₦airaland Forum

nkay1888:
Hello salford, I have a masters degree in microbiology and 2 Years Experience in the food industry, please can u advice me on the bridging program that will enable me secure a job in the food industry. I will be landing in May and hope to reside in Calgary

Hey Nkay, i land calgary in May too. What date and airline are you using? I’ve been searching for a travel partner

seems valid. also theres an increasing demand for marketing professionals (not sales) people who are versed in lead conversion, lead nuturing, client retention. afterall, social media as well

justmuhd:
well,it really is a tight position to be in..on the bright side,you have a guy that loves you and will do anyting to make you happy..he's goodlooking also..on the down side,he is not good in bed and isnt physically attractive..well,who wudnt want a partner that's good in bed? i feel its best you have a one on one conversation with him..tell him the issues you feel need to be addressed..mak sure u approach him in a kind loving and respectful manner so as not to sound unpleasent...i think you're the only one that knows what you want in bed..how you want to be pleased..tell him,keep telling him..tell him he's good in bed but you'd like him to get better..this way,you dnt come off as to brush his ego.as to him not being physically attractive if youre ok with that,fine..if youre not,find a nice gym close by and register him there..if he asks why,tell him you need your man to keep fit..so if anyone tries to oppress you,you'd call your man to woop dia ass!
he'd probably find it funny and you both will laugh about it...hope this helps..wish you a beautiful life with your partner.

Was certainly helpful, will do so.

Setaje:
What is marriage about if I cannot tell my man what and how I want it. I don't think you have talked this through wiv him. This is a man u plan to spend your life wiv and u are coming to nairaland to complain.


Op u have no problem. If u say u guys think alike and have the same view about life then telling him or helping him out won't be a problem. The only problem is if he is willing to learn or if he is a man that doesn't see sex as something to be enjoyed but for procreation. Tell him what u want my dear. His response would tell u all u need to know. If he is willing to satisfy u and himself please stay.

Thanks for contributing, ive told him severally, he never learns. It sometimes feels like my pleasure is not a priority, which makes matters worse.

LadyX:
Op, Why is the relationship on and off? Is it because of his performance?

You should look into why it's on and off before proceeding. Mariage is a serious thing, so it won't be easy to do "on and off".

Back to the topic, if you are not okay with him, you better take a walk. You don't want to cheat on him in future, do you?
Hope am not being judgemental.

This is the thought that keeps running through my mind, its a lifelong commitment.

Thannks zedx5 for your contribution, remember, i said no judgements, advice only.

Hello Romancelanders,

I am in dire need of serious, unbiased advice to avert making a lifelong mistake. Serious comments only please, no trolls, judgemental people, immature guys and girls, religious extreemists NOT allowed in here.

Im a young lady, 27 years of age, have a nice job in a good company, very goodlooking. The reason for this description is to give a background to my plight.

I'm at that phase in my life where im ready to start a family. I always imagined that i would meet a guy randomly, fall in love and get married, but that has not been the case. With age, i learnt that marriage is not a fairytail and that one must think thoroughly, and venture with the head and the heart.

I have a guy whom ive dated on and off for 2 years and hes asked me to marry him a couple of times. We are very good friends, we have a certain kind of understanding, his family likes me, we share the same beliefs, ideologies and outlook on life. He can trek from berger to ojuelegba is that would make me happy.

However, we are not sexuall.y compatible. i mean the se.x is nothing to write home about. Ive tried many times to help him out, tell him what to do, etc but he never ever gets it right. That is a major issue for me. Hes also not so physically attractive, but im ok with his looks.

Im confused because i have a lot of other men flocking around me, showing indications of seriousness, but you know what they say about the devil you know and the angel you dont know.

I need advice please

Thank you