suspicion. Add that to the fact that she was stringing me along - the good guy she wont let smash who spends on her regardless. Am i wrong to jump into conclusion? |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 7:47am On Sep 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness: The whole point of this text is for me to let her know how i feel. i.e. cheapstake gold digger, runs girl e.tc. that it is her loss cos i gave her an opportunity whe she blew. I wanna cut her out completely buy because say i never even shag am he dey pain me die |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 4:47am On Sep 01, 2015 |
LongPennis: Why do people always tend to turn things to money making? I am very comfortable thanks (guessing thats why it was easy for me to spend on that slot). I get it tho and everyone maintains the same stand. Forget about her. She is not worth it. You all cant be wrong |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 4:30am On Sep 01, 2015 |
CUM4WHAT: Fair enough lets leave that out of it. The class thing just means little when a babe plays on your intelligence. Drives me nuts |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 4:18am On Sep 01, 2015 |
CUM4WHAT: I never lose focus on top babes. My life ambition is fine. It makes me feel worse though that i let a small babe mugu me up. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 4:14am On Sep 01, 2015 |
onomeglo: Thanks.....i have been told that a lot. Just can't get over the smug feeling she might have on her face of being satisfied. |
Romance / Re: s by ayogun22: 4:10am On Sep 01, 2015 |
CUM4WHAT: lol...i do but it still gets me crazy |
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