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GamingRe: Which Type Of GD You Play The Most-wave Or Demon Levels? by bandseeker(m): 9:10am On Mar 22, 2025
FirTreeMan:
man what kind of site is that XD just download the real game

i play mostly demon because wave challenges are usually luck-based (if the timing is too short to beat consistently then it is luck)
the problem with a lot of very high-tier demon levels is that they end up requiring high luck even if you are the best player possible, especially if you have frame perfects at high hz. for example if you play 144hz (which you have to for some high tier demons) a frame perfect will be 1/144 of a second (0.7 milliseconds). for reference even 1 millisecond cannot be reliably perceived by the human eye. this is too precise for even muscle memory, so a lot of the very top demons require insane amounts of repetition even when you are as good as humanly possible at them as possible. of course there is a "skill" element but the "skill" is just playing them repeatedly once you have memorized everything, which is why i only go up to insane demons (to waste less of my life on games)
How many demons have you completed so far?
FashionRe: Men Keeping Long Nails: I Dislike Seeing My Fellow Gender With This.... by bandseeker(m): 3:32pm On Jul 14, 2024
Dexy4yah:
So irritating if you ask me...
There's nothing wrong with keeping long nails. It's personal style.
RomanceRe: How Do Men With Soft Hands Cope? by bandseeker(m): 11:47am On Jun 11, 2024
So you're really having sleepless nights over this?

Not long ago, soft and manicured hands were a mark of wealth and aristocracy.

Only peasants had rough, dirty hands.

Seems like you enjoy suffering, perhaps you're even into BDSM.
RomanceRe: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by bandseeker(m): 4:11pm On Jun 01, 2024
GreatAchiever1:
Kleptomaniac may also be inherited, so its not just a mental disorder, and even if it were it still can be corrected just like sexual identity. Don't just separate effeminacy and other sexual identity nonsense from being a vice as the rest so as to promote/encourage it; the problem to not finding solution to a problem is if you identify that problem as not being a problem but something one should embrace and let go.

You cannot "pray the gay away" or seek deliverance but here's what one can do; Simply repent and believe the Gospel of Jesus; after all as scripture say: Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will keep My judgments and do them.
Yes, there are reports and testimonies of people having a change in their sexual orientation.

Since when should we start listening to our children in matters of sexual identity, this is all shades of weird, who even came up with that concept. There's only two genders, male and female; a man shouldn't act as a woman and vice versa. At least the child is still young so looking for the right solution at this stage is better before it gets worse, as this is a problem.
Helping a child to overcome a problem such as this and more is treating your child as your own in love and should be advocated; because doing otherwise makes you a bad parent.
Not everyone is a Christian. And not everyone should be made to model their lives after the Bible/Quran.
RomanceRe: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by bandseeker(m): 9:52am On Jun 01, 2024
Zairee:
You should have saved that kid
He will remember you as a young adult and it will give him hope
I wish I could help, but I don't know who to call or where to go.

Besides I'm just an ordinary student doing my best to survive.
RomanceRe: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by bandseeker(m): 9:50am On Jun 01, 2024
GreatAchiever1:
The phrase "let's learn to live and let live" is a justification for descending into morally bankrupt degeneracy. Even though a male's effeminate behaviour may provide evidence that it is inherited, it still shows that the child needs treatment/counselling/therapy to overcome this. What would you say to someone who is a kleptomaniac, knowing full well that stealing is bad even if it may be out of their control? Would you agree to "live and let live" if they were born with a different personality? Any vice that undermines our human moral values should not be justified.
Kleptomania is an impulse control disorder, not a sexual identity.


Kleptomania can be treated by counselling and therapy. Homosexuality cannot.

You simply cannot "pray the gay away" or drag your son to a church for deliverance because he happens to prefer dolls to trucks and race cars.

Conversion therapy has been found to have very damaging effects on gay individuals. The effects can last a lifetime.

The stigma and shame might never go away because you, as a parent were forcefully insistent that something was "wrong" with your child.

Your child is a human being. Your child has emotions and your child has feelings.

Your child is not simply an extension of your own body and mind. You can train a pet to behave properly but you cannot forcefully instill your own values and ideals in another human being.

I know parents have expectations for their children, but sometimes, things won't go as planned; and that is completely okay.

It's high time we started listening to our children and treating them as one of our own.
PoliticsRe: Cross River Demolishes Historic Monolith, Replaces It With Statue Of Jesus by bandseeker(m): 10:22pm On May 31, 2024
Destroying a historical artifact for just another generic statue of Christ.
RomanceRe: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by bandseeker(m): 3:28pm On May 31, 2024
Nigeria is a very conservative country which is heavily steeped in religion. This is why our society is intensely homophobic.

Most of the hatred stems from the ignorance and hatred which is propagated by religious leaders all over the country.

Homophobic rhetoric is drilled into the minds of young children right from the moment they can speak and understand words.

I've observed this first hand. I live in a typical 'face me, I slap you' neighborhood. My neighbours collectively happen to have a lot of children, all of them ranging from ages 6 to 13.

They all come out in the late afternoon everyday to play after school.

There's this kid that particularly piqued my interest (Let's call him Miracle)
Miracle is the kind of child you would call "different" He is rather effeminate in nature, but he is very intelligent and speaks with an air of quiet authority.

A lot of his mates constantly make fun of the boy because he's "girly"
At first, it was just light teasing, but over time, it has escalated into much more aggressive and straight up bullying. They constantly call him names like "woman wrapper" and "homo"

I can't help but feel sad for the kid. To make matters worse, his father is a violent jerk who constantly beats him up, perhaps to "straighten" his son. The kid is always downcast and appears much more quiet than usual. The sparkle in his eyes is fading.

All of this shit will accumulate and will intensely screw the kid up by the time he's a young adult. I don't want to intervene before my neighbours take it the wrong way.

The Nigerian society has failed Miracle. Instead of teaching our children to love and respect others who are "different" from us, we continue to sew the seeds of violence in their young hearts, and we keep the cycle of hatred going.

Nigerians generally fear what they do not understand. We should learn to live and let live.

Let us break the cycle.
RomanceRe: Men: Would You Marry A Woman You Love If She Can't Give Birth Naturally? by bandseeker(m): 7:56am On May 22, 2024
2buffagain:
Men, would you marry a woman you love if you know she can't give birth naturally?
I don't really fancy children at all.
Maybe my wife and I could have a child free marriage.

Although if she wants, we could have our own children. I wouldn't mind if it was via a natural birth or CS. It's not a big deal.

Adoption and surrogacy are also welcome ideas.
Music BusinessRe: I'm Seeking For Members To Start A Rock/metal Band In Port Harcourt by bandseeker(op): 1:06pm On Apr 21, 2024
incogni2o:
What instruments can you play apart from being a vocalist.
Currently learning the ukulele
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by bandseeker(m): 9:17am On Jan 28, 2024
Solomon's Gate by The Wise Man's Fear
Music BusinessI'm Seeking For Members To Start A Rock/metal Band In Port Harcourt by bandseeker(op): 9:16am On Jan 28, 2024
I need a bass guitarist, lead guitarist, rhythm guitarist, drummer and keyboardist (perhaps) within Port Harcourt city


I'm a vocalist and I listen to a wide range of genres, but I'm really into EDM, metal and rock music.

My favourite bands are As I Lay Dying, A Skylit Drive, blessthefall, The Devil Wears Prada, Oceans Ate Alaska, Fall Out Boy, Breaking Benjamin, Wolves At The Gate, Alesana, Bring Me The Horizon, Ocean Sleeper, Asking Alexandria, In Hearts Wake, Of Mice and Men, Hope In Hand, Livealie (I really can't list everyone here)

Hopefully I'm able to find instrumentalists with a similar taste in music so we can come together and jam!

Hit me up on the WhatsApp in my signature if you'd like to meet up with me and you think we've got a shot
Music/RadioRe: I'm Seeking For Members To Start A Rock/metal Band In Port Harcourt by bandseeker(op): 9:13am On Jan 27, 2024
bandseeker:
I need a bass guitarist, lead guitarist, rhythm guitarist, drummer and keyboardist (perhaps) within Port Harcourt city


I'm a vocalist and I listen to a wide range of genres, but I'm really into EDM, metal and rock music.

My favourite bands are As I Lay Dying, A Skylit Drive, blessthefall, The Devil Wears Prada, Oceans Ate Alaska, Fall Out Boy, Breaking Benjamin, Wolves At The Gate, Alesana, Bring Me The Horizon, Ocean Sleeper, Asking Alexandria, In Hearts Wake, Of Mice and Men, Hope In Hand, Livealie (I really can't list everyone here)

Hopefully I'm able to find instrumentalists with a similar taste in music so we can come together and jam!

Hit me up on the WhatsApp in my signature if you'd like to meet up with me and you think we've got a shot
Still ongoing
Music/RadioI'm Seeking For Members To Start A Rock/metal Band In Port Harcourt by bandseeker(op): 6:40pm On Jan 25, 2024
I need a bass guitarist, lead guitarist, rhythm guitarist, drummer and keyboardist (perhaps) within Port Harcourt city


I'm a vocalist and I listen to a wide range of genres, but I'm really into EDM, metal and rock music.

My favourite bands are As I Lay Dying, A Skylit Drive, blessthefall, The Devil Wears Prada, Oceans Ate Alaska, Fall Out Boy, Breaking Benjamin, Wolves At The Gate, Alesana, Bring Me The Horizon, Ocean Sleeper, Asking Alexandria, In Hearts Wake, Of Mice and Men, Hope In Hand, Livealie (I really can't list everyone here)

Hopefully I'm able to find instrumentalists with a similar taste in music so we can come together and jam!

Hit me up on the WhatsApp in my signature if you'd like to meet up with me and you think we've got a shot

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