₦airaland Forum

thanks for your reply. my husband is all you said except, like i said, i provide all that i need. he doesnt provide for my personal needs. i take care of my parents and siblings myself. but he does for our baby and things we need at home. All the same, i will take to your advise and rise up to all these. thanks.

if im wrong pls tell me.i love my husband unconditionally. before we got married and now we dont go out to catch fun like other couples, we dont exchange gifts (birthday, valentine, christmas, etc). he doesnt see it as necessary. when i complain, he gets angry and classify me as materialistic. i feel so bad that it doesnt exicite me to make love to him now or even to pet him. ever since we met, i have never received anything from him. and when i did for him, he didnt appreciate it. he said the gift i bought wasnt his standard. now he says providing what we need to make us comfortable at home as man and wife shows the kind of love he has and no responsible wife should complain! i get moody once in a while because i cant discuss it with him without quarelling with him. i buy anything i need for myself and even contribute my quoter for running of the home.is it wrong 4 me to feel bad about this.