₦airaland Forum

Bedtec:
M ga arawa mpa gi ike... Ezi nwa akwuna

Tahhh enwe

Mugu forever .

Antoeni:
Please welcome Angel, 21years old to the #BBNaija

Welcome her your self ..

Monogamy:


Igboho and his lawyers are not smart.. If he is repatriated to Nigeria, Buhari can't do anything to him than to put him in prison while his court case go on, within 6 months he would be granted bail and life goes on.

Should he decides to remain in Benin, FG would only pressurize Benin republic to enact their law about the fake documents Igboho used to obtain Benin Republic passport.. No way he won't spend 5 years in Benin prison.

Common sense shouldn't only be common in this case, it should always be available..

Fake freedom fight...don't like prison

I no understand APC

Some human being will still vote APC

Bedtec:
Nkita tagbuo gi

aturu....
Smelling gay

Bedtec:
Anu ezi call your real dad Udene if Nne gi bu Udenne gi then that's cool

ikwiikwii
You are smelling...

fotadmowmend:
Just to enlighten us

Do we really need that ??

BlowYourMind:
Hope they listen, Ohanneze better speak sense into the head of the misguided people that have landed their leader into a cage like monkey

The animal that escape from the zoo...
Is now in the cage

Bedtec:
Akpa Amu onye ara

Udenné

The animal that escape from zoo is now in animal cage.

Animal will be talking to animal tomorrow..
With the language they both understand.

Mugu

Jerryherd:



PDP is dead and buried


.

What about APC ?

Bedtec:
Amen for you ... Ezi ara!!!! Nkita rawapu anya

Slave pig

fotadmowmend:
Legal people should help put more light on this. Is dis right?

If is wrong what will anybody do ?

Human being will still vote APC .


What a party and system of government

kollinzgee:
When an Igbo man sets out to get something by all means he will get it.
Freedom is sure.

What type of freedom are you talking about?

Bedtec:
my papa , mama, me and all , my generation and children's children join

Good news

Usu

Dickson178:
I go wait make your people die soon

Keep records

Now till the end of the year...
You will receive the news

Can't help anything..

That man his just a game
And the game is for fools

Bedtec:
Foolish ohanaeze ndi ara make thunder fire them

And kill you

mu2sa2:
WHITHER NIGERIA:

North - bandits everywhere.

South East - kidnappers, esn terrorists, armed robbers and killer cultists everywhere.

South West - robbers everywhere.

South South - domestic terrorists everywhere.

Ram
No terrorist and Kidnapping in the north ??

Go for Bandit ... Kidnappers

Dickson178:
to your people wey don die for Fulani herdsmen hands

RIP to who you no no ,

Wait your person go die soon

Dickson178:
I don tired to type "R.I.P" in dis platform . Since dis year started , everything is all about death . God have mercy on us ,and my brothers and sisters , please live a good life so da you'll die as legend . Right back , RIP brother . I wish you well

RIP to who ?

FalseProphet1:
A popular politician will die this year.

An aircraft will narrowly escape crashing.

There will be more reports of collapsed buildings in this remaining half of the year.

Killings will increase.

Buhari's health will get worse and the presidency will hide it from Nigerians.

Team Nigeria in the Olympics will perform badly.

This I have seen.

What will happen to APC !?

moscobabs:
Which day they do audition?

2.5m each .... no Audition

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

How old are you?

Ringing on top rigging..




Human being still go vote APC ?
Or na animal go vote APC.?

favor914:
People should die because of Kanu & Ohaneze that don’t know or care about you?

Supporters should have respect and regards

ignis:
Curse and Negative vibe will run in your generation.
No positive thing will come out of your lineage.

The land is waiting for your body...
You are curse

nairavsdollars:
Efulefu Ohanaeze, MNK doesn't need your support. Israel, UK and other world powers are fighting for him

The same UK he was insulting...
Same UK he said he doesn't need there support to get Biafra.

Now is carrying to UK for help

Hahahahahah people mumu till date oh
This is clear he doesn't have nobody behind him.. if is waiting for UK

ignis:
Let them tell that to the birds... Igbos no longer value or listen to the so called Ohaneze ndi igbo.
Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is more than all the gray haired old fools in igboland parading as Igwe and Ohaneze ndi igbo in South East. Shame to all of them.

With or without them, Victory is assured.

You will die Young.... No gray hair will come from your generation.

The land Bear me witness... Now and forever.

wellmax:
Mindless internet fiddler, go get a life.

Usu