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FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 7:16pm On Sep 10, 2025
It's actually a true life story
DenreleDave:
Cock and bull story
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 12:09pm On Sep 09, 2025
Ok, I'll do that. She said we should start all over, so I'm hopeful she won't do that again.
budaatum:
What's amusing is he thinks he can deceive all of us here too, just like he is deceiving himself. lol.

Bemden, you must keep us updated please. We'd like to hear how this plays out in 2, 5, and 10 years time.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 11:31am On Sep 09, 2025
Thanks ma. I'll try this
Sophiemama:
Get ice cream or condensed milk and rub while licking it. That will kill every unpleasant taste.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 11:13am On Sep 09, 2025
I'm worried about how licking it will make me feel, the taste etc and not the learning. I do make her c*m from licking and sucking her oranges.
Sophiemama:
I don't know how you are going to do it, but maybe you should learn it.
Women really love and long for it, if not for self-discipline many women will not let go of anyone who is licking their kitty.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 11:10am On Sep 09, 2025
Yes, it can't affect me because it's designed to affect only another man who engages in sexual intercourse with her
advanceDNA:
U refuse to leave her naaa.... If she's in your house u will sleep with her one day
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 10:48am On Sep 09, 2025
Not catching cruise sir. It's my life story. You mean the thunderbolt will affect me too?
advanceDNA:
It will work for you too......a serial cheat doesn't change.....give u self peace of mind.. unless u just dey catch cruise
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 10:26am On Sep 09, 2025
That's why I'm asking if thunderbolt is a criminal offense in Nigeria
Judybash93:
Fling her away! She will cheat again
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 9:36am On Sep 09, 2025
The thunderbolt will still work for another person that tresspass
advanceDNA:
U are asking for thunderbolt because u think your wife is a victim that u need to eliminate who's sleeping with her ....she will just find another person And the same thing will continue
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 9:22am On Sep 09, 2025
Pls believe me. I'm saying the truth
sacajawea:
You are lying.
Telling lies
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 9:22am On Sep 09, 2025
Why will I lie? Why? I'm saying the truth pls
sacajawea:
It's a Lie.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 9:21am On Sep 09, 2025
I asked her why she decided to tell me? She said guilt. She had sex with the so called ex thrice after we got married according to her. I believe it would be more than that. She said we were not having long conversations at home and she needed someone to talk to and I've always been working so hard for us to live the standard life I've always wanted but there she was frolicking around. Is thunderbolt a criminal offense in Nigeria?
advanceDNA:
.she felt remorse?? Can u still see the remorse now?? Or u just choose to deceive yourself like last time?
......baba....you are just a captain save a skirt....
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 8:31am On Sep 09, 2025
I still feel so hurt even though I already told her I've forgiven her. She was a V when we started our relationship back then and she always insisted on getting married before giving me the V card. We had issues along like the line, so we didn't talk for a while because I was out of town(3-4 months precisely), so she met her ex bf during that period and gave him the Vcard. She came over to my place one night and one thing lead to another, we had s*x and I saw the Vcard has been taken away, she told me she was sorry and she will understand if I don't want to continue the relationship again but I told her not to worry and that I'll still marry her and I ended up tying the knot with her. Reason why I decided to continue the relationship was because she felt remorse that night and the statement she altered got into me. I feel so sad typing this anyways. Pls, is using thunderbolt on one's wife a criminal offense in Nigeria?
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 7:53pm On Sep 08, 2025
Well, my mom is among and she can never mock me
yarimo:
the people may be mocking you
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 7:53pm On Sep 08, 2025
Another question I asked her was what if the said ex used her for something, won't her family be saying the husband has used their daughter? She was just silent.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 7:49pm On Sep 08, 2025
At least, people have said they look like me
yarimo:
how are you sure the kids are yours
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 4:39pm On Sep 08, 2025
This is my true life story
Abujaclaga:
This must be a sick joke. Lmao
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 4:23pm On Sep 08, 2025
What will I gain from telling lies?
cassidy1996:
Lies lies fake story
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 4:06pm On Sep 08, 2025
Licking kitty isn't my thing, how do I cope?
Sophiemama:
You too try and be making her squirt by licking her kitty na.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 4:06pm On Sep 08, 2025
Licking kitty isn't my thing bro. How do I cope?
AKWATGOLD1:
Oga,
You don enter one chance. The only way out to overcome this challenges is to make squirt when licking her kitty, this act will reset her brain.
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 1:40pm On Sep 08, 2025
My mama dey tell me say the kids resemble me. Later, My wife told me she agreed to marry me because the guy doesn't look serious. She said the guy used to post other girls on his dp when they were still together.
Sonnobax15:
how are you even sure that thos kids are yours and not his?

Tinubu should please subsidize DNA test,so that we men can be saved from the excesses of women's promiscuity..
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 1:33pm On Sep 08, 2025
I meant 3 years after the time I first caught her ( in other words 6 years after marriage)
eyenogoquiet:
yOUR wife went straight to the point with you, why you come wan de confuse elders for here na.
Which one be after 3 years of marriage and 3 years after that time huh huh
The Y in that yOUR wife is silent.
You can only help yourself but as for that other gender she don go
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 1:31pm On Sep 08, 2025
So I should allow one ex boyfriend to keep knacking my wife?
advanceDNA:
Lol..... U can't make someone stop doing what they enjoy doing......

Grow some self esteem man.....
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 1:30pm On Sep 08, 2025
But she is the mother of my kids.
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Do you really want to stop the love of your life from going to meet the love of her life? angry

Hell no bruh!!!! angry
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 1:30pm On Sep 08, 2025
The ex I meant was her boyfriend before I married her.
budaatum:
Have you tried putting chains around her legs and tying her to yourself so she can't go see her ex-husband?

Seriously, I think your supposed love is turning your brain to mush, and it indicates a low self esteem in yourself, or you'd be asking us how to stop yourself receiving the abuse she's giving you.
FamilyMy Wife And Her EX by Bemden(op): 1:13pm On Sep 08, 2025
Three years after our marriage, I caught her chatting with her ex about how he made her squirt while licking her kitty. She promised not to chat him again and I told her to block him. 3 years after that time, she confessed to me again that she had sex with him 3 times after we got married. I still love her, how can I stop her from still going back to her ex?

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