₦airaland Forum

Burob:
Trump will send Americans to come & sacrifice their lives for u fantastically corrupt people in the Zoo?

Dey wait, person wey never settle the wahala for em own country.

Mishaya:
Source: https://x.com/ZagazOlaMakama/status/1995594404397232511?s=20[/quote]Oga Fernando Dia Da Costa, you are not safe in Nigeria embassy in that your country. Those guys will spit you out at the slightest request.
Remember that Charles Taylor was granted asylum in Nigeria in 2003 and was extradited in 2006 back to Liberia to carry his own cross.
You better RUN!!!!!!!

Kobojunkie:
1. Everyone says all these kinds of things about their grandfathers. No one comes out to admit their grandpa was a deadbeat slave driver who used his wives and children for free labor, yet we all know that many men did exactly that. No one comes forward to admit their grandfather was a murderer or a robber, yet we all know that there were quite a few men back there who were just that. And no one comes out to admit that their grandfather was a poor man or a deadbeat, even though we all know many were just that back in the 70s and 80s. So spare me.

2. Wrong! A man does not have the wherewithal to determine the sex of the child. He simply releases his semen and hopes for the best. There are only two possible outcomes, and the chances of each is 50/50 each time he does that.

3. I am against women marrying poor men. Simple! 🥱🥱🥱

4. I don't dey here that kain story since back in the 80s— during the time of SAP—, and since that time, the population of the poor in Nigeria has steadily climbed from just about 30 million in the 80s to over 170 million in 2025. 🥱🥱
. We need to stop lying to each other at this point.🥱🥱

In Nigeria, for every one person that supposedly rises out of poverty, about 100 fall deeper into poverty. This is because the number of the poor continues to rise, even with fantastic stories such as that you tell of your friend. 🥱🥱

** This estimate does not include the number of poor who are still a bit above the poverty line, of which their estimates are around 30 million

Kobojunkie:
Do you remain if your employer is no longer able to pay your salary? I wouldn't recommend anyone do that to themselves.

You want her to appreciate you while you fulfill your end of the bargain when she does not demand the same from you as she continues to fulfill hers? That you consider you are keeping your end of the marriage contract, as you are offering her freebies, is all the more reason why she should not bat an eyelid or think to remain once you are no longer able to meet your end of the bargain.

Kobojunkie:
1. None of that is true! Most of your grandfathers had their children and wives as free laborers in the fields and at home with them. So, whatever toil killed them had nothing to do with that which they did not, of their own hands, impose on themselves. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Yes, a woman cannot impregnate herself or determine the sex of a child(a man can't determine the sex of a child himself, since it is a game of chance). However, a woman can live a full life without having a child or a man in her life. So, why do you feel the need to define the life of a woman as only being of value when in proximity with a man, when studies show that women actually thrive a lot better without men? 🥱🥱🥱

3. This isn't about underrating men or whatever you mean by that. This is about pointing out the fact that women can thrive even without men and children in their lives. All the more reason why any woman looking to enter into a relationship with a man ought to ensure that she will equally benefit from the union, same as the man, or maybe consider that she is better off looking elsewhere or going it alone in life. Whichever decision she chooses, the key is to ensure that she goes with the path that benefits her the most, not fall for the old lies that saw to it that our grandmothers and mothers ended up with nothing to their names and dreams in the end.🥱🥱🥱

Time ticks for every man and woman out there, and death comes for all. So, it is left for each to decide what value their particular life will have as they see fit.

blingxx:
Continue looking for woman to settle with you with your account balance I don’t think you know how hard it is raising kids in this economy ,nobody likes suffer which is very reasonable

Kobojunkie:
1. Women bring emotional, mental and physical labor— invisible labor that they are never really ever fully compensated for— to their relationships, and so, yes, when a rich man marries himself a woman, he knows he betters his life by doing so, even when she brings no kobo to the marriage.

2. Many feminists are married, so that one way you dey talk no even mean anything at all. I am against women continuing to give their labor away for free to men who don't value, benefit them, and their dreams, in relationships, whether she is a feminist or not. We all saw how our grandmothers and mothers carried struggle-love for head, only to end up with none of their dreams realized, financially abused, in many cases, also physically abused, and most of them abandoned in marriage at the end of the day. No sane human being would want to support seeing the same continue on to even our children and grandchildren out there.

This ain't about any bullsheet authority but about women getting compensated for their efforts in marriage, which is meant to work out also in their good, not just for the man.

kingthreat:
The way every woman is claiming rape, who will now care about the genuine rape cases?

Kobojunkie:
There are literally 10s of millions of reasons in Nigeria today why no woman in Nigeria should ever again consider settling for a poor man in that same Nigeria or anywhere else.

Kobojunkie:
Combined income with whom? A woman that Mr.100K would also expect submission from, in addition to treating him as head of her life in marriage, right? Poor men never know wetin don happen to them and their ilk in that country. 🥱🥱

dollypi:
Anyone lacking the ability to discuss issues without resorting to insults, deserves a block.

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.
Wrong metric. Wrong debate. Wrong focus.

The real issue is pattern count, the behavioral blueprint that explains why someone accumulated that body count in the first place.

Let’s be clear and data-driven:

A high body count in a woman is rarely an accident.
It’s a pattern of decisions, and patterns reveal more than confessions ever will.

It signals:

1. A history of low sexual discipline
Multiple partners over a short timeline shows one thing, judgment compromised by her impulse.
A woman who says “it just happened” twelve times isn’t unlucky.
She’s undisciplined.

2. A track record of emotional volatility
Jumping from one man to another is often a coping mechanism.
Breakup → rebound → situationship → reset → repeat.
That’s not romance.
That’s instability disguised as “experiences.”

3. A pattern of allowing easy access
You can’t accumulate a long list of men without being easily available.
Availability is a decision, not destiny.

4. A long-term problem with accountability
Most high-count women blame “toxic exes,” “bad choices,” or “not knowing better.”
But the common denominator in every story is the storyteller.

5. A consistent inability to say no
If a woman cannot say no to men, impulses, attention, or temporary validation,
she will struggle to say yes to discipline, loyalty, and partnership.

See the pattern?

A high body count isn’t just a number.
It’s evidence, a trend line which shows consistent patter..
And in business, leadership, and relationships, trends predict outcomes.

You don’t evaluate a candidate by one mistake.
You evaluate them by their pattern of decisions.

Relationships are no different.

Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.
Cc nlfpmod seun

Kobojunkie:
I can't make heads of tails of this submission of yours since I don't follow or agree with any of Africa's many traditions, especially where they regard women.

Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

Abee79:
OP, your article presents a very one-sided and divisive view of relationships that doesn't reflect most people's reality. While it's true that both men and women can face real challenges in dating today, framing it as a secret "war" where one gender is unfairly attacking the other only creates more misunderstanding. Most people, both men and women, are just trying to find genuine connection and happiness. The healthiest approach isn't to see each other as enemies, but to work on clear communication, mutual respect, and understanding each other's perspectives to build better partnerships together.

Deepspirituals:
If they were to be a General Drug Test ...Can Our Leaders Present themselves for such Test?

President
Senate and Senate Head
Governors
Ministers.

Etc...

franchasofficia:
This notebook was produced after 1996 Olympic games in celebration of Chioma Ajunwa's gold medal, the first Nigerian and African gold medalists at the Olympic games

Peliman:
Ekori those guys no dey play there kai remember my service year back then in 2015.

LordIsaac:
There was no "relationship" from the beginning. Oga just wanted to monopolize a couchie destined for the streets....and madam wanted to sit in a private jet.

stuffs2002:
You are the one without fear of God because more Muslims have died from these insecurities yet you want to spin the tales.


Insecurities with Muslims and Christians as victims is not genocide except you want to claim that Muslim lives do not matter

ZaddyJ:
If na this lady she Dey depressed oo.

kingthreat:
In any situation in life, there must be a leader. That is order. Saying both husband and wife are equal is what's causing many marriages to break

Kingbuhari:
women are destroyers.. I started life very promising full of life but starting relationship at the age of 13 was my greatest undo.. 1 it weak me emotionally 2 destroy me sexually 3 I defiled my body in a way I regret it now 4 exposed me to danger, 5 lost it for several years till I reach 30 4 so many things i can't mention here but I thank God i replenish in less than 6yrs after I leave comfort zone.. being virgin till 30 is a blessing

Kingbuhari:
If I know what I know today I will not know any woman until I reach 35 years .. they rendered my early years useless with s*Bleep but that God I recovered those lose years