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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:53pm On Mar 20, 2019
ElsonMorali:


Well, you've gotten the attention. Whether you get to keep that attention depends on what you do next, how you do it, and when you do it.

If you let too much time pass between your first communication and the next, it sends a signal of unseriousness to her.

Call her and ask her (most humbly) that she grant you an audience as you feel bad about the way things ended between you.

Then take her out on a date to her favorite spot or a place that holds good and special memories for both of you. And go, prepared to spend some dough. Drop your ego at home and put up your best attitude, the one she fell in love with.

She probably is also missing you, so give it your best shot. Good luck.

I was hoping to text her tomorrow about a spot we visited sometimes 2018 which I revisited earlier today. Then if she replies, I'll ask her if it is alright to call.

From there I might convince her to unblock me on whatsapp then proceed with the rapport for a week maybe before asking for a date.

I don't want her giving me the red signals yet. Good idea?

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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:49pm On Mar 20, 2019
greatnaija01:
dude to be able to know U were wrong and OWN up to it, mehn... YOU BE REAL MAN. I salute you.

BUT the issue is complex a little.
QUESTIONS that may make her not want to "try again" with u

1) Have you dealt with your insecurites and issues OR you miss her because she had a better way of COPING with you?
I found a way of dealing with my issues. I was overprotective because she is that kind of woman every guy in his right mind will want to build a future with (career woman)


2) In the last two months, HAVE U MATURED psychologically? HAVE U stopped reacting childishly to things?

Not a 100%. Instead I found out a way of communicating maturely without bringing issues. This is me being sincere

3) IF SHE GIVES YOU A SECOND CHANCE, what would you do differently that will ensure the FIRST break up does not repeat itself again?

She feel in love with my personality at first. That kept her focused and attracted. It all faced away with thr frequent fights due to my insecurites (which isn't attractive)


4) Are you dating her with plans for the future or just to "KIP KIP" and see how it goes?

Right from the moment we started dating, it has always been futuristic. It was never a casual relationship.


5) In what way would you help her HEAL and MOVE ON from the hurt you have caused her?

I think I have to be a better version of myself. Someone she once loved as her man.

But to be honest, I am just scared she might have moved on already.

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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:35pm On Mar 20, 2019
lilmax:
mumu

you miss her breast

but as usual, Nigerian guys flop because of sex, it controls them,same with money

remove sex and money now, most of them will be depressed immediately

look at this one now grin

Why are you acting so uncultured?

You think everything is about sex and money? Smh

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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:34pm On Mar 20, 2019
Davash222:
Quiet your mouth . You only miss her sexx game.

Like I stated, I had someone else after the breakup. This isn't about sex.

ifex370:
You had her and you lost her.. You don't deserve her

We all make mistakes. Our mistakes doesn't define who we are.

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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:25pm On Mar 20, 2019
ElsonMorali:


You have just one opportunity to get this right and it can't be done over the phone.

I can't just call her and except everything to be cool after 8 weeks of no contact. I felt texting was a basic way of getting her attention.
Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:24pm On Mar 20, 2019
sapeleboi:
go straight to her and talk sense into her brain
I'd rather seek a more mature way of handling serious relationships

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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:20pm On Mar 20, 2019
ariketalks:
You never know what you have until you lose it.

I placed a lot of value on her. I was only being childish with the way I get jealous and create issues where there was none.

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Romance / Re: I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:16pm On Mar 20, 2019
Lalasticlala, I will really be glad if you'd help me out. I don't want to make a mistake or not take this chance and later regret in future.
Romance / I Pushed Her Away With My Attitude Now I Want Her Back by BalleyB: 7:12pm On Mar 20, 2019
Good evening everyone. I am going to keep this as short as possible because I wouldn't want to bore you with irrelevant information.

Dated this amazing lady for a year which was one of the best moments of my relationship life but I flopped with my insecurities and Jealousy which made her lose interest in me. I stopped being her "kind of guy" due to these distasteful actions of mine and we broke up two months ago.

The thing is, I have had another relationship after the break up but I can't seem to be able to get over her because she is one in a thousand (reason why I loved her in the first place).

Throughout the space of two months, we didn't have any form of communication until two days ago when I sent a text apologizing for my behavior during the breakup saga (I got emotional and said things I shouldn't have). She replied my text yesterday saying she had forgiven me because she knew I did those things due to the fact I was hurt and in her words "Time heals all wounds I guess"

We haven't had any other conversation since yesterday but I want to get her back. I felt since she replied my text with a positive "tone" I might be able to work things out with her.

Please I really need an advice because this lady means so much to me.

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Travel / Re: USA Visit Visa Part 3 by BalleyB: 11:11am On Mar 12, 2019
Good morning everyone.

My baby sister is having her graduation by May at Maryland and I am willing to visit her (as her only family left) to celebrate with her.

I am 26, a federal staff and not married. My salary is above 200k.

I am willing to spend just a week so I can come back to work (got a leave for that).


Please I'm looking at the probability of getting the visa. I've only been to Ghana before as I've never had any reasons to leave Nigeria.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Faced With Sexual Desires Or Have Wet Dreams & You Are Unmarried?learn From This by BalleyB: 9:16am On Aug 31, 2018
Lukgaf:
In essence, if you are mature enough and capable of feeding two mouths, then go and marry say no to premarital sex or relationship

So you Muslims think marriage is all about feeding mouths?

Is this why you have more than one wife?

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Phones / Re: President Macron Awards Mike Adenuga "Commander Of The Legion Of Honour” by BalleyB: 6:42pm On Jul 05, 2018
Legends

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Phones / All Expenses Paid Trip To Russia For All Globacom Subscribers by BalleyB: 8:59am On May 22, 2018
Glo excites subscribers with Go Russia offer

Lucky subscribers on the platform of fully integrated telecommunications solutions provider, Globacom, will enjoy an all-expenses-paid trip to Russia, courtesy of the company.


This follows the launch of a new promotion called “Go Russia” which the operator unveiled for the exclusive enjoyment of millions of its subscribers across the country.

According to Globacom, the #GoRussia promo will offer 22 lucky winners that will be selected through raffle draws the opportunity of travelling to Russia.

The promotion is open to all existing and new Glo customers on both the prepaid and postpaid platforms and will run from May 16 to July 8, 2018.

The statement by Globacom said,

“GO Russia promo is another golden opportunity to appreciate and reward our amazing subscribers who have stood solidly behind the brand over the years. Their patronage and support have been overwhelming and we have lined up the promo to appreciate them.”


It explained that subscribers are required to use N3,000 on Voice calls or a minimum of N5,000 on Voice and Data to qualify for the draw. “The more the airtime used by subscribers, the higher the chances of winning”, the telecom company stated and urged Nigerians to make utmost use of the opportunity provided by the promo to be part of the trip to Russia.

Winners will be contacted by Glo customer care.

Interested customers can participate in the promo by sending GO to 240 on the Glo network.


https://lailasnews.com/glo-excites-subscribers-with-go-russia-offer/

Phones / Re: MTN Unveils 'Man In The Box' In Lagos - Pictures by BalleyB: 7:45am On May 11, 2018
vizkiz:




What is my business with dangote and Mtn?

Am I him?
Is him me?
Me him is?
Him is me?

grin

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Phones / Re: Glo Introduces Glo 2 Submarine Cable For High Speed Data And Browsing by BalleyB: 4:38pm On Apr 25, 2018
So when will this start? I need the fast data

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TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 9:20pm On Mar 16, 2018
Threebear:

Useless update !
Now this is the bias we should be talking about .
The update is on point. Give your own detail of what happened instead of barking

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TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 9:18pm On Mar 16, 2018
Hypocritesucks:

Instead of you to start praying that she survives Sunday eviction night,you are here bragging about payporte...Hope you remember Ahneeka grin
She will survive the eviction then you eat your cheap words

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TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 4:42pm On Mar 14, 2018
Threebear01:

The girl is a beautiful soul.
At this point it wouldn't even bother me if she wins the money ....she's a beautiful person inside and outward.


I misjudged her initially, I couldn't have been more wrong .
TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 4:40pm On Mar 14, 2018
jibs4lv:
this report pattern may be slow, press report button and enter 2 next time bro
they never do anything. Do you know how many times Giel used abusive words against ibkayee and she wasn't banned? Dominique is biased all in the name of "this thread will be boring" to hell with that.

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TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 4:34pm On Mar 14, 2018
MrEnigma007:


while reporting, be sensible enough to know the full gist. or do you answer your question without reading the instruction??
Take your disgusting face far from my sobriquet

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TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 12:51pm On Mar 14, 2018
I see the housemates losing their wager. As long as Nina is the HOH. She can't even think above miracle nor to talk of this task

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Career / Re: Married Female Staff Of Globacom Refute Claims Of Being Sacked by BalleyB: 6:54am On Mar 11, 2018
chriskosherbal:
Yes I will totally agree that the telecommunication industry is a competitive market and for every competitive market firms operating in such industry can go to any length to downplay one another ...is the rule of the game ...


But am a man who don't easily discard rumours easily ..just as every smoke has a source so also is rumour ...as it is popularly Said behind every rumour there is an element of truth ..


I think this should be properly investigated....I have been in this world for some time now and I swear anything can happen especially in this sub-Sahara country Nigeria.

I rest my case.

For sure people were sacked but that doesn't mean they are all women. This is probably one of those sacked coming back to hunt glo

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Career / Re: Married Female Staff Of Globacom Refute Claims Of Being Sacked by BalleyB: 6:51am On Mar 11, 2018
Catheriny:

Victims? If you read through the previous thread nobody declared anything. out of the almost 10,000 people that viewed the thread, nobody was sacked and could come out to say anything if truly it was injustice?
The were sacked due to bad work ethics. Glo will not sack those adding value to it's company

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Career / Re: Married Female Staff Of Globacom Refute Claims Of Being Sacked by BalleyB: 6:29am On Mar 11, 2018
Nutase:
How true is this?? We need victims to come forward then we can know the next step to take.

I like this comment. Victims should declare themselves so people can fight for them because I doubt the credibility of that news

FarahAideed:
Nobody can sack you because you are married , is Mike Adenuga not married himself ...You were all relieved of you duty because you no longer have what it's takes to move the company to the next level but have instead all constituted yourselves to be be small bottle necks and principalities to the progress of the company ..I have had quite a few business dealings with Glo and these days we don't even bother taking our innovations or services to them because of the very poor attitude of principalities such as these women who don't grow in life again but instead use their small office desk to be creating unnecessary bottle neck to good solution which always end up with MTN ... Mike please you can sack them again sef just to be sure ..
This makes a whole bunch of sense

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TV/Movies / Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by BalleyB: 1:55am On Mar 08, 2018
https://www.nairaland.com/threebeaar

https://www.nairaland.com/queenofhell

Dominique you are just deceiving yourself thinking you banned threebear. He is back in his alternative account. See him viewing I guess that is an appropriate thing to do right? grin

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