Let them continue, our eyes don clear

So unfortunate

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Minemrys:

it's easier to find the faults in others for we are saints in every way.

Nothing about being a saint... You should know when to run and when to quit.

Hatred is such a slow poison

Martinez39:


Due to the fact that fathers instill harsh discipline and are usually away working to feed the family, children are usually close to their mothers. Mothers usually spoil and pamper their children hence another reason children are close to their mothers. One advantage of this is that the mothers have a huge influence on the minds of the children. During parental dispute and irrespective of whether the wife is at fault or not, women are usually fond of brainwashing and poisoning the minds of their children against their fathers. Even if there is no dispute, some women still control the minds of their kids in order to get the upper hand in the childish game of power they started and are playing in the home.

Most men usually settle matters amicably and are willing to own their mistakes but women, whether or not they are wrong, will always want to "win" the dispute and would go any length to achieve such. Brainwashing and poisoning the minds of the kids against the father is one of the ways of achieving such. In such brainwashing, the children see the father as the bad person while the mum is the angel. Some children later grow up to see that it was the other way around while some never grow out of the brainwashing for many years. As the woman is brainwashing the kids, she keeps the kids distant from the father so that she can successfully fuel the narrative that father is a bad and was never there. She wouldn't even let the father visit instead she always give one excuse or the other or even avoid the father. The woman would even make sure that the contacts of the children are not available to the father. The woman might even put the children in a situation whereby either they are for her or for the father. You can't blame the children for falling for the lies because the mother has appeared so nice and caring to them.

Some mothers would be communicating to the fathers behind the children's back looking for up keeps yet they won't tell the children. They will exploit the kind hearted nature of the father to get money from him by making up stories that children are sick blah blah blah. They will then make it out to be that they are the ones making the money while the father doesn't care. Sometimes when the father wants to see his children, they will charge the fathers money in one form or the other. If they fulfill their promise of let the kids see the children, which many don't, the visit would be short. Afterall, she still let the father see his children, right? She might even post the visit with the pics on her social media so that everyone can see that "she let the kids visit and spend quality time with their papa".

If you are the child of a deadbeat dad who thinks father is evil and mom is good, you have to start asking questions. Here are some of the questions you should ask :
1) Do I believe my father is horrible because I really know him or it's what my mother told me? Have I heard both sides of the story?
2) Does my mother allow free and open access for me to communicate and build a relationship with my father? Is she always monitoring my conversations with my father and asking what we discussed?
3) Has my father been providing money but my mum doesn't tell me?
4) Does my father have my contact number or did my mum make it that my father can only communicate with me through her phone so that she can monitor and regulate the conversation? She could do so to fuel the narrative that mum is good and dad is bad.
5) Nairalanders can make their suggestions.

By asking these questions and making analysis, you would figure out if mum has skeletons in her cupboard or not. It's also possible that your dad could be the one at fault. Check things for yourself. There are good and bad fathers and there are good and bad mothers. Women who do these things are wicked and can't be said to really care about the children. Why are such women reducing their children to properties/pawn to help them get the upper hand in a parental dispute or childish game of power dynamics for their own selfish reasons? Why make their children live a lie that could stay with them forever for their own selfish reasons? This is immoral. Why deprive their children of fatherly love for their own selfish reasons? Why can't they leave their children out of their dispute with their father? Why can't these women have the maturity to admit to their wrongs? Some women even publicly smear the father's reputation with lies to fuel the narrative that mum is good, dad is bad. The worse is when some of the crazies among them murder or maltreat their children to get back at the father.

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Sorry Op, lemme make this clear to you. I understand that you are looking for an honest answer to your observation.

Women are special being and they are protector, giver, lover and home keeper.

Men that are called Dad/Father are men that stay in their marriage and see their children grow,Men that don’t leave their responsibilities to others, those are real Father.

Men that impregnated a lady and she conceived are nothing but a SPERM DONOR
That’s why the women don’t want anything between the sperm donor and their children. Well, a responsible sperm donor can pay for up keeps.
You might be seeing this man as your father but it’s far from what a real father actually is...
If most of these women are capable of taking care of their children then you will see that they will cut all ties with such men.

*Don’t start a family if you can keep one
*Don’t lead a woman on if you are not truly with her
*Don’t impregnate anyone and later abandon them
*Define your relation with your girlfriend from the onset.

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How did this beautiful lady ended up with a man with so much hatred and disdain for others?

it reminds me of a man that took his whole life to look for the person that scammed him, he left his family, job and everything just to find the scammer, he traveled round the world with the little money he had left...well, after many years he actually nailed the scammer and got paid back but guess what he realized that money can't last up to six month but alas he has lost so many years wondering looking for the one he hated most .

Blackface his really black inside out.

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oooh Why? what has dis little one done again? why so much bitterness why why why?
oh, if you are not worthy to be called a father or mother , if you are not ready to take responsibility of children please don't give birth.

Having children is not some kind of trophy..its a long time commitment and responsibility.


Don't pour your anger on your children,,they innocent and don't really know how things work in this world
give them chance to grow for Christ sake.


Mothers don't allow anybody to beat or punish your children the way you will never do.

oh what a tragedy

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Day 2

Your second day should focus on improving the health of your skin by controlling what you consume. Your skin can only work with what it has in terms of nutrition. While external care is crucial, internal care cannot be neglected. Eating right is a sure shot way to get skin that glows with health.
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Day 5

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Day 7
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BENEFITS OF POST PARTUM BODYWRAP
-> The Post-Partum recovers your body shape and smoothens the appearance of the lower abdomen
-> after childbirth
-> The Post-Partum Body Wrap can be worn with Caesarean Section (CS) delivery after 7 days
-> It offers double support in the abdominal area by encouraging the internal organs to reposition
-> themselves into their proper location after childbirth
-> It compresses the uterus thereby encourage easier expulsion of clots and water in the body.
-> It helps prevent hemorrhages and provides proper support so you can be fully mobile in caring for
-> your baby
-> It reduces the appearance of “love handles” in your stomach.
-> The Post-Partum helps relieve abdominal and back pain, in lifting and compressing the stomach
-> It helps to reduce the strain involved in lifting and carrying the baby.
-> Provides back support when breastfeeding, as most mothers don’t know they are slouching
-> It firms up the loosed / elasticated abdomen
-> It has provision for use of convenience and removal of disposables pant linings during the period of
-> discharge
-> No bone, no hook, no rod, nor fish lining. comfortable to wear 24/7
-> # May also be used by those with voluminous abdomens to obtain a smoother appearance.

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