₦airaland Forum

Arobagger:
that is how my brother bought an ipad for his son of 8yrs to be playing dream league(football game) with it while me de use cello tape techno y2 chai! When the boy go begin enter site watch blue film, he go begin ask baba God why me.

Note: don't start what u might regret tomoro

That boy is not responsible for your cellotape techno y2..

YoungLionken:
It's even a "son"and you're acting very worried, you should thank your stars that, the reverse is not the case here;i.e. You're not the parent of the girl who's probably in same age bracket with your son.

Or your son isn't into gang,drugs ish. Myself as an example, I was already an elder in the cult I was in,while in sec school. I spent most of my outside school during school hours even when my parents were very strict. Thank God I realized myself quickly (not because of the strictness of my parents).

Open communication is the key. Don't act like our parents,who thought we could be upright through severe beatings and punishments.

Most of the miscreants;women of easy virtues,armed robbers,thugs, kidnappers, hooligans,etc in our society today,had/have better parents than us,when it comes to strictness and coercion,but the difference between us, when you compare with the aforementioned(as children to our parents, before and now) is clear.

Talk things through with your son(the era of military system of training a child is gone). He needs orientation and enlightenment. No be by gragra (it's not by might). Selah!..

Thanks alot my friend

palmshots:
Your Son understands the Game early.... Lol

You shud be happy.... Just talk to him so he shudnt get carried away

Btw! Do you guys live in Nigeria?

Yes we live in Nigeria.. Lagos

cruzydal:
I can read a whole lot of rubbish comments here
16 he is very ready for a relationship, at 14 I already had a girlfriend .its not big deal , it’s just to caution him and Channel his mind to the right path ,also tell him to invite the girl maybe for lunch , eat with the both of them ask her questions and know the kind of person she is

Thanks alot my friend

OurBestWriter:
From your post, I could deduce you're the typical African strict dad. Well, i commend you for that. However, that attitude worked many years ago, not today. You gotta let go!

In today's world, you have to be a COOL dad. Your son is 16 years and there is nothing wrong with him having a girlfriend. Unless he is been taken advantage of by an older person. What you should do is get him some condoms and talk sex with him.

Be a friend to your son, not just a dad. Your son can only communicate freely if he doesn't fear you. Fear doesn't do shits in bringing up a child. I know many folks who used that strategy and they are in a pitiable situation today.

Be flexible man... If you choose to handle this issue via the typical African man way, you will only be accelerating the issue.

Shalom!
Banty6

Thanks alot man

[quote author=Happyguy201 post=86141726][/quote]Okay.. Happy now?

kurupt1:
Your the cause of ur problems! What is a sixteen year old doing with a smart phone??See a lot of you parents are spoiling these kids

I’m supposed to write him letters when i go abroad?

Happyguy201:
what is your son doing with such a clingy girl do you want your firm to go down the drain? the girl is using him for sex and money yet your asking for advice ? jeeez poor parenting is writen all over you mr man .

Mr Perfect �

Shelloween:
Stop invading your Son's privacy Nwokem.

He’s not even 18 yet I’m responsible for him so thank you

SangoOlukosoOba:
Better use for money or fortification rituals before he disappoints you finally

Shut Up �

This one too

My Son recently turned 16, he’s actually preparing for Utme and while he does, he works with me partime at my Firm. I do alot of traveling and he knows the business. He fills in for me.. last night, we were eating dinner and his phone won’t stop ringing and everytime it rings, he tries to silence it. I was watching him..then phone rings again and he tries to excuse himself from the table but i asked him to not move an inch until everyone has left the table.. then out of the blues i asked him to hand me his phone.. he knows the rules (never bring your phone to the dining) so he hands me his phone then i set it aside.. it wasn’t even up to one minute this number calls again and the caller name was Mia.. .. i got curious i asked him and he said she was his friend.. fast forward i asked him for his unlock code, he gave it and I didn’t use it right away.. i held on to his phone and later after dinner i checked around and the same Mia and himself they’ve been exchanging text messages and calls.. what do i make of this? My guess is they been having sex too and i guess aunty Mia is older.. how can i stop this?