₦airaland Forum

adewasco2k: Okay! This one is so grossy that anytime I remember, I wanna throw up.
I was a kid then, after food was served (rice + stew) I left it open in the kitchen....while eating I took up something I thought was fish or so....while crushing it with my teeth, I noticed its not fish so I brought it out of my mouth behold, it was a cockroach.

Brb lemme go throw up

Bludeville: It's amazing how sexism naive the people I meet are, Men and Women alike. It's infuriating how easily certain phrases and thoughts they display show how much they have been brainwashed into believing that women are inferior and thus certain things are not expected of them. It's even more infuriating when its a woman that doesn't expect any thing of herself just because she's a woman.
An example, I was speaking with a lady who had just graduated and when I asked her what next her response 'I'm a woman now,... So I need to find a husband to marry.'
Another, the other day,I was speaking to a male friend about my aspirations, my career path, and what I want for myself and the fool tells me to take it easy o, because I'm a woman now...
Also I was at the bank and this ignorant fool of an Alhaji walked in and seeing the long queue filled with women proceeded to say that he should be allowed to jump the queue because after all, two women equals one man, it took all of my self restraint not to smack him in the face.
Crown it All with the fact that when a woman is successful, has a dream job, a dream house, and a dream car, people look at her with pity instead of joy, Why? Because she hasn't yet gotten the honour of affixing a man's name to hers... Jeez!
I guess what I'm trying to say is really to Nigerian women, we need to become more self aware, we need to go un- brainwash ourselves, and learn to expect more from ourselves. We need to learn that we are neither below men, nor owned by men.
“I am too intelligent, too demanding, and too resourceful for anyone to be able to take charge of me entirely. No one knows me or loves me completely. I have only myself”
― Simone de Beauvoir

philip.adesola:
Please you can help me with the link to download it.

Oyelakin Saheed: Ibadan shuldnt be inclusive, its home of red zink amd masqurade houses