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Sorry about your situation but your marriage has ended except you are ready to forgive your wife.

You and your wife have lost that emotional connection that women need to love a man, i don't know if it was ever there. A woman has to stay connected 247 and if its not to you then she will most definitely look for someone else.

She has slept with someone else ( or still is sleeping with the person) hence the over religiosity without following the dictates of the bible. Clutching the bible and staying back in church is because she is trying to find forgiveness from God and from her self. Your first suspect should the most frequent male she calls or calls her because she may be deleting SMS and chats. Also the male she sees most frequently at work, church or your children's school, who she is mostly online with too. don't trust anyone at this point.

Your wife is on self destruct mode ,meaning she wants to escape the trauma her infidelity is causing her by spoiling the marriage so you will take the blame for it ending( gas lighting).

Unfortunately married women when they cheat will never confess except you catch them red handed with receipts.

Every thing that is playing out is because she has decided what to do and you are not part of her plan and also her lover does not want her for anything more than what they have .

if i were you i will begin investigation to gather evidence of her infidelity and i am sure you will find what you are looking for especially now that she is in a weak emotional state which will make her sloppy.

Good luck with your findings and do revert back on what you find.