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Had I been physically unfaithful to my husband? No. Had I committed adultery in my heart? Yes. About 15 years into my marriage, my heart started turning cold toward my husband. He had an odd schedule at work, and then he spent most of his leisure hours volunteering at our church. When I tried to talk to him about spending less time at church and more with me and our children, he angrily shot back, “You’re just trying to hold me back from doing God’s work.” He then began punishing me by turning his back to me in the bedroom. Feeling lonely and rejected, I confided my misery to a friend who had called about an upcoming ministry project. My friend was kind and understanding. Unfortunately, no one had ever told me to guard my conversations with the opposite sex. The friend was a man and a very good-looking one at that. We began talking more frequently. I thought the conversations were innocent, even though they now included discussions about the struggles in his marriage. Gradually, our phone relationship escalated to flirting, and his calls were the highlight of my week. Neither of us told our spouses. At church, I noticed that he watched me a lot. I admit that I enjoyed the attention, the affirmative words, and the “high” I got with my schoolgirl crush. If someone had asked me if I was having an affair, however, I would have denied it. After all, there were no private lunches, there was no secret rendezvous, and there was no physical touch except for a public hug now and then or a slight touch of the hand. Everybody in our church hugged anyway so no one was the wiser … or so I thought. Our emotional affair rocked on for over a year until the day he said to me, “I think I’m in love with you.” Honestly, I felt the same about him, but hearing the words jolted me into reality. I was so upset afterward that I looked at myself in the mirror in shock and cried, “What have I done?” I didn’t like what I saw as the Holy Spirit replayed the ugly truth of my actions back to me. Had I been physically unfaithful to my husband? No. Had I committed adultery in my heart? Yes. I plowed through days of agony before finally falling to my knees before God in surrender. One definition of relinquishment is “giving up title, releasing possession or control and yielding power.” How could I do otherwise? I had been a Christian for 16 years. My body was not my own. I had been bought with a price (1 Corinthians 6:20), so it was no longer my will that counted but His (Luke 22:42). I confessed to God that I felt nothing for my husband, but that vows are not made to be broken. I would rather be unhappy the rest of my life than bring reproach to God’s name, embarrass my children, or break up my family or anyone else’s. As the Holy Spirit strengthened me, I heard the words in my heart that Jesus spoke to Peter over and over (John 21:15-17): “Do you love Me?” “Yes Lord, I love You, and I repent.” “Then trust Me,” said the still, small voice. With my hands shaking and my heart racing, I made the call to tell my friend it was over. “I can’t do this anymore because the Lord has convicted me,” I told him. “Please don’t call me again.” Being an honorable man, he had never pressed me into anything, and he didn’t now. He graciously made it easy for me to say goodbye. I didn’t think I would have to tell my.. www.naijarep.com/2017/02/true-life-story-my-emotional-affair.html

A woman thought to be the world's fattest Woman has undergone life-saving weight-loss surgery. Eman Ahmed, 36, was pictured lying in bed after surgeons reduced her 79 stone bulk by almost a fifth (16 stone). She had not left her home for 25 years prior to the surgery. She was lifted out of her bed by crane and put on a cargo plane for the journey from her Egypt home to India. One of the world's leading bariatric surgeons had volunteered to treat her after an appeal from her family for help. A spokesperson for Mumbai's Saifee Hospital confirmed the surgery had taken place. "We are trying to get her fit enough to fly back to Egypt as soon as possible," the hospital said in a statement. She had been losing a stone a day leading up to the op after being put on a special 1,200 calorie a day diet. Eman was reportedly born with elephantiasis - a parasitic infection which causes extreme swelling in a person's limbs and arms. She has been heavy all her life and by the time she was 11 she was too heavy to walk, and had to crawl to get around. She suffered a cerebral stroke as a child which left her bed-ridden and she piled on the pounds..... see photos www.naijarep.com/2017/03/photos-of-worlds-fattest-woman-after.html

There are lots of way to show your love for your club, i have seen people drink the strongest wine, jump from building, but this one below is the most epic. As shared by Isyaku Mazadu he wrote "This guy is a real Nigeria Bacca Pan,He jumped into the darty gotta and barth with it and latter dring the water,When Bacca beat PSG by 6-goals.what a diehart sporter.This can only hapen in My country. More photos after the cut Someone said "Put 15k on Chelsea, baryan and Barca and give them straight winning. Make your money come enter 8million, gutter is the smallest thing you will enter... "
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Shahin Munir, 24, was let in on a terrible secret when she discovered that 17-year-old Shafilea Ahmed, from Warrington, was the victim of an honour killing. Here she shares her remarkable story... Shafilea Ahmed was killed by her parents in September 2003, and her body was found dumped in the Lake District five months later. Her two sisters Alesha and Mevish witnessed the killing along with their brother, but terrified they might be next, they carried the terrible secret with them. The only person Mevish told was her best friend Shahin… "Mev used to tell me about the violence at home," Shahin tells Cosmopolitan. "But there was always something she couldn't bring herself to say. I told her that if she couldn't say it out loud she should write it down and give it to me instead. She was never really allowed out by herself but one day she texted me and told me she was going into town with her mum. She said they were going to H&M so I went there, and started looking through clothes, keeping my head down. I was looking through a rail when Mev and her mum walked past and as Mev walked past, she dropped a letter on the floor. I picked it up quickly and walked out of the shop as fast as I could." Shahin couldn't believe it when she got home and read Mev's letter describing Shafilea's murder. "I'd do anything to change that night," Mev had written. "I wish I never seen but I did and Alesha did but just sat there and watched. I even seen the suitcase they took her in. They knocked me over and smacked me coz I seen." Shahin (L) and Mev (R) Later in court, Mev said that what she'd written was purely fiction – "free-writing" that she had made up. But Shahin knew it was absolutely true, and from then on, she was in on the secret. "I met up with Mev in the park the next day," explains Shahin, who graduated with a degree in psychology last year. "She was completely terrified – watching every car that drove past thinking it might be her dad. I gave her the letter and said I want you to read it out loud to me. But she couldn't do it. She broke down completely. I couldn't tell anyone either because Mev's parents used to threaten her that she would be next if she told anyone. She was a victim, too. After that, Mev would talk about Shafilea – her nice memories of them together as well as everything they went through. She told me that Shafilea was treated the worst out of her sisters and brother – she was the most 'trouble'. Shafilea sometimes wasn't allowed to eat and other times they'd leave her outside in the rain. It was caused by things like her having a mobile phone and speaking to boys, wanting to wear makeup and heels. For her family, those were big problems. The thing that triggered the argument the night she was killed was that she went out in just a T-shirt without her coat." Shafilea Ahmed in happier times When Shafilea's parents Farzana and Ifthikar Ahmed were arrested on suspicion of murder and brought to trial in May 2012, Shahin knew she had to do something. Alesha had told police that her parents killed Shafilea but Mev refused to admit the truth. "Even though Mev had begged me not to, once the trial started I rang the police and told them I had evidence. Mev had asked for the letters back but I'd photocopied them and I also kept a diary. I was disappointed that Mev wouldn't speak out. As soon as they'd been charged, I said to Mev 'You're going to have to forget about your mum and dad. This trial is about your sister. You have to stand up for her because.......... www.naijarep.com/2017/02/true-life-story-my-best-friend-watched.html

The 25 year old model got on the wrong end of Messi’s partner, Antonella Roccuzzo, after bombarding the Argentine striker with a series of erotic snaps on Instagram. According to the Playboy magazine model, Antonella, 28, became jealous of all the raunchy images aimed at her man that she has blocked Suzy from their social media accounts. See some of the pics below www.naijarep.com/2017/02/photos-see-female-fan-who-sends-erotic.html

After spending 11 months as a prostitute in London, Polly's ready to tell her horrifying story from the streets Polly Trope* spent 11 months working as a prostitute, detouring into selling sex shortly after quitting her PhD at an Ivy League university in the US. "I had really bad mental health issues and although I wanted to finish my degree I knew I couldn't," she reveals. "So I decided to return to London, where I'd studied for my undergraduate degree. I reckoned it would be easier to find somewhere to stay and get a job there than it was in America." But when she arrived in London, Polly didn't immediately get round to looking for work. "I drank a lot and took drugs and used up all my savings," she says. "One night I was thrown out of my lodgings because I hadn't paid my rent. So I just went into Soho, where I bumped into one of my dealers." This chance meeting turned out to be life-changing. "He asked if I wanted to buy any drugs," says Polly. "I said no, telling him that it was partly drugs that had got me into my current situation." He said: "I can help you make some money. Let's go round the clubs and offer a deal: you give them a Mouth Gig and I sell them some coke." The pair tried this - with limited success. Then, while Polly's dealer was off chatting to someone else, she was approached by another man. "I have another idea," he mused. "My friend has this great place..." Later that night, Polly found herself inside her first brothel. Getty "I didn't even really care by then," Polly sighs. "I saw one client that night and got £200. Fortunately he was super-easy; he just wanted to look at me and touch me a little bit. He was really friendly and seemed a bit embarrassed about being there." Polly was less afraid of the client, indeed, than she was of the brothel-owner and the man who'd brought her to the brothel. "I didn't really know where I was or if I could trust anyone not to turn violent." Still, with nowhere else to go, she stayed at the brothel. At first she wasn't chosen by many clients, as she still hadn't bought herself an "outfit" of sexy lingerie and heels like the other women. There was always the...... www.naijarep.com/2017/02/true-life-story-my-former-life-as.html

Most people would have called this a marriage without hope. This is no joke. Real people. Real struggles. Real reality. Brett returned home from work one night, took a bite from the meal his wife, Tina, had prepared, and declared, “This tastes like dog food!” “Fine,” Tina snapped back. “You don’t have to eat it!” The next night Brett took a couple bites from dinner and practically choked. “What on earth is this?” he said. “Last night you said my meal tasted like dog food,” Tina replied. “So tonight I decided not to waste my time making anything special for you. I just fed you dog food!” Many would have said this was a marriage without hope. Brett and Tina were typical of many couples today—struggling through life with no game plan for how they could be successful in their marriage. They decided to attend a Weekend to Remember marriage getaway because someone gave them a free registration. What did they have to lose? Midway through the weekend, Brett recommitted his life to Jesus Christ. For Tina it was a different experience. She disagreed with many of the messages she heard. On the final morning, she stormed out and demanded that they leave. Brett drove Tina home and then returned to the conference by himself. Over the next few months, Brett began to demonstrate to Tina that he was a changed man. He applied some of the lessons he learned at the conference and gradually began to win Tina over through real love. Tina’s heart softened, and eventually she invited Jesus Christ to be her Savior and the Lord of her life. A year after they first attended the marriage conference, they came back, walking hand in hand. They still struggled, but now they possessed a relationship with the God who designed marriage in the first place. Brett has learned to appreciate Tina. And her cooking. Discuss If God could change a marriage like this, what could He........... www.naijarep.com/2017/02/true-liife-story-she-fed-her-husband.html

It has been reported that a
female tourist, who was
innocently posing for pictures in
a zoo without knowledge that
a lion was somewhere
watching her before she was
attacked.
Zambezi reports that, a tourist
was mauled by a lion that
pounced on her from bushes as
she posed for pictures at Safari
in Zimbabwe. Officers say the
woman was leaning on a fence
when the caged lion spotted her
and raked his gigantic paws
down her hip and arm.
The injured on the floor
The pair had been enjoying the
views on a day out together and
were taking pictures of the lion
enclosure, believing the beasts
were further away. But the white
lion was actually just hidden
among bushes and pounced as
her unnamed boyfriend captured
the picture. It is believed she is
still in hospital receiving
treatment.

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Lover to female staff of Niger
Delta Development Commission,
NDDC, Miss Sophia Phillips
Horsefall, and two others were,
yesterday, arraigned at a Port
Harcourt magistrate’s court by
Department of State Services, DSS,
for stabbing her to death after
she had refused to make him, the
boyfriend, her next-of-kin to her
bank account as well as her
refusal to give him one million
(N1 million) he had demanded
from her.
The accused, Sotonye Martin,
Innocent Oluche and Wachukwu
Ugochukwu committed the
murder on November 8 this year.
Counsel to the DSS, Mr C. S. Eze,
told the court that the first
defendant, Mr. Sotonye Martin,
lured the deceased, who he had
a 13-year-old daughter for, to the
house of the second defendant,
Innocent Oluche, where he
allegedly stabbed her to death.
He claimed the first and second
defendants later buried the
deceased in a shallow grave,
noting that they invited the third
defendant, Wachukwu
Ugochukwu, a spiritualist, to
perform some rituals.
According to him, the accused
were brought before the court
on a three-count charge which
included “stabbing to death with
a jack knife and thereby
committed an offence contrary to
Section 316 and punishable
under Section 319 of the Criminal
Code Law, Laws of Rivers State
1999.”
The accused did not take plea.
Chief Magistrate F. Alikor referred
the casefile to the state Director
of Public Prosecution, saying her
court did not have jurisdiction to
entertain matters over murder
which was the second charge.
She remanded the accused in
prison custody and adjourned
the matter indefinitely.
Elder brother to the deceased, Mr
Amatu Phillips, while speaking to
newsmen, alleged that his sister
was murdered by the boyfriend
of 13 years, Mr. Martin because of
her wealth. He claimed she had
some money in her account and
confided in the boyfriend who
later kept on pestering her for
financial support.
According to him, after the sister
had allegedly given him money
several times, he came again
demanding for N1 million which
she refused. He alleged that the
boyfriend later lured her to his
friend’s house, offered her a fruit
juice drink which, unknown to
the sister, was drugged.
He alleged that when www.naijarep.com/2016/12/boyfriend-stabs-lover-to-death-buries.html

Etzakoos:
Their Problem...Let Me Come And Be Going

lol

A man had to have his testicles
reattached after his girlfriend bit
them off during an argument
when she returned late from
church.
The savage attack happened in
Botswana with the victim, a 33-
year-old unnamed man, required
emergency intervention to sew
his privates back on. The couple
were said to have fallen out after
the woman said to be 32 arrived
home a day late from church,
according to Mirror UK.
Officers arrested the woman
after they were tipped off by
medics treating the man in
hospital.
According to a top Policeman,
Goitsemodimo Molapisi, she
would be brought before the
court when paperwork on the
man’s medical condition was
finished
He said: “Currently she is facing a
grievous harm charge and the
doctor’s report will determine
the final charge. It can be lesser
or remain as it is.”
Another senior policeman, who
wished to remain anonymous,
said: “They exchanged harsh
words with the man demanding
to know where she had been.
She tore and left the testicles
hanging. He is very lucky because
she nearly cut them off from the
body.” www.naijarep.com/2017/02/just-in-lady-bites-off-boyfriends.html

A painter, Mr. Ese Akpan, had told his family on Tuesday that he was going out to get the money owed him by a construction company. He, however, did not get to his destination, as he was killed by a stray bullet from a police team escorting a bullion van to a bank. According to a Closed-Circuit Television camera, which captured the scene, Ese was shot at exactly 1.45pm on Old Aba Road, Rumuomasi, Port-Harcourt, Rivers State. PUNCH Metro, which obtained footage of the incident, observed that Camera 4 captured Ese as he walked along the road while the police van came behind. The second side, captured by Camera 1, showed a woman with a baby standing at the bus stop as Ese approached. There was a sudden gunshot which hit the 60-year-old, while the frightened woman fled the sight. About two minutes afterwards, some sympathisers, including workers of First Rivers Hospital Limited, a private facility in front of which the incident occurred, rushed to help the victim. An official at the hospital, who did not want to be identified, said a few minutes after the victim was taken to the.......... www.naijarep.com/2017/02/see-how-cctv-exposes-rivers-police-kill.html

watered:
I need pliers and a hammer. Don't ask me what for

lol, what 4 nah.

A burglar who was caught attempting to rape a 94-year-old deaf and blind woman has been jailed for 14 years. Gregory Willis, who had already removed the grandmother’s lower nightclothes was caught kneeling on the woman’s bed without his trousers on. The judge who presided over the case described Willis’ action as “deeply shocking, horrifying and appalling as could possibly be imagined.” According to Daily Mail, Judge John Pini added, “The victim is 94 years of age. She had not long before this left a nursing home to be cared for in a safe, loving environment for the remaining time of her life. “She was registered blind, hard of hearing, had no short term memory, had poor balance and was doubly incontinent. She could not communicate. She was as frail and vulnerable as it is possible to be.’ The the victim’s son-in-law told the Daily Mail after the sentencing that he was ‘shocked and stunned that somebody could intend on doing such a thing’. The victim, who was so frail she could barely communicate, had been sleeping on a hospital trolley in the front room of his home, having been left virtually bedridden since suffering a fall, he added. A court heard drunken Willis had stumbled into the property on a middle class residential estate at 12.30am by trying an open door as a family gathering wound down. www.naijarep.com/2017/02/hilarious-man-attempts-rape-on-94-year.html