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EfemenaXY:
Well, you could download software from the internet to use in monitoring and eavesdropping on his calls. He'll be none the wiser.

See? life doesn't have to be that difficult.

Wouldn't even go dt far. Not actually interested in what they r discussing, it's dt singular act dat got me annoyed

bellong:
Are you sure it was his sister that called or he saved the number with my sister...

Lol, it's d sister. Pretty sure

Sis in law called my hubby last night and his response, "I'll call u back, am not where I can talk now". I felt insulted so I spoke so his sis could hear dat am d one there wt him. She cut off d phone and I believed they went chatting.
Few minutes later, another call, they started petty talk and he stood up from d sitting room entered d room closed d lobby door, closed d room door and entered d bathroom! Just cos he doesn't want me hearing there discussion. What's that!
When they were through, he started teasing and romancing me cos he clearly saw I was annoyed.
It's painful cos am so free I discuss everything going in my own family wt him.
Shouldn't he at least find a time when am not around to discuss thrr issue instead of making me feel like an outsider.
Am I overreacting or something

Tx for all d comments, am really grateful.

ifyalways:
Mind games are always dangerous.

If you are so worried and/or have doubts, pay him an impromptu visit but BE ready to deal with whatever comes with it cos as it is, nothing he says now can clear your doubts. You already have an excuse for the surprise visit: he's sick, you are worried but like I said, before you embark on that trip, be sure you are equal to the task.

Personally, I wouldn't bother.

Tx ma'am, we live together, he's only out of town wen d need arises. Right now he's on his way back

My husband got an out of state contract . D day he was supposed to travel he was extra meticulous wt his hygiene, I read meaning to dt cos d project has nothing to do wt bn clean n fine, it's a building project. Tho he's bn travelling to dt particular state frequently now, av never noticed Ds extra attention to himself.
Last night I called him, he didn't pick up, wen he later called he sounded husky, asked Wats wrong he said he has a cold. 20mins later wen he called back d cold was gone! Cos he sounded like himself. Can I confront him based on this alone? Is this enough to conclude he's cheating?
Pls mature responses alone, wouldn't be here if I av someone I discuss my home wt!