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thanks to you all i really appreciate your advices am 21yrs when he started dating me now am 22. How would you feel if somebody do this to your little siblings, but i dont think i can love again i will never trust except the one i called my husband

There is this guy i met last year January, as at then he had nothing because he is just a fresh graduate, i managed with him sponsored him in terms of food and also giving him money when it comes in terms of searching for job believing that things would change as soon as he got a job and which he promised and vow never to leave me for another girl, because before he met me i told him that i made a vow never to have anything to do with men until when God gave me right husband which i would not like it to be broken, he pleaded with me that a vow can also be changed, in my presence he sweared to me that if i give him a chance he would never hurt me, never to leave me for another woman and to take care of me when he got a better job i looked at the situation of things and decided to give him a trial. On July, 2010 he told me that he is going for an interview which i fasted for three days just for him to get a job and i bless him assuring him that the job is his, by 4pm that fateful day he called that he has gotten the job which i was very happy but at the same time sad because they posted him to Lagos to resume on the 1st of August, 2010. on 29th of August he left and promise to be coming back every month end of which he has been doing. To cut the whole story short unknown to me that this boy has a serious date in their village which his neighbors told me of but i did not believe them until earlier last month i was in the office when i got a text message from him telling me that he do not know how to say this that am a better person and i do not deserve him, i should move on with my life blablablaaa, the relationship is over and so on. I could not control my tears which made me to lay a curse on him so my fellow nairaland if i start saying all i went through in that relationship you would not believe me. You know the worst he is very selfish not only to me but also to his siblings and friends but i don't care i am competent with what i have because i believe that money is not everything, he changed ever since he traveled to Lagos not only to me but to those his best friends when he was in Port Harcourt. Why is men wicked and they do not have conscience, i cry morning day and night because i have never fall in luv before and when i tried to i was hurt. So please i need your advice because it seem to me asive that all men are the same.