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[quote author=post.email]Ah, I scatter laugh! Mama make her husband and pikin both 1st parties, equal love. Thats why she dey give pikin the best, make he for be somebody.

For you, mama na 4th party? No try am o! If you want make peace reign for your married life. By the way,So you this apostolic babe dey belittle baba God by making baba 3rd party? You no read for bible " love God first"[/quote]see person wey read bible and u don't know the position of the woman in d family. Ok yes GOD'S LOVE FIRST, no doubt whereever you place God. He is either 1st above you, 2nd middle inbetween you or 3rd behind your marriage. if I may ask you when the bible say three stands are better than two, who are these two? who is the 3rd stand the bible is referring to? Who are these three stands in a marriage? can u be honest and mention them?

babyface333: No i am not trying to derail the topic. I am giving him reasons why he shouldnt just throw his mum out of his home because of a woman. By the way what women like you say when you start to derail in your marital homes now is: Are we not in the 21st century? That is today's marriage for you, so much divrce everwere cos of 21st century bullshit.But his mother will never say that, she will always be there for him in thick and thin. THANK YOU MADAM

if you marry your right partner that word divorce will not even come to ur thoughts talk of mentioning it to ur wife. I dislike divorce and will never think of the process. am not getting into any bulshit of a marriage in the first place. Yes dis is 21st century and we ain't getting into marriage with blind love. THANK YOU AS WELL.

[quote author=post.email]So mana wey bring the guy up don become 3rd party in his life just because of woman. Mama make her pikin 1st party, give am everything to be somebody. Now him don be oga...grow prick, come sabi one babe. So mama go be 3rd party because of this BABE!![/quote]wetin u dey yan self? If mama make her pickin 1st party, wetin she go make her husband?
make I tell you, for marriage after man and woman na God sef be the 3rdparty if u don't know, then followed by the both parents we raise the man and the woman.

me I dey sorry say e happen like that. anything wey go carry u go sick bed again I de send am 6fts underground.

asks him how he mean

[quote author=post.email]Guy, why you dey talk like small pikin? Wetin make mama dey vex? She take the whole chicken cook only stew when mama ask her to use half cook soup and half for stew? If that na de wahala, simply comot some chicken from the stew pot, wash am, then make she use am cook soup. Issue resolved! Everybody happy![/quote]and I was taking you serious

babyface333: My dear young ladies of now run away when things are hard for their husbands. What do you think is the cause of the high rate of divorce now. No thanks to social network, it damages home, i have even seen married women fall in love here on nairaland and they have husband at home. They go on social network meet men more intelligent and well to-do than their husband, they begin to flirt and get involved in all sort of extra-marital affairs. I would have posted here some post of flirting marrid women on nairaland but i wont do that, they all have their lives to live. What they do now is they flirt on nairaland, change contacts with their new lovers and modify their post. So the op's woman can disappoint him at anytime but the mother will never, by the way what women of now say to justify their actions is that this is the 21st century or they ask their husband why are you feeling insecured?

Abeg op dont chase your mum away now that things are rosy for you cos of your woman, she can leave at anytime but your mum will always be by your side.

show me 5married women who cheats on their husbands and i'll show you 50 married men where cheats on their wives. Don't even divert the topic, the op did not say his wife is a cheat.

[quote author=post.email]My sista, I no talk say some babes no dey try. Correct babes dem dey wella. But my wahala na the babes wey tell guy man make he send him mama go village becos she feel say mama dey spoil her runs. Na that kind yan dey vex me.[/quote]op tell you say his wife dey play runs for em house? abi na you won find allegations put ontop her head? Ayo tell me which one wey God join the man together with, the wife or the mother? See u no love ur mother pass de way I love my mum, but I nogo allow her leave with me and my husband. Only visits or short stay when the need be. and she nogo try come inbetween me and my husband becos she marry her own during her time.
no body have the right to interfere in couples matter unless they are called upon. In dis case the man and his wife are not having any issue why the hostilities? Anyway, the way you want you family to be so shall it be

[quote author=Da_b¤§§.]Ɣøû is getting very fat. Lala. Dumping you sooner.
₪Õ worrying, me is dey[/quote]what are say? Does lala gives me icecream or fairygey? My husband is not complain about my size.

[quote author=post.email]Abeg, make we hear word. If hand fall the guy, him mama go stay, una go stay? When food done na him una dey like chop.[/quote]So all these married women working so hard everyday are doing so becos they don't want to help their husbands when cheeks fall. SMH

sorry ope Dats how much we needs him
except u want to join him

sure, will do that .

*tells junior and Amanda uncle icidosis sent regards*
and here's their replies: #uncle we rove u too#

Hugs

[quote author=post.email]Guys, una notice how these babes on NL dey advise the guy against staying with his mama. What's with spouses and mother in-laws?
Mama get 70% of him pikin heart. Them give una(wife) 30%. After marriage una wan obtain the guy whole (100%), that na problem na. How mama go sitdown, the small girl wey them marry yesterday, go come dey do chairlady ontop her investment... Na war na![/quote]would you just grow up! Why marry in the first place? don't you think you mum can make a good wife for you? Rubbish! I pity the woman that will marry you if truly this is how u reason. What kind of a woman would be singing 'satan don fall for ground o match am match am' even if the daughter inlaw have erred? Is that how to correct an erring person?

gists with him

[quote author=all-out]Hours into the new year and you lying already?

@ topic: Hug![/quote]where did I lie?


new yr punch

*in beyonces voice*
If you liked it should have put a ring on it

yes with two lovely kids
Junior and Amanda


Hugs

jide u r have come to stay no going back
you have what we want

that your mother trained you from primary to university doesn't mean she should ruin your peaceful marriage. all you need do is take care of her needs, make sure she is comfortable outside ur roof. She is not your wife and so should give you a space to really enjoy your marriage. I dislike homebreakers be it mother, sister, brother or father inlaw, especially when the couples have no issue themselves.
If your wife leaves your home so what next? She stays with you and make you happy?
Abeg be a man and tell your mum you r married to your wife not her.

I have a husband


Peck

Happy 2013

u r welcome lala

she's playing game
she's not being honest about herself.
may be she is not certain or contented with the first guy who did introduction.
She told you earlier that they have done introduction that you could go with her sister .
How come the same girl who suggested you go for her younger sister is now saying she's not engage and anything can still happen?
Anyway, u can hang on if you want to be someones second choice.

hope u realize am not felis

Peck

whoever is taking the op serious

I think this should be the new trend.
Commend the poster
before you read especially when it's long epistles, then come back wit comments

poster what exactly do you want us to do concerning dis?

u people cannot spoiling me

what should I do to you any day I catch u kiss, hug, peck, smooth or S3x?

@topic handshake

In summary, killz said love is sweet
For those of you who could not read .

And dat you can find love here just like him

a new day hug

him