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I have an iPhone XR 128gb for urgent sale
Stats below:

Size: 128gb
Battery health: 85%
Face ID: Active
True Tone: Active
Defect: No single crack. Clean as newly bought

Selling for N180,000. Make me an offer and it's yours.

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iPhone XR 128gb

Price: 180k

Location:Ibadan

iPhone XR 128 gb

Price: 180k

Location: Ibadan

WhatsApp 07061536243

NB: This personal use phone

I’m in with username Bennayou


Leggo !! We will play for 3 weeks

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Clean, Mint, NFID,

BH 75%
140k

WhatsApp/Call: 0903 973 9486
Location: Ogun State, Mowe/Sagamu

Clean, Mint, NFID,

BH 75%
140k

WhatsApp/Call: 0903 973 9486
Location: Ogun State, Mowe/Sagamu

[quote author=Lesbihornest post=135157528]I need a farm attendant at airport road. It's a poultry farm.

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Jb95:
Is it a matter or serious capital or knowing how to trade?

Even with serious capital won't u blow it if u dont understand the trading terrain? So which is better to blow your small capital and learn from it or to blow serious capital?

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Jb95:
Is it a matter or serious capital or knowing how to trade?

Even with serious capital won't u blow it if u dont understand the trading terrain? So which is better to blow your small capital and learn from it or to blow serious capital?

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Jb95:
Is it a matter or serious capital or knowing how to trade?

Even with serious capital won't u blow it if u dont understand the trading terrain? So which is better to blow your small capital and learn from it or to blow serious capital?

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jaxxy:
I think u should try good communication and not expecting someone to automatically like or perhaps even worship u just cos u do things for them.

I'm not saying his behaviour is right but there might be more to it than the hate u have concluded. If He hates u then why? if he doesn't care about u then why? There must be a reason why a siblings acts the way they do.

Are u the controlling or judgemental type?

Also 2nd born are generally stubborn I'm guessing u are the 1st.

Wisdom three much!

Akpabio22:
bro I'm facing same issue i regreted doing so much for my younger brother. He is full of envy bitterness always finding fault on me. All my friends outside has never treated me like the way this guy treated me. Truly blood is not ticker than water. Run far from him with time he will learn the hard way. I've completely removed my life or anything about me from my brother he his a devil . I now see him as an enemy and I'm watching him both physical and spiritual I can never losegard for him to kill me instead it will be the other way round. Some brothers are evil immediately they start seeing progress in your life they will change completely forgotting every man has his own destiny. I now dislike my brother now so much because he said so much I never believe he was like that until he can't hide it anymore.

That’s your inheritance! Endure it 😂

femi4:
You are the elder, bring him closer. Make him feel vulnerable around you. You probably scold him everytime he makes mistakes, he doesn't have the courage to share what is going on in his life with you. He does not hate you, he's scared of you

2. Stop seeking validation from people like yaya toure who was angry with Mancity for not giving him a birthday cake

My agbalagba, I dolf my coconut head for your wisdom. More grace sir

Nigga44:
Op, your brother does not hate you. Maybe he's just scared of you......and feels awkward relating freely with you.

Many introverted people are like that, and this may stem from your relationship with him when you were kids. I presume you may not have been at home that much in the past and as such there may not have been much opportunity to relate with you more freely. You may be shocked to find out years later that he actually loved you more than all the people that are doing 'eye service' to you now. I pray its not late then cos many introverts are highly misunderstood!

Try and get closer to him now to help ease his awkwardness towards you. If you want to change the situation, just try and be friends with him, and soon enough he'll come around and be at ease with you.

I think the brother is now closer to prop firms than…

uckay304:
Is not that he hates you, some don't just like somebody that over control them or somebody that shows too seniority, little thing you shout at them, so they try to avoid you
Is like you are one of such people
The little help he's even getting from you is because he don't have, if he has he won't even you at all

Are you the brother? Shuu oghene me 😲 bro you dey fear me ooo

LesPieux:
OP. You sound like a beta male.

Which serious male cares about birthday posts on Facebook?

OP is a female I think

Ogeneigbo1:
because your brother does not call you on phone does not mean that he hates you.
some people don't open up easily even if you give them your millions, that does not mean they hate you.
do not allow evil thoughts to creep into your mind because of nothing.

i will advice you to call your brother to visit you on holidays or weekends , that will increase the bond between you guys and open up more avenue for you know him better.

Wisdom!

bluefilm:
I don't know why, but this is quite funny

Elder brother seeking for love from younger brother?

Wonders shall never end!

That’s a feminine gender 😂
May we not lodge in a confusional hotel!

Angelfrost:
Family is not always what we desire, but family is always going to be family!

Blood will always be thicker than water!

If you feel your younger brother hates you, then you should be asking yourself what you did to earn his animosity...!

Have a sit down with him, and talk like men...! Get all issues on the table! Involve an elder if possible (very advisable).


Don't let pride overwhelm both of you... Being the bigger man and brother isn't always easy. Sometimes, we have to even stoop to conquer.

For all you know, he might be going through mental issues that might require your intervention... Don't make conclusions from a distance.


This same kid might become a strong backbone for you tomorrow... The future is never black and white!


When you have done all these reconciliatory moves, and he stays aloof and hateful, then you have earned the conscience to keep him where he belongs!

But, in all you do, never burn bridges with Flesh and Blood...! E get why!!!

Happy Sunday All!

For every genuine person who sows in tears, shall definitely reap with songs of joy! The universe is watching us all

Angelfrost:
Family is not always what we desire, but family is always going to be family!

Blood will always be thicker than water!

If you feel your younger brother hates you, then you should be asking yourself what you did to earn his animosity...!

Have a sit down with him, and talk like men...! Get all issues on the table! Involve an elder if possible (very advisable).


Don't let pride overwhelm both of you... Being the bigger man and brother isn't always easy. Sometimes, we have to even stoop to conquer.

For all you know, he might be going through mental issues that might require your intervention... Don't make conclusions from a distance.


This same kid might become a strong backbone for you tomorrow... The future is never black and white!


When you have done all these reconciliatory moves, and he stays aloof and hateful, then you have earned the conscience to keep him where he belongs!

But, in all you do, never burn bridges with Flesh and Blood...! E get why!!!

Happy Sunday All!

Live till you leave! Prov 23:7

kalvoken:
^^^^^ on the other hand, check yourself very well, there must be something you are doing wrong and he may not know how to put it to you, or you are not heeding his advice.

Smae brother of mine that was always eager to pane beat us for any slight wrong doing is someone I have come to know he leaves the worst version of life he preach to us against.

80% of his way of life is nothing to write home about, and he would never take any advice from me his younger one. This has made me restrict my relationship with him. I'm not happy with his lifestyle but i do not hate him.

I only avoid as much as possible, having anything serious with him. That doesn't mean I hate him. In fact, I hate the fact that he hates himself.


So baba, check yourself well well. You fit be the problem. Even from your write up, you want to abandon your brother because he doesn't post you on social media.

What if he was to be your biological son, who you go leave am for?

May you continue to flourish like a palm tree planted by the river side! Aaah remain blessed with wisdom.

99thEnemy:
Hate is a very strong word.

Many people, especially Nigerians tend to interchange “dislike” with the word “hate”, but the intensity and meaning of these words in expressing emotions are different.

“Dislike” is the proper word to use in this case.

Your younger brother may tend to dislike you.


Trust me, if it’s hate, there will be noticeable hostility, insolence, disrespect and other negatives.

You should first try to understand the reason for this behavior before labeling it as anything further.

What I see is that you noticed his lack of courtesy, lack of appreciation and then avoidance towards you.

Shalom

I think one of the law of the universe remains do unto others how you want them do to you.

Sow and reaping

Babatunjo:
Family is Family. As the elder bro, you have to be the bigger person. Keep staying connected to him.. When he's older and wiser he'll appreciate you better.

By the way you don't need his love.. but his appreciation and respect. Don't react, give him time.. if after he's 40 years and older, and still acts this way, then you can respond.

What can I say? God bless and increase your wisdom in Jesus mighty name. Amen

dominique:
He doesn't hate you, he just doesn't rate you or he's a total introvert and a loner. People like that find it very hard to open up to others.

You are there before?

Gbadugbakun:
Cut him off jare. When hunger deals with him, he would come back to his senses.

Can’t you ask in details of what how and what’s going on before and after! How many are they in the family and…

Let’s see the wisemen in muscular speeches

Zubeezanga:
With due respect oga u have way too much of feminine genes, u don't know or understand how men love lol, see e get people wey d mind every second of the day but i no be much show of lovy dovy type, brotherly love dy different oga, me n my senior bro hardly talk or chat but na my nigga.

Na sister and brother matter, don’t be confused bro!

akube34:
”blood is not thicker than water”, very important message. Bro, comot your hand for him matter. No listen to Wetin anyone go talk

Very simple!

emma2002:
I understand your concerns and feelings. It's painful when family members, especially siblings, don't appreciate or reciprocate love and support. You've done a lot for your brother, and his indifference and lack of gratitude are hurtful.

Firstly, acknowledge that you've tried addressing the issue with him directly, which shows you care about your relationship. Since that hasn't worked, consider the following steps:

1. *Re-evaluate your financial support*: It's fair to reassess how you allocate your resources. Consider redirecting support to siblings who value and appreciate your efforts.
2. *Set boundaries*: If you choose to continue supporting your brother, establish clear expectations and consequences for not meeting them.
3. *Don't internalize his behavior*: Remember that his actions reflect his own character, not yours. You've shown kindness and generosity; don't let his behavior define your self-worth.
4. *Prepare for mother's reaction*: Anticipate your mother's potential emotional response and plan how to address her concerns. Explain your perspective and feelings calmly, emphasizing your desire to support those who appreciate your efforts.
5. *Seek support for yourself*: Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor about your feelings and experiences. They can offer valuable guidance and emotional support.

Remember, you deserve respect and appreciation from those you support. Prioritize your own emotional well-being and make decisions that align with your values and needs.

God bless you.

Matured system of thoughts, keep it up.