₦airaland Forum

iamJ:
which estate? abeg dont use what u hear to talk, he didnt do anything for her


even if she no wan pack, renovate her house, see the tv in her house, abeg rest all these men dont help their mothers, oshimole renovated his mothers house, go and ask no be by making noise online

keep quite...which TV? If you put an LCD there,will you also come and operate it?

Seun360:
Its time for Arewa youths to stand up to defend their lands from those unscrupulous igbos.

Mad man....the federal government did not ban the sales of codeine and we die not force them to buy it....

Codeine and benelyn cough syrups are sold in all chemist in the country and its not a crime. Except he wants to tell us that the Igbo's own all the chemist shops in the North and their is nothing wrong that.

BluntBoy:
I don't know why women continue patronizing this dubious and pathetic lawyer. He charges exorbitant fees and hardly does anything thereafter. Many human rights lawyers that I know truly help without charging much. Many of them even do it for free.

As for this issue of physical assault, it is becoming rampant. Something has to be done about it. Men need to exercise a lot of patience (I know it is easier said than done) but that is the only way. When you are the stronger, you have to exercise more patience.

Women too need a lot of discretion. Physical assault is just an aspect of domestic violence. If you verbally abuse your spouse, you are also guilty of domestic violence.

The matter tire me...

People dont see beyong their noses.

The Emeka guy is a complete family destroyer....

He is married and divorced 3 times and that is how he wants others to be...

He will not even try to get to the root cause and have the family settle.

To make matters worst,he always sleeps with any woman he is helping to get a divorce.

OjukwuWarBird:
Are you now scared of Buhari and his kitchen cabinet ending up before ICC.

I thought you wanted all Biafrans dead.


This news should excite you.



The fear of ICC is the resetting of brains.


Even you don quiet.


Let me contact Tonyebarcanista Madridguy Yyeske Fulanmafia for you




A true Christian ethnic group can never


1) force or beg a Muslim ethnic group to share the same country with them.


2) depend on the resources of a Muslim ethnic group for survival.


Why can't we.?


Because we know that our God aka Yahweh is always there for us.

See this one o...which mumu ICC?

Bashir of Sudan and all hos atrocities is not in ICC yet and you are talking trash.

Why did the south african govt not arrest him when he went there? Was south africa not a signatory to ICC?
Foolish people....before international comunity will come,them don kill una finish.Nonsense

Its obvious that the boy is an only son....

That was how my late father also married at the age of 19yrs.He was an only son

allenroundabout:
Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

The source of your problem has already been revealed and it is spiritual husband.

A very strong one for that matter.
He always attacks when you wrong your wife and she is not happy with you.
He also manipulates her against you.

You and your wife needs serious deliverance or else nothing for you.

Mountain of fire should be the closest place to you...go there for a 3 days deliverance prayers.
It shall be well with you

BabaRamotu1988:
declaring victory over unarmed civilians hahahahaha
such a coward useless buharian army full of rapists
Buhari is a terrorist
aisha is a shameless corrupt prostitute
kiss the truth

Keep aon deceiving yourself...
From BSS to using stick.
From stick to cutlass
From cutlass to dane guns
From dane guns to AK49

Its better to nip them at the bud.

You can go on and wail till eternity

Sixaxis:
Dats deep..
Only few can decipher that.

What is there to deciper? mumu Viking...armed robbers

People just talk because they want to talk.
Do you actually know what is called private lable products and completely knocked down parts?

Somebody owns the design and anybody can buy it and brand it....simple

Forget all this jargins on detecting it during 10 to 12th week of pregnancy.
Its somebody that has not been a parent of a child with health complication that will be jumping up and down saying there is a relief.

I am a father whose kid is having medical issues and i know how hard it is to manage the situation.

If you love your gf so much and you dont want what will hurt her,then i advice you guys should go your seperate ways.

Their is nothing good about AS/AS relationship.

MrBrownJay1:
if you have been able to tame your addiction, then clap for yourself, but dont automatically assume that all men are equal...




alcohol, chocolate, food, drugs, cigarette, lovemaking and going to the gym etc all release dopamine into our brains, should we also stop these as well?! get real! as i said, there is nothing wrong with enjoying some acts, so long as it does NOT get into an excessive habits... in small doses.



if you know that then you should also understand therefore that it is not easy to get off any addiction.... trying to claim that you can just get off as if you turn light switch, is a joke!

Go and learn more before comming here to spew trash and promoting a destructive habit like porn and masturbation.Instead of encouraging him to stop you are glorify the nonsens habit that has made mess of the young mans life.

MrBrownJay1:
again, there is a huge difference between someone who masturbate to get rid of the sexual urges, and one that does so excessively 5hrs daily (like the OP). that would be as crazy as saying that a person who smokes ONE cigarette a day is the same as one that smoke 5 packs a day. get real!!!! if a person does not have a partner to satisfy their sexual self, then let he/she use whatever tool to masturbate and come back to their sense, as we all know that sex can affect the way some think.

if you dont want to self-service then fair enough, but try to UNDERSTAND the issue before coming here with your rubbish religious deluded nonsense.

That urge can be tamed and the sexual energy transmuated into better things.
Go and read about how dopamine is release into the brain during masturbation and you will understand that people who masturbate gets dopamine without any hardword and this in turn becomes a very big problem go them.

Dopamine addiction is even higher than alcohol and nicotine addiction and it makes one mentally fagged out and disorinted.

MrBrownJay1:
arrant nonsense... if a man does NOT have a girlfriend then let him masturbate once a day (or less) and get the sexual frustration away, rather than have them walking around like a "sexual abuser ticking time bomb". masturbation is only wrong when done in excess, like the OP... so if he can control the urge and reduce choking his monkey, then its all good.

what makes you even think that masturbation isnt something your god created to alleviate people's urges?!

Go and sit down....that is why people like you who want to continue in their addiction will not tell theirselfs the simple truth and end the addiction.

After years of indulging the the useless act,the young man has found out that it has made his life so miserable.Giving him low self esteem,burning out his energy and making him to lose focus and you are here talking nonsense.

When he gets married and start having seminal lekeage and inablity to sustain erection for long and then having issues in his home,the next thing you will foolishly prescribe will be a love toy for his wife.

If you know what porn does,you will not be spewing this trash you just spewed now

Masturbation is a terrible thing and i have suffered it with pornography addiction for close to 20yrs.

The truth is that it has dealth with me terribly....both in adacemics,career and my marriage.

This thing is totally evil and there is nothing anybody can say to convince otherwise.

If you want to know how great the damage from porn is then read this

https://www.menprovement.com/masturbation-addiction/

Breaking away from porn is by the grace and power of the almighty God.Will power alone cannot it.

The very first step is for you to aknowledge the damage that has been done and know WHY you must quit.

Then the next step is to reboot your brain from porn addiction.

In my struggle to leave porn,i found this this article so helpfull

http://www.howtostopmasturbation.com/


Also learn to fast and pray and DO NOT STAY ALONE IN YOUR ROOM WIHT YOUR LAPTOP.
Ocassionally,rub your hand with pepper too.

God will see u tru

richinvestor:
Who still dey chat clients for money...when boys don upgrade to carding.... I'm a carder and I dey chop site anyhow...... Walmart, Sprint, bestbuy, Nordstrom, world emit, recharge.com..I dey do WU transfer to myself........#teamcarder

Guy...i really need to learn from you.
I have some tutorials,have tried them but its not working for me.
I dont mind paying some fees to learn how this works.
Its better i learn from a naija guy that does it and get them brough down to naija than a foreigner.