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Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

She play her part well and you have to do what is right or you will be guilty all your life

Simple go back play Mr nice guy till she give birth and you did DNA
Before then you be mai guard
If you no you no

muyico:
She no dress like devoted Muslim,cover head till toes

Go and do it for her now
Devoted Muslim as you

Evill everywhere

See news

Jostoman:
Person wey supposed dey for kuje prison self dey talk.

For saying the truth or why is he supposed to be in kuje

W

You go get this one but supposed na poor people


Just save face release kanu

Ask Mandela after many years

calabaman:
No guts, no glory.

Nice line and kudos to a brave general.

thinking na old man but na under fifty


This a misleading heading

And as if this not ok
Said jump as if na just jump no parachute

Ok
Let him tell Dangote to make cement 1k
Petrol 150 naira then will believe you

Them most pay

BloomingDale:
Very good. After 12years you get your first leaving school certificate. No longer I go school, but na primary school certificate you get. Who 6years epp?

Jo lasisi
The great agege boxer

TruthU87:
And he shouted "get out of Europe" as he shot immigrants. It's an open shut case, white supremacy and zionism is one of the deadliest issues the world faces.

White supremacists are already celebrating him.

if is from our region now the headline will be different

They only want to smear our name and religion
In the eyes of the good people from some part

What

9jvirgin:
Why not create additional 50 states? Perhaps make Bourdillon a state so that you can get more money from Tinubu. These APC guys are the most demonic and evil humans living anywhere in the world. How much can you steal?

Why are these satanic people worried about new states when the existing ones are in perpetual squalor, pain and agony? It shall not be well with the Biden government for seeing evil and foisting it in us, they knew these guys will destroy Nigeria yet they supported them with mights and power.

this will allow for development and more creation of wealth for elected senator and rep
Also more wéré to throw chairs when sharing no favor some

See wahala

Roping

No fear

MightySparrow:
Omoluabis on top..

It's in us

saraki own na fake ?

Y

steeltrust:
Since moving to America in 2023, I've been impressed by the country's infrastructure, including steady electricity, good roads, clean water, and gas etc. However, I've also noticed some flaws, such as gun violence and mental health issues.

One thing that struck me is that many Americans seem to have forgotten their history and culture especially the black folks. Additionally, there's a tendency to complain excessively about every issues.

Despite these issues, I've been impressed by the job market. Many companies, such as Amazon, UPS, Walmart, McDonald's, and Costco etc , offer well-paying jobs with benefits, even for those without certifications or experience. These jobs often come with benefits like medical insurance, life insurance, and retirement plans.

In contrast, I've noticed that many Nigerian companies, such as Dangote Industries, Jumia, Chicken Republic and other big companies, don't seem to offer the same level of employment opportunities or benefits. Which are in same category as the companies mentioned above in America. Many workers in Nigeria earn low wages and are mistreated by management, even when these companies earn billions of naira annually.

It's time for us to ask important questions and seek solutions. We need to move beyond tribalism and religion and focus on creating a more equitable society.

*Solutions:*
1. *Increased employment opportunities*: Nigerian companies should strive to create more jobs and offer better benefits.
2. *Vocational training*: Companies can provide training programs to help employees develop new skills.
3. *Improved working conditions*: Employers must treat their workers with dignity and respect, providing safe and healthy working conditions.
4. *Government support*: The government should implement policies to support workers and hold companies accountable for their treatment of employees.

Let's work together to create a better future for Nigeria. What your take

If all you said is done
Don't you think it will be hard to rule us
The more you make them poor the better to rule them
That's the law
Brian dead leaders

Arrest him and secretly give him pills

princeade86:
Saraki for President

And you as the voter's

EmperorCaesar:
This is no joke

The SE has many security outfits namely:
ESN
IPOB
Ebubeagu
Wetin be the name of that fourth one sef

These guys are enough to handle the excesses of killer herdsmen in the region

See how men are using people life to achieve there selfish ambition of state Police and other bad agenda

May God protect us from this bad leaders we have call government

Sirmwill:
Most of them have taken many bad decisions to get here 🙂

You want to impress dog with his poo

Aske and rema loja no get head
Don't use white man outfit

BItt:
Note that they said Nigerian woman... They didn't mention tribe.
Use senses

that name abayomi stay with Yoruba now


Just respect and accept it

Acekidc4:
Our Own Baby girl Tems making Nigeria Proud. Kudos to her, Kudos to Nigeria 🎉🎉

But y her own trophy come black
Abi because e get African in it ni

PP123:

you carry bag marriage crash
If you carry pikin na die

Acekidc4:
🤔 The middle one is the Female.

I think am but na guess

Neddstark:
Wicked woman. Most likely tried to kill the young man knowing he is an orphan to see how she can inherit the property. No motive is excluded.

ha you done summarize am sharp sharp

O my God

Banie:
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