₦airaland Forum

Originalsly:
Bro...you can't buy love. Most girls would string you out.... this one let you know in plain simple language.... she cannot leave the guy unless he leaves her. Buy her Mercedes or mansion..... that wouldn't change. Cut your losses....move on.

Yes bro I realize my mistake but is not too late for me

Eagba:
Funny part is when you've left her n meet someone that appreciate you, you'll ask yourself what the fvck have you been doing with her. You might as well despises her. Then guy just work on yourself esteem and see yourself as king.

That's what am doing right now

Eazie351:
Remember to send her itunes card this december too cos ure her loyal client

The era has gone bro. My mumu don do

maxlev1:
OP let me tell u the truth, whatever u are doing isn't going to work out for u as far as she still loves d bf. Believe me it is very difficult for a girl to fall out of love with a man once she genuinely falls in love with him. If u like build her a mansion she won't still stop loving d said guy. That's why u see some ladies married to rich men still cheating on their husbands with their true love. One of d hardest things to do is changing a woman's heart once she loves someone. How did I know all this?
Ans: I have sisters and female cousins who showcase these characteristics.
My advice is that u are a man and as such u should have high self-esteem and ego to move on to d next good girl anytime d present one doesn't work out. Try to have lots of female friends(not lovers o) and choose one as a lover.

God bless you , now that I realize ,I am moving on before this year comes to an end

Sammy555:
what state are u

Why are you asking

seyigiggle:
love cannot be bought

am not impressing her with gift cos we are family friends am not buying her love but I have been there even when she is on hospital bed but the guy did not showing face.

Jayslicky:
love is a thing of the mind, he may later fall in love with someone else.

She is using me to cover the guy weakness, even for the guy yo help her buy some stuff and send to her with the girl paying all expenses he can't, am the one doing that let her see my important in her life. Any family occasion I have always been there to play the part of the boyfriend

lefulefu:
Bros from ur writeup u acting like someone suffering suffering from low self esteem. U feel u cant get ur own girl hence u acting all nice to someone's own girlfriend seeing she's having little issues with her guy. To be honest with with u she's using u for monentary gains nothing else. She still has feelings for her main guy. Hm i dont know why we naija guys feel the only way to get a woman's attention is buying her gifts and giving her money. Cut off from her biko for ur ownhealth sake.

That's it bro is just as if you reset my brain to default

pryme:
Normally I would say you......

Wait...

Whats that on your moniker?

You are a shark pretending to be at a lose here? Come on show us how it's done.

Abeg leave that thing is not good for children

I have a girl I love and wanted to take things serious with her she also confess to love me but she can't double date and that her parent has warned her about the current relationship to the extent that the family has sort spiritual assistance base on the sign they are seeing from the guy in which all came out to say the guy is just wasting this girl time. I told her if she is in doubt I can arrange my family to meet her family since both of us are family friends. She said she can't leave the guy until the guy leave her .this relationship is a distant relationship in which they only see the themselves whenever she visited lag cos the guy is Lagos. she told me the guy has not been financially responsible for anything to her in which I have taken the burden on myself.even to the extent the guy was not in support of the girl to work for herself and yet he is not giving her anything. Now I observe that despite me calling her daily and even sending monthly data to her she only called or message me whenever she need my assistance for something. I just thought of it that I am been fooled and irrespective of how close I am to her I am cutting her off.