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shrines are where native doctors do their thing

Nothing

Lolz, i knw say na lai sha bt lemme just laff

Funny

Am off to d street with my Rav4 who has a Bmw come lets do dis shit

Am off tobd street with my Rav4 who has a Bmw come lets do dis shit

Issorite

now i know

shervydman:
pidgin is the mixture of two or more languages, I really don't fancy it.

It dosent matter

History?? how i hate that subject

NCAN food dn set o

lefulefu:
nothin...na dat pix just make me laugh

OK sir, Enjoy

see human being wey get bf kwanu, some boys sef nawa

lefulefu:
..

can i help you?

seen

ur 22, nd ur married, with no job nd no source of income? wtf is wrong with afrikans

even if she decides to pay me i wee nt even dat or bang som1 lyk dis,



unless d pay is very good sha..

ladies lyk dis be lyk

bbbabes:
Am a learner when it comes to this

u try for bk sha, next tym try upload d 1 we no go need to turn our 4ne to view biko

all those calling him gay,theres absolutely natn wrong in hugging ur fellow guy, girls do it all d tym to themselves why shud ours be weird!!

Prognose:
I read the whole thing.
You're not alone bro. The problems you're having is the same kind of problems married people have at this stage of their marriage. This is the setting limits stage. This is where you both draw the line on things you can tolerate and things you won't allow no matter what. This is the stage where you show the kind of man you are and your wife will likewise adapt as a woman. Your problem is nothing out of the ordinary that others in these phase of marriage have experienced.


You didn't see all these flaws in her initially because you were deeply in love with her then. You may have even noticed some of these things but pushed them aside. But now the euphoria of love have gone and both of you are seeing yourselves live and direct. It's not a new thing bros, trust me.

So she nags. Almost all women nag, some nag worse than others. It is kind of your job to be patient with her as the man. Pls try and control your temper, this is what will make you matured and will separate u from being a boy. When she shouts and talks ceaselessly find a way to leave the environment or ignore her, depending on the type u can do. Over time she will learn to control herself.
Her controlling herself and reducing her nagging and your not getting enraged to be slapping her shows that you are both coming of age in the marriage and are understanding each other and becoming mature.


Do you want her to go back to her job? Remember she is pregnant (for the first time) and in a delicate and scared state. She is quite vulnerable right now with the changes going on in her body. Your job at this time is to be as supportive as you can. I don't mean you should become her slave but try and give her more rope when she misbehaves. It gets worse at three to six months of age and then she should start returning back to normal.

Set a boundary for her father. The fact that he has cut the phone on you once is enough to piss you off. He's not married to her, you are. If he calls again tell him politely that this is your family and you have your own plans for your wife. If you don't have the mind to do this then u can just ignore him instead. This is your wife now, he should stop butting in.

Find a job for her to do, no matter how little. Also don't give up on yourself. Every married couple went through this stage, it is those that come out of it that last. If you break up now, what's to say in your next marriage u won't break up again at the first sign of difficulty. Your a postgraduate man, you should be more mature and patient bro.

Find an older married couple you can talk to for advice. Not online o. A respectable married couple or couples preferably from the generation before ours let them tell you what they've been through themselves. Marriage is hard work and the more work you put into it the sweeter it becomes.

Cheers bro.

your advice is longer dan d post, kilode?

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na you biko

malificent:
Prodigal children

Madam; how come am seeing ur evrywhere

Dear lord can u make 2019 come faster dan a 1min man plz, we are tired

What is hot dere?

sandrahnaub:
...for some reasons ...
I don't like the contour filter on Snapchat...sir

Ok madam, noted

sandrahnaub:
Snapchat contour filter been helping lives since 1920

I see d way its also helping u, urs is since 2016�

nd dis made front page, nairaland mods becoming more useless dan zimbabwean dollar

kingcity:
thanks but u dont need to insult me while making ur point

When did i insult you?

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