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@Candy. Whaddya think?

@Afrobaby. I understand but lets look at some of the most beloved people in history. They were great people and still had their shortcomings. Dont you think we are putting an exaggerated emphasis on so called fidelity?

Looking at the music industry right now i must say that there are a plethora of gifted and talented artists, some whom have reached superstar status but right now pound for pound and based on the quality of music and appeal are Banky W and M.I the best of both worlds? I love Dbanj and the Mo Hits Family, Tuface is awesome and so are othe star artists like PSquared, El Dee and of corse Naeto C but after listening to The W Experience i think Mr. Capable is the best bar none. All the tracks from a production standpoint are even better than what is bumpin in Yankee and M.I has to be the most impressive rapper period!!! I wonder if they will do like Jay Z and R Kelly with a Best of Both Worlds album, what do you think?

I have been pondering the age old question of fidelity; don't get me wrong i believe in LOVE, relationships and marraige. But in all sincerity does sleeping with another while in a relationship really mean you don't love? How can the act of sex define or nullify what really exists between two people or better yet what exists that an act of sex destroys? Before you go off with replies think of this scenario:
A married man is in love with his wife (or vice versa) and has sex with another woman but his wife does not know, he still shows her the affection and treats her right and everything is perfect. Sometime later she finds out and feels betrayed and all of a sudden everything is wrong. Now understand that up until she found out even though he was with another person she felt okay but now the thought of this causes problems. In retrospect the period between the revelation was great up until the knowledge of the act, so my arguement is even while he was 'cheating' she felt love right? So whatis the big deal? Is it more of an emotional reaction or did it actually affect the relationship.
Looking forward to your thoughts.
PS: This is a discussion, lets be mature and articulate our feelings, who knows we may find something out!