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schumastic:
This story doesn't add up to me, like something is missing. Are you saying he has called of everything just like that because of what your dad said to him after all the energy and investment in the relationship.

Na wa o, this marriage of a thing they fear me o. Marriage never set yet, the thing don get leg. My dear whatever you don't come back o, cus it Will be hard to go back and don't you have relatives or friends around?

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

Yes, he said he is done with African mentality, that he doesn't want any influence. It was just that call. I don't have any relative or friend around.

ebujany:
Lmao...and you call him a fiancé? His a confused fellow. BTW, this your Africa no get name? I mean u just travelled to America last month according to you and your already calling your country Africa? You sef get problem

Sorry but I didn't want to mention any country because he has a Nairaland account.

Kooldon:
Your Dad Asking Him Those Things Is Wrong. It Makes U N Ur Dad Desparate To Marry Him And Get All The Comfort Attached To It. Your Dad Wld V Asked Or Advised You And You In Turn Table It To Him While In The Oza Room.
Pray And Ask God For Guidance, Cos Satan Is All About To Steal And Destroy

I understand, I even asked my Dad to stop calling him to ask about those things, that we are okay. May God help me through it.

ebujany:
Your fiancé you say? How can your fiancé get angry because your dad asked him relevant questions as per a guy that wants to wed his daughter?

Anyways , I hope you get the help you seek

Yes, he got angry. He says since he has stayed in America his mentality has changed and he wants no influence from Africa

Hi everyone.

First i created this account to hide my identity, kindly assist.

I traveled to the united states a month ago on a K1 visa. My visa expires in March.
My fiance and I had an issue and he has instructed me to go back to Africa. He is planning to buy a ticket for Wednesday. The issue was, my father called him asking on the progress we have made, if i got my papers and if he is helping me adjust to find something to do, and he got angry. He got mad and said he is a last born and doesn't like people putting pressure on him. I understand his pain of family trying to interfere but I did not expect he would take it this far. I did not imagine he would just call the relationship off like that. All the emotions invested and love.
I am really getting used to this environment and i would love to continue staying and working here. I can start with any job. However, I dont know anywhere here who can help me. Another thing, my chances of getting the visa to come back to America will be so slim. I cannot imagine going back home. Anyone who has an idea of what I can do or where to go? Redcross, refuge camp or what? I am in lowell, Masschusetts