₦airaland Forum

SeeWahala:
The same way that the Israelites took their first step away from Egypt but wandered around the desert for 40 years straight

Sometimes it's better to see a half glass of water, as half full than half empty.

Will you enjoy the economic impact of this project more, if it fails than if it succeeds?

Try and encourage good things.

samwheel:
This only happened because the mother of the boy is a good woman.

If she was evil like the one the from the op story, na this kind op story too e for be for the stepdad.

You are right, not all single moms are bad.

He lived a careless life, died a careless death.

I haven't seen any RIP for him.

Dying more like a dog, despite the powers and connection he had.

Let's always review our lives.

We'll all be remembered for the kind of life we lived.

Write your book well.

A national refinery that should be leading the private, is going otherwise.

In fact I'm ashamed for them, since shame means nothing to them; for over the years.

With the rate this issue of marrying baby mamas are littering on Nairaland, I really feel for the psychological condition of some who are currently in the shoe.

Anyway, life happens.
I just hope it's not too late for this man going through hell, to pull himself again up

I also know of a man, who got a lady pregnant in his youthful days and moved to Lagos, pursuing a career in music which never worked, neither did he play a major role in the child's life.

Today, he's in the village, telling people that his first son is a medical doctor.

If asked why he's not assisting him?

The old man will shameless tell people that boy claims his step dad over him, with the excuse that he's not the one that was responsible for his success.

Life happens, good and bad. No straight line graph.

You could have used a more frightening word.

How about, "... electrocutes Nigerians"

goran3310:
If she’s not a widow, then she is less valuable.
You know very well how much divorced women are worth — if you're a man.
I don’t know what you are.

You are right, but then, there's still someone for everyone.

See them.

Dangote may be more concerned about the quality of that road than Tinubu.

He'll be thinking about how many years that road can withstand his trucks' tyres, before they destroy it; and eventually his trucks.

That man took a very bold step

Just hope he didn't leave depressions on the floor.

Though I feel for her, I think she'll be better off, trying to get a man with kid(s) already.

Life happens, but then, try using routes you won't be seen as inferior.

This one is about to be used again.

The North has dusted him up one more time.

What a useful tool.

Wonders shall never end.

True definition of "I cannot come and go and kill myself".


They are learning from Wike.

grandstar:
The statement is even senseless as many civil servants are rich. They do deals by the side or are engaged in PP.

Many nowadays seek civil service jobs so that they have sufficient time to engage in PP. If not pp, it is corrupt practice.

Then those ones won't be offended by this topic.

That statement isn't senseless, but may unsettle those civil servants who don't do deals by the side, or are engaged in PP.

Afterall that's what I'm encouraging them to do.

grandstar:
If Tinubu wins a re-election, he is going to re-strategize the civil service. This would also involve mass layoffs of many civil service. Most people know the civil service is bloated. A reduction in numbers might also lead to increase pay for those remaining.

He dare not cut their number down now as it would definitely lead to a loss in the next elections. He is postponing the end of electricity subsidies during his second term as well.

You are realistic and unbias.

Truth is that the civil service itself is a huge burden on the government.

The world has gone far, a single computer system can replace a good number of civil servants in some ministries.

But people won't like to hear the harsh truth.

Gotocourt:
I cheated myself thinking civil service paid job is the best thing after butter and bread. But my eyes is widely open now to manufacturing business 👌🤷

Congratulations

It's your life, make smart decisions now, so that you don't retire into regrets.

Don't just arrest them, let's hear how they are prosecuted.

Unbalanced scale

Sultan won't say pim

Just hope another Buhari won't come onboard and throw us 50 years backwards.

One of the dangers of democracy.

Hard shits wey Buhari drop, na im Tinubu dey clean so.

I didn't vote for this man, especially because of his Mumu running mate.

But he has really tried. I give it to him.

Then civil servants should also see how they can be more productive for themselves.

Having side business can upgrade them too, while demanding better treatment from the government.

Let's not hush certain things not really proper in the society to silence.

The last time I checked, the more advanced a society develops, the lower the number of civil servants.

You can go confirm it.

Don't be comfortable with stipends, the society won't wait for you.

YemyTemmy:
Very untrue .... Perhaps applicable to broke single fathers , being broke is similar to being irresponsible, if u get money ehn, na the babe family go dey beg the girl not to let you go

The truth is that even if you are Dangote as a single father, any girl that considers you, is most likely considering the cash.

The safety of such marriage is very lean. Thus, chances of you going through the same cycle is even higher.

I grew to understand that people marry mostly due to compatibility and love. All coming with equal status. Single father with single mother, and vise versa.

Marriage out of consideration, e.g. fear of age catching up without a suitable husband or for financial gains, is more like a contract.

Anyway, you are free to see the situation from another angle.

Ebubu:
Single fathers also face the same stigma as single mothers.

They end up marrying women with dead husbands, or their fellow single mother, or stay single and keep sleeping with runs girls and taking care of his children.


It's such a stigma being a single father or single mother. You only get consideration for marriage when your wife or husband is late.

You are saying reality.

Political drama indeed.

Atiku and Tambuwal are the major seeds germinating these crops of commotion in PDP.

If only they accepted a southern presidential candidate.

Looks more like an angry toad

Song never start, dem don begin to dey dance


It's going to be an interesting movie

Bloggers, they fast for inspirations on headings that can over exaggerate things.

A complicated situation, that's an old man.

It's difficult teaching an old new tricks.

His children will be in the best position to handling that.

Either by finding him a partner, or seizing the TV set.

The best you can do is to contact his children.

mrvitalis:
See mentality

Nigerian politicians are lucky sha

It's not mentality, it's wisdom.

They should have made it in a way not traceable to them.

If you were the Governor, would you still keep such crew?

These ones wan go do VDM for government house, dem no know say na from afar dem dey stand throw that kind stunt.