₦airaland Forum

oluwatomiwa:
You never ready to pack comot for house to study Computer Science for IMSU. If you are ready, you will read your book and not gambling with the options. Go and manage Zoology/animal science or Botany/Plant Science jeje

Debroslink:
Argentina and Spain I support

Addme:
From how much to 700,000.
At least let's compare and contrast.

DoWhatThouWilt:
No wonder the security situation in Nigeria has changed. Everywhere is peaceful.

No bandits, No kidnapping. Thank you America.

izombie:
And this made front page? Na wao.

bennybuhari:
Will We Have Something Like This Again In 2027?

iwaeda:
Emmanuel Olatunji Adesoye OON, CON (born 25 April 1938 – 2017) was a Nigerian quantity surveyor, entrepreneur, and traditional title holder. He was the first Northern Nigerian quantity surveyor and the second Nigerian Quantity Surveyor. In 2006 President Olusegun Obasanjo awarded him the OON (Officer of the Order of the Niger) and CON (Commander of the Order of the Niger)

He attended African Bethel School Ebute-Metta Lagos between 1948 and 1951 and St Marks school in 1952 he attended Offa Grammar School between 1953 and 1957 for his secondary school before attending Yaba College of Technology in 1958 he graduated in Nigerian College of Arts, Science, and Technology Enugu in 1959 further his education to South East College of Arts, Science, and Technology UK between 1961 and 1963.

The Founder Of Okin Biscuits, Late Chief Emmanuel Adesoye Hailed From Offa, Kwara State And Should Have Been 89 Years Old Yesterday . He Was The Famous Nigerian Brand Of Biscuits, Founded In 1980 And Were A Staple Of Childhood In The 1980s And 1990s. The Company Is Situated In Ijagbo, Near Offa In Kwara State, The Company Produced Well-known Varieties Such As Cabin, Shortcake, And Coaster, Becoming One Of West Africa's...

Chief Emmanuel Olatunji Adesoye (1938–2017) was a renowned Nigerian industrialist, philanthropist, and the founder of Okin Biscuits (established 1980) based in Ijagbo, near Offa, Kwara State. He was a trailblazer, recognized as the first qualified quantity surveyor in Northern Nigeria.

callmeDDD:
She looks like a big trouble maker and someone with bad mouth. Look straight into her eyes. Though that doesn't justify being hit but can we also hear from the other side?

Prophit:
I recently started talking to a fine young lady. She should be 28 yrs tops.

I didn't know her dating history cos I moved into the area like last year.

We just started talking this year, she manages a bet 9ja shop. I normally withdraw using the pos near her bet shop, and that was how we met and started talking.

There is a laundry guy in that area, I seldom patronize him, but the guy is chill. We greet and have discussions here and there whenever we cross paths. He doesn't mind that I rarely patronize him.


This guy's sister is about 21, in the university. She likes me a whole lot, but I have a policy not to date students (it's a long story. Don't ask me why)

He knows that his sister likes me and he knows I'm not giving her a chance. In fact one day he joked about it. And probably that's why he respects me a great deal.

So B4 we dive into the gist for today, let's call d guy Oba, let's call the bet naija manager Ego. Let's call Oba's Sister Anita.


I was standing with Ego today just gisting.

(I honestly like her, she is pretty, but I can't date her. I can't date a lady who is not on a trajectory to the top. No offence, but being a worker in all these bet shops affects the mindset. I think people that work there need to be rehabilitated. Both male and female.
Again no offence)

So Oba passed by, as usual we shook hands and talked a bit, then he passed.

I noticed the weird energy between Oba and Ego.

It was visible to the blind that these guys shared a past.

"Seems like there is a story you'd like to share" I said
"What story?" She retorted.

"Is he your ex?" I went straight for the jugular.

She stood silent for a bit. She tried to force a smile. "There isn't any story please." She said finally.

I didn't press further.

Just then someone called her into the bet shop to settle and issue or whatever that was.

So I turned to the pos lady who is her friend.
It's like the lady was waiting for the opportunity to spill the tea.

She didn't even wait for me to ask.

"Men are wicked o. God forbid. To see better man na by connection." Said the pos lady.

(I forgot to give the pos lady her alte. So let's call her Agatha. I chose the name because she has a wide mouth, and which name do you have to say with your mouth open wide?)

So Agatha started talking.

"They used to date o. For like 2 years. Before they started dating, the guy was jobless. Ego used her money to open that laundry shop for him, spent so much money on him for 2 years, then one day he beat her up and broke up with her."

Now anyone with even a brain functioning below 2 percent will know that the story isn't complete. Agatha obviously skipped a lot of details to just present Oba as the devil.

And don't get it twisted I'm not saying he isn't the devil either.
I'm just saying I don't have enough information from that gist to know who the villain was or is.

First, nobody beats up a woman for nothing.
Second, nobody beats up a woman who is his girlfriend for nothing.
Third, nobody beats up a woman who is his girlfriend, who opened a laundry shop for him, for nothing.

Agatha kept talking.

How Ego is still traumatised and hurt and broken, and devastated, and dejected, and...

She kept going.

I told Agatha to stop.

"I really sympathize with Ego, but I don't want to have this discussion with you or with her. Relationships fail all the time."

"Guys send ladies to school and the ladies end up marrying other people. Life goes on."

"Guys open businesses for ladies and the ladies still leave them. Even marriages break up. It just the way of life."

"I have been engaged to a lady. 2 weeks before our indoor marriage rites, after I had bought everything, she called it quits. I never laid my hands on her, never cheated on her. But that doesn't make her the bad guy."

Relationships are a bit more nuanced than many people believe.

That is why the best thing you can do for yourself as an individual is to invest in yourself.

Maybe you can invest in your spouse, but you see boyfriend and girlfriend, invest at your own risk.

As for Anita, I just got a couple more reasons to distance myself from her. Imagine having an elder brother who beats people up. For her, violence will just be a normal thing. I pity her boyfriend.


As for Ego, if I had even the faintest of feelings for her, such feelings died when I heard that story.

I can't be with another man's garbage. I too, deserve someone who hasn't been victimized and vandalized.

Imagine the distrust she will have for her next boyfriend or husband. No body deserves such level of damage done to them.

ChristCee:
Call your guy and his babe or better still, pay them a visit. Explain your feelings, why you did it, your motive and pure intentions behind it and how, now, you regret it.

If your write-up is true and it is exactly what happened, then you are just a good guy trying to appreciate the goodness showed to you. However, your good intentions could have been misconstrued. Doing a nice thing doesn't always make that thing right. However what is wrong or right can sometimes be totally subjective. Because the guy gave you her azza directly also show that he doesn't really read meanings to it, so you could be punishing yourself unnecesarily.

As you can see, talking it out is what will really solve this problem. I have this hunch that the lady is probably falling for you or developing a special affection for you. Over time, this could be the real problem. In fact, it could be that her guy was testing her by sending her account details directly to you, hoping she will inform him of whatever you do or not. By discussing with her and her babe (your guy), you will show her, that you value your friendship with her man and have nothing crazy in your heart about her.

except you are interested too.

SeeWahala:
Wike alone was the

Murderer

Mortuary attendant

Undertaker

Pall bearer

Grave digger

And officiating minister of the grand burial of such a useless political party 😔 🌹

May the wuru-wuru soul of the clearly departed PDP rest in pieces

Isee! 🙏🏾

CallmeTrinity:
You don't know what it means to be a man that's why you say such . You think everyone should be for sale. A man stands fearless for integrity in the face of tyranny and rebuffs money , but you won't know anything about that would you?

Chidex369:
Do which job? She was raising up a matter that has been concluded and directed to the right committee for review. And oshimole called her to order according to the Senate rules which Akabio read out for her. Doesn't she have the Senate rules?

Jagabanbogu:
I thought they just concluded women afcon

Omihanifa:
King Wasiu ayinde marshall and his gold plated flask

adeoyekay:
Hippopotamus, we normally sing it on the assembly ground

Successsearch90:
The very wife of the great Pete edochie, the greatest actor of all time??

HelenaWills:
I wanted to get my mum a small car last year.
Didn't have money for a tokunbo so I asked my brothers to help me surf jiji for any affordable car.
They showed me a Civic 08 and since I drive one myself, I felt it would be nice to match with my mum.

My brothers and a Kazeem went for inspection and they discovered the car had a few things to be fixed which made them slash the price from 2.4M that we initially agreed to #2,050,000.
This was in June last year.

They set out to drive the car down to my house before heading to my mum's but brethrens, since June last year till this very moment as I type this. The car has only been parked from one Kazeem shop to another, on some days it was left by the road side or a petrol station for days out of frustration. I have spent above 700k on it all to no fruition. It's been almost a year now and this car hasn't made me it my house yet talk more of sending it to my mum. I contacted the guy and he said he had tried by slashing the price and that was all he could do. At some point, he stopped picking my brother's calls.
Please what advice can you give me?

Can I get him arrested or take legal measures against him at least? Or has this become my headache for life?
I need chunks of recommendations please.

ogugwa1992:
On Nasir el-Rufai's Allegations Against President Tinubu and NSA Ribadu on Arise TV Today



https://x.com/renoomokri/status/1894117161603346723?s=48[/quote]Reno is waiting for his share of the cake .
AGIP .