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I personally think trying again is the way to go,as your wife might me using that to test you to see if you are sincere with your words and really want to save your marriage.
For all you care, she might not have really slept with anyone else but just trying to gauge your response to see what you'd do if she served u in your own coin. But even if she did, it was just out of hurt and I'd advise you two make amends, dust off your dirty linen, and make your marriage work.
9 years of marriage is no joke, and for those beautiful lol ones you have, your marriage is worth saving. Forgive yourselves first then forgive each other. Life is sweeter when we dwell together in love and peace.
If your wife is a sane lady, she'll come around when you come back begging. You know the codes u used to woo her initially, try some of those