Romance › Re: Swipe, Pay, Repeat: The Rise Of Pay-for-play Dating by bende7t: 9:50am On Oct 16, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: You are making sense to yourself. Now explain why talking stage of nowadays always ends with the guy refilling their gas cylinders😂😂😂 that also involves sex right. you are still justifying the fact that all of ye are pros😂😂😂 so if there’s no men, there’s no opportunity for women😂😂😂 what happened to our mothers that hustled together with their husbands 🤔
I think some women should even read what you’re writing too cos if it were written by a man all hell will let loose. I think she is still in her early 20s. If you call them Ash...wo, all hell will let loose. |
Romance › Re: Swipe, Pay, Repeat: The Rise Of Pay-for-play Dating by bende7t: 9:44am On Oct 16, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: All of them lies, since there are literally no difference between your many spiritual/religious type and the non-religoius men out there... they all seem to see women are objects for their desires.  KoboJ, your construct they always tire me. Why do you always support the idea of women prostituting just to prove gender equality. When them say pay the bills, you will point to the man! Thank God say una don open our eyes with the evil intent in women's heart Sister, na man be the price! Una market dey expire from 30yrs upward then the all night prayer session go start. Keep mumuing urself |
Celebrities › Re: Man’s Hilarious Response After Lady Replies His DM 3 Years After by bende7t: 10:37am On Oct 10, 2025 |
G0odharddick: She's obviously pained by his response!
Bro, if a girl gives you her number and you chat her up, from the chats, you noticed she's not interested, delete her number ASAP and move on! Women are not stvpid, they know who they want and desire to fvk. Don't bother trying to impress or force her because she'll notice your desperation and that'll make you look stvpid and you'll lose her completely. Just delete her number move on! There are over 4.9billion girls in the world!
Here's the rules!
1. Never double text a girl 2. Never beg a girl for sex 3. Never act desperate (match energy for energy) if she takes 2 hours in responding to your message, take 6hrs to reply hers. 4. Don't be always available 5. Normalize ghosting and ignoring women (mostly on WhatsApp) read the messages, and leave it unanswered (this triggers her emotions and scatters her ego) 6. Never ask for her validation (a king doesn't need a woman's validation) 7. Keep things casual, don't take her too seriously. 8. Don't make her your top priority 9. Stand against disrespect  |
Romance › Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by bende7t: 11:43am On Sep 13, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: It does not matter whether it is used for material gain or absolutely nothing at all, the point is both men and women use it to at least their emotional benefit. 😩😩😩 It matters alot Sis. |
Family › Re: My Wife Took My Child Away by bende7t: 1:28pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Ephort: The problem is not the lady. The problem is you! You thought you could save a damsel in distress - the clean-up guy. What happened to your testosterone - Nice Guy? People who make this sort of decision are the "my mother raised me" crew, who believe that women are angels and deserve protection and tender support. Learn this: you don't ever judge women by their outlook or your observations, but their results and their nature. The results so far will tell you everything you need to know while their very nature will always manifest. My advice: the more needy you become, the more you are pawned. Your strength is manifested in your ability to disconnect from her and by extension, the baby. Deaden your hunger to provide and nurture until it's right. For now, she is playing games that you can never win. At best, exit the arena, then participate when the need calls. Then, and only then will you come as a man and set the terms. More so, she is not your wife. She belongs to many. |
Politics › Re: Yoruba Union Lambasts Tinubu Over Hardship, Insecurity... by bende7t: 2:14pm On Aug 05, 2025 |
Ritchiee: Nigeria was borrowing money to pay for fuel subsidy and defending fx. When Buhari had problem borrowing,he printed 30 trillion naira,after he exhausted that,they use fuel to borrow money for 5 years. Meanwhile,ASUU went on strike for 8 months because there was no money to pay them,workers,pensioners,doctors etc were owed money,airlines were owed $7 billion, Nigeria and states were going bankrupt and a load of other ills. If it went on like that,it would have been worse than this and it might even end in another civil war. A lot of people were stealing the little oil we were producing...powerful people in govt and out of govt and their cohorts. It would be a battle for the fittest. Now,according to FITCH ratings,Poor's ratings,World Bank,IMF...Tinubu has grown the economy (but not felt by the masses ). Tinubu has paid off the $7billion,paid off IMF more than $3 billion he met on ground etc.
The pain we are going through is what is called transition pain that has eased than last year and it will get better. Rome was not built in a day. Go and write it down,before 2027,there will be prosperity for Nigerians. The key word is a little patience. For your information,Nigeria's fuel still remains one of the cheapest in Africa. Previous govts tied our lives to fuel,reason any little hike in price will seem as if the world is ending. That has stopped. Prosperity is here...soonest.
The United States of America's debt has ballooned to $36.7 trillion, and out of desperation, the U.S. Government is accepting donations from citizens to reduce its indebtedness. The United Kingdom is facing a debt crisis that has seen its budget deficit hit £20.7 billion, and its debt level is now the second highest on record. And the biggest economy in Europe, Germany, is grappling with a €118.8 billion budget deficit.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, President Bola Tinubu has reduced our national debt from the $113.7 billion he inherited from General Buhari to $97.1 billion today.
This is even as he is building the two largest road infrastructure in Nigeria's history, the 1068 kilometre Illela-Sokoto-Badagry Superhighway, costing ₦13 trillion, and the 750 kilometre Lagos-Calabar Coastal Highway, priced at ₦15 trillion.
Yes, there are still challenges here and there, but Nigeria has made significant progress under Tinubu. And the world is noticing. This is why more countries are granting Nigeria's passport visa-free access, leading to the latest Henley Passport Index upgrading Nigeria's passport from the 97th strongest under General Buhari to the 88th most powerful passport on Earth today. In all this ur epistle, you didn't mention the high cost of governance of the government. The people should endure while the politicians enjoy. Stop defending what's clearly wrong. Abeg! Tell him to bring back the fuel subsidy and go borrow to defend it. After all US dey owe too and their $100 no be for 2 wraps of tomtom |
Education › Re: Can You Solve This Mathematics by bende7t: 12:11pm On Jul 15, 2025 |
obembet: 90% were eliminated
Can you solve this simple mathematics? Let see who will give us the best answer * 1 man + 7 wives = 8 people total (adult par household) *** 8 people x 7 families = 56 total adult * 7 children x 7 wives = 49 (children par household) *** 49 x 7 = 343 total children Answer: 56 + 343 = 399 people total. |
Politics › Re: Hate him, love him but you can't ignore El-Rufai - VP Shettima by bende7t: 9:38pm On Jul 10, 2025 |
Softmirror: Tinubu will serve his 8 years complete. Tinubu is not a mere mortal he is very much favored by God Almighty. No matter what anybody place as a hurdle Tinubu will scale over it. He scaled over them last time he will scale over them again and again. "Tinubu will serve his 8 years complete" Hear talk! Where is it written in our constitution  Guy, except you don't spend Naira, this present dispensation comes to an end May 29 2027. 1: Let the election be free and fare, where the people expresstheir heart , APC is a goner May 29 2027. 2: Let APC use power of incumbency to rig, APC is a goner May 29 2027. 3: Even if the present dispensation return the fuel subsidy,APC is a goner May 29 2027. |
Politics › Re: Everybody Is Now Hawking I Will Do One Term: Rufai Oseni Slams Coalition Members by bende7t: 10:40pm On Jul 05, 2025 |
abc115: Everybody is now Hawking I will do one term, Rufai Oseni Slams Coalition Members
https://x.com/ruffydfire/status/1941054428939014167 Boss, Me and so many enlightened Naija people know that power returns back to the North in 2031. Any one term arrangements that will make south complete its 8 year is a welcome development. I voted for APC in 2015. The reason being PDP boasted that they will rule Naija for 50 years couple with corruption and lack of accountability in governance and high cost of governance. From Buhari to Tinubu it has been disappointment. Now the likes of us can't talk again. The price of goods and services are at it's highest high in decades. Now we seeing a clear one party state with no opposition to balance the scale! Rufai Oseni, wether it's Peter Obi, Amaechi etc that ADC will flag, me and my household will vote for that southerner!!! |
Family › Re: Why Do You Divorce Your Child Along? by bende7t: 6:16am On Jun 12, 2025 |
EverydayTipsfor: Why do so many African fathers neglect their children, especially after a divorce or separation? Does divorcing the mother also mean divorcing the children? How can you be at peace knowing your children are not feeding well? Just because they’re with their mother, you think it's no longer your concern? How do you sleep well, eat well, and laugh with friends, knowing that a part of you — your own flesh and blood — is out there suffering? Woman tells you the child belongs to her, like an asset or property and dashes off to her folks or otherwise with the plan that the man should just be paying but he is not allowed full access to the child. E no go work! Shishi no go drop. Tell the child whatever she likes. The plan is clear. Me won't be financing a wayward baby mama. This generation of ladies that will never let a man have a little authority or even talk without outright antagonism. Bottom line: MOST WOMAN ARE TERRIBLY UNKIND TO THE MAN ONCE THEY HAVE A CHILD FOR YOU. una know una self |
Celebrities › Re: 2Baba Thrills Guests At PCEPI Live In Jos (Video) by bende7t: 6:16pm On Jun 05, 2025 |
Elvyne: I'm tired. I want to end it all. Have been seeking for financial assistance, yet no one wants to help my plight. This suffering is too much for me. My baby has not eaten since morning. I don't have money to buy her nutribom. What more do I have to live for? I can't do this anymore. Please help me if you can. 814 94 768 31 Palmpay. my name is Mary Bassey Where is the Father of the baby  Go and humble yourself with the Father and see whether he will not use His last energy to feed that child you are carrying around. Run away with a child and expect the community to feed the child for you. Rmind me of one Bassey lady i also know Let me guess,, He is a Boy, right!! You go hear koko |
Nairaland General › Re: Name One Mistake You've Made In Life So Someone Else Doesn’t Make It by bende7t: 8:16pm On May 31, 2025 |
Juliearth: Never date a "broken man". Young lady, you are not a mechanic. If his parents couldn't fix him, what makes you think you could? (Same advise can apply to dating a broken lady too.
If he cheats once, leave and dont look back. They don't change. Same can be applied to women too
Be entangled with an emotionally intelligent man, else you would be frustrated into madness.
Do not form friendship or sisterhood/brotherhood at work. Do your job and go home.
Do well what is worth doing. Our deeds have a way of coming back to us.
Do not befriend people below your intellectual and emotional level, else you would be emptied. And completely drained out. Your last paragraph hits home well |
Romance › Re: No Man Can Go 3 Rounds: Medical Doctor Sparks Debate With A Theory About Men by bende7t: 10:34pm On May 20, 2025 |
TheWebbers: Men who are going more than 1 round need to work on themselves. That's some nonsense.
I have NEVER gone beyond 1 round in my entire life, and that is because my round lasts for at least 20 minutes. I mean 20 minutes of full action.
I believe men who go multiple rounds are 1 or 2 minutes men. You cannot smash a woman nonstop for 20 to 30 minutes and still be interested in any more rounds. In fact my women dont even show any interest again after my 20 to 30 minutes of action cos we are both worn out and 100% satisfied.
This 2 rounds 7 rounds discussion is always strange to me. With you bro, Let the first count! |
Nairaland General › Re: What Does Nairaland Need Right Now? by bende7t: 12:41am On Apr 15, 2025 |
VERY IMPORTANT. like and dislike button |
Politics › Re: US Court Orders FBI, Anti-drug Agency To Release Tinubu’s Records by bende7t: 2:25pm On Apr 13, 2025 |
gabbytabby: Trump is a convicted criminal and still the President of USA and you think he has anything on PBAT.
Once they allowed Trump they opened the flood gates for everyone else and whatever happened and mistake he made happened as a young lad and most probably expunged. But i tire for ur comment bro. Let the matter play out. |
Travel › Re: Japa: Many Nigerians Abroad Living In Regrets, Depression, Abike Dabiri-erewa by bende7t: 12:30am On Mar 10, 2025 |
franchasng: This is mostly applicable to Nigerians that migrated to UK via study route. UK can be frustrating, forget the fine pictures, that country was never structured to make migrants succeed, only fortunate ones with high in demand skills and physical strength succeed in UK.
Another country Nigerians always regret migrating to is Cyprus.
Avoid the below mentioned countries if you are a Nigerian that want to Japa abroad
Cyprus South Africa Spain Turkey (except for buying things) Vietnam India Russia Philippines Indonesia Malaysia Dubai Lebanon Libya Morocco Egypt I concur |
Politics › Re: High Chief Emmanuel Uduaghan, Senator Natasha Akpoti Husband Speaks by bende7t: 10:08pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Highnesscfr2030: High Chief Emmanuel Uduaghan, Senator Natasha Akpoti Husband , the Alema of Warri Kingdom Speaks
I had initially resolved to refrain from commenting on the ongoing dispute between my beloved wife, Senator Natasha H Akpoti-Uduaghan, and the Senate President, Senator Godswill Akpabio. However, recent developments have compelled me to issue this statement. It is clear that certain sentiments are being stirred up unnecessarily, distracting from the serious underlying allegations, which should concern every discerning individual with sound family values.
Without prejudice to the ongoing legal proceedings, I wish to emphasize that my wife was duly elected by her people due to the immense love, respect, and confidence they have in her and she is committed to delivery quality representation to her district and the Nation at large. She is a devoted wife, and the bond we share is deep and unwavering. She has always remained truthful, even in the face of adversity.
My wife has confided in me about her interactions with the Senate President, whom I considered a family friend. In response, I approached the matter with the utmost maturity and responsibility, as it is my duty as a traditional leader who has immense respect for constituted authority and upholds core family values, foster peace and harmony. I personally met with the Senate President and respectfully urged him to extend the courtesy and respect my wife deserves, while also honoring the friendship between us. We reached an understanding and agreed to resolve the issue amicably.
However, despite this agreement, my wife continues to express concerns about the harassment she has endured from the Senate President.
I have unwavering faith in my wife’s loyalty and am fully committed to our marriage, which is grounded in love, compassion, and mutual respect. I would never trade her for anything, as she is the greatest joy of my life.
I now respectfully urge the Senate of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and the Senate President to treat my beloved wife with the respect and dignity she truly deserves while the relevant authorities and the court determine the underlying issues.
High Chief Emmanuel Oritsejolomi Uduaghan Alema of Warri Kingdom Correct! Let's see how it plays out. May you live long your royal highness |
Family › Re: How Can One Stop A Loved One's Drug Addiction? by bende7t: 12:27pm On Feb 19, 2025 |
kingthreat: Your cultism story if you repent will do better there. Slowpoke, it's u and ur household that is into cultism. That is why you can wake up 6am after taking some cheap liquor and drug and create silly stories on nairaland so you can jerk off over the number of threads and comments you generate. Simple question?? Ur girls brother that needs help yesterday according to you is today a success story that is travelling to UK courtesy your effort  I need your reply simp |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 12:15pm On Feb 19, 2025 |
kingthreat: Never a cultist. I am what the cultist call jew. Proudly 100% till the end. You are the cultist and you must pay for every blood you shared. Wicked soul. Spits How can you call yourself a jew (SIMP). Your simpleton level has really graduated beyond redemption. You are the cultist for beating up a woman publicly. slowpoke |
Family › Re: How Can One Stop A Loved One's Drug Addiction? by bende7t: 11:09am On Feb 19, 2025 |
kingthreat: Thanks for referring to this. Boy is a success story right now. We're sponsoring him to the UK this year. You that asked for advice on how to help ur girl friend brother's drug addiction yesterday. Now today, the said person is a success story to be supposed to UK by you. Hmmmmm. Take ur script to wale Adenuga, he will help you fine tune it better. We know a boastful Simp from afar |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 11:00am On Feb 19, 2025 |
kingthreat: Yes ooo. I am 100% jew. A proud one and remain one till I die. I will never be a cultist or partake in cultism. As for you, the people you have killed will stand against you. The blood you have shed, you and yours must pay for it. You will not escape it. Imagine you coming to this life and gladly killing others to claim strongman. You never see anything, you are already doomed. Kingthreat you are a deceitful and boastful slow poke creating the impression of a smart dude on nairaland. You be cultist, thats why you can beat a woman. |
Family › Re: How Can One Stop A Loved One's Drug Addiction? by bende7t: 11:34pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
kingthreat: To break it short to you guys. My girl has been a pain on my neck lately on her elder brother's case. We all know her brother is into weed and crack, thats the one we know. Guy is in his late 20s. Last year he made a decision in front of their family to quit and live a better life and they supported him.
Now he is fully back into his destructive habit. Recently, he has not been at home as sometimes he hangs out in a friend's place. His mum got a call from him saying he was picked up for no reason by the police and is presently being detained for nothing. When the mum got there, police told her the truth.
Man was caught during a raid on a drug joint and he must be bailed. Police was even telling the mum that they are lucky the raid was not by NDLEA else it would have been more serious. Mum was in tears seeing her son looking tattered and having gone back to such bad habit.
This is someone that is a graduate, but has let his habit make him jobless and a nuisance. I do talk to him sometimes on the dangers of weed, arizona, crack, xtacy, ice, etc. I even sent him 50k to keep him going at a time. He keeps assuring me he is okay. It is abit heartbreaking for me despite him not being my blood. It gets my girl moody most of the time.
Is there anything his loved ones can do to stop him from taking this? Rehab runs into millions and his family cannot fund it. But is there something to make the nigga stop and stop being a problem on his family?
Will appreciate responses from those who were able to get their loved ones to stop drug abuse. Guy, you brought your girl friend brother's addiction to nairaland and listed all kinds of narcotics on him.(weed, arizona, crack, xtacy, ice, etc.) How you take know all this drug lingual   Na so you be saint   Even went as far telling us about the 50k you gave to him. Someone with no job, how long will he use it up? If he doesn't decide on his own to stop it, there is little anyone can do about it. You of all people should know this. |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 10:57pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
kingthreat: You proudly exclaimed that I am jew and mocked me for it. He that is not a ju is a cultist who most likely did a blood initiation and must have blood of his rivals in his hands. He most likely may be involved in other cult vices like substance abuse, alcohol, prostitute patronizing, charms and alot of other evils. Inasmuch as the topic is about not being a simp, I just had to expatiate on the suprise of cultism. Is that what you came to this world to do? I pray you change and become a better person to inspire fellows like you to drop their axes, guns and charms so they can fulfil their destinies. Praying for you. Hope you see the light. Shalom! Funny enough all these vices you listed above are attributes of those that can beat a woman publicly and run down to a brothel to knack one man's rejected hole. |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 10:44pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
kingthreat: You proudly exclaimed that I am jew and mocked me for it. He that is not a ju is a cultist who most likely did a blood initiation and must have blood of his rivals in his hands. He most likely may be involved in other cult vices like substance abuse, alcohol, prostitute patronizing, charms and alot of other evils. Inasmuch as the topic is about not being a simp, I just had to expatiate on the suprise of cultism. Is that what you came to this world to do? I pray you change and become a better person to inspire fellows like you to drop their axes, guns and charms so they can fulfil their destinies. Praying for you. Hope you see the light. Shalom! Kingthreat why you want turn pastor wey dey pray for people. You be jew Man and a SIMP shikina!!! Stop throlling people's comment. I just want you to beat a woman in public and dare the consequences |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 8:05pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
kingthreat: The hit you went for is a price you must pay for. Karma is for real. Wicked dirty cultist. Na cultist dey know cultist! Just try beat woman for public make I check something. You are damaged. I guess na so ur popsy dey jab and launch punces at ur mumsy while growing up. I quite understand ur upbringing. I get ur time slow poke |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 11:39am On Feb 18, 2025 |
kingthreat: A fool for running. Can't he pin her down and get her arrested if possible? Shame to all SIMPs. You go pin her down as if she be chicken then call police right? KINGTHREAT you be fake nigga, claiming Guy. Your IQ low gan. A woman that could lunch such attack publicly is who you want pin down call KOTI  ?? You dull gan |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 11:26am On Feb 18, 2025 |
kingthreat: May the blood of those you have killed be upon you. You are a cultist, a blood shedder and you must pay for the blood on your hands. When another brother use blow scatter your sister mouth tomorrow, kingthreat, you go quickly call police and drop ur little cent for them abi? kingthreat, na you be the cultist advicing me to beat a woman public. |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 10:53am On Feb 18, 2025 |
bende7t: Na you alone know the man wey dem dey slap and kick him pikin. Just one single event, you became the perfect role model. You claim you know woman better than every other brethren....Werey dem go Bleep ur wife nothing you go do. I check you up na! You go about people's post concluding who is a simp and whose not. Na AJ dem born me and i play street well. Na pikin you be for ruggedity. Very sure you be jew Man for system, because if you rugged you go know say, na inside house dem take dey treat woman Bleep up. I get ur time. Mumu, you dey advice ur fellow man to fight woman publicly and if dey don't, dem be automatic simp. U just Sabi type on a phone, am very sure you were a slowpoke while in school. I want you now to pay for ur own flight go that country wey you mention. Wen you tell ur woman say you no do again and she come slap you, idiot try make you throw punch and see the consequences. because you dey beat ur area girls, you don be superman, try beat a WOMAN with punch and see weda you no go sleep for KOTI workshop. Stay on point, no derail from wetin bring us together bloody Simp claiming to be a redpiller!!! |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 10:35am On Feb 18, 2025 |
See ur life, no derail from the subject matter. How many woman you don beat for this life wey you come? You no be cultist but you want beat a woman publicly, who is the lunatic  Go get a life and stop thinking you are better off than the next man. From your write up, I know say you be small pikin. Werey, Na boast ur type Sabi boast. I get ur time. kingthreat: Lol a stinking doomed cultist that has tasted another man's blood in the name of ruggedity. That's the lunatic trying to show he is better than me. With your background in dirt poverty, your youth as a cultist, IQ of a retarrd and mentality as a SIMP, the situation is 98% hopeless unless there's a supernatural intervention. |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 10:46pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Na you alone know the man wey dem dey slap and kick him pikin. Just one single event, you became the perfect role model. You claim you know woman better than every other brethren....Werey dem go Bleep ur wife nothing you go do. I check you up na! You go about people's post concluding who is a simp and whose not. Na AJ dem born me and i play street well. Na pikin you be for ruggedity. Very sure you be jew Man for system, because if you rugged you go know say, na inside house dem take dey treat woman Bleep up. I get ur time. kingthreat: Lol na man like una, your wife go slap for public. Na man like you your pikin go insult. Na man like you your wife go knack outside and if you complain, dem divorce you. I was wrong, men like you should not just be whipped. You should be sponsored to Canada to become a Transwoman. If that opportunity ever comes up, bro holla at me. I will sponsor the plane flight. |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 12:41am On Feb 17, 2025 |
Oga Idiot shit up, u no go do anything. because I said I left her alone means am not a man. Ur type go see man like una, na peace you go call for. Na woman you want go dey fight. And you say you be MAN. I get ur time. Still quote me werey kingthreat: Make your sister make mistake slap me first. No mouth, no bragging, but the consequences clear pass DSTV. |
Romance › Re: Lady Attacks Boyfriend On Valentine's Day In Calabar by bende7t: 3:32pm On Feb 16, 2025 |
So i should fight her back that will make me a man? That's why it's a terrible idea commenting on nairaland. One idiot will always claim to know better. Oga you get mouth online, I doubt if it's the same in real life kingthreat: You need to be flogged 36 strokes. Hopefully that can put you back on factory mode to remind you that you are a MAN. |