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PoliticsRe: Governors Get ₦4.5tn LG Funds One Year After Supreme Court Ruling by Bfly: 9:27am On Jul 11, 2025
Obviously; 9ja is not for the people who desire right process. When you push harder, they term you weak and push you off
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Think Senators Make Money, But We Struggle After Office - Akpabio by Bfly:
Why you always die to die in the government because you failed to build a sustainable system you cannot fall back to without the national cake.
PoliticsRe: ₦4 Trillion Subsidy Savings Channeled To Infrastructure – Tinubu by Bfly: 12:58pm On Jul 08, 2025
Tinubu is still a future in its most reasonable way
PoliticsRe: NMA Rejects FG’s Decision To Deploy Doctors To Saint Lucia by Bfly: 3:22am On Jul 04, 2025
As far as the elites don’t depend on these professionals in their home country and seek them from other countries; they don’t care.
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu Mourns The Passing Of Aminu Dantata by Bfly: 2:07pm On Jun 28, 2025
The old name that represents a generational wealth; only if people don’t die.
Dantata…Dangote…>>>>>>Bankole…
CareerRe: Loyalty Vs Incompetence; Competence Vs Disloyalty: Who Would You Fire? by Bfly: 9:00am On Jun 24, 2025
lol, Loyalty with incompetence is what is killing Nigeria today, Be wise. Even, if you are the Boss, it is still very difficult to deal with it yourself.

But if you are really the Boss, it is easy to deal on disloyalty with competence yourself as it in case of Tinubu and Ambode and Wike and Fubara.

The whole dealing of a thing depends on the Boss himself; yet disloyalty with competence is far dangerous and easy to manage but loyalty with incompetence is wasteful and difficult to manage.

So, as a kind of Boss I see myself I will always choose competence with disloyalty
Foreign AffairsRe: Israel Spending $285 Million A Night On Missile Defense In Iran War (pics) by Bfly: 1:44pm On Jun 19, 2025
It is More of Keep them alive but poor
Stay alive and hungered
Christianity EtcRe: Paul Enenche Rejects ₦30 Million From Kebbi Governor Idris (Video) by Bfly: 1:36pm On Jun 19, 2025
Rejecting the money is not so wise to me but more of phobia of public opinion. he could as well take the money, even add to it and do something sustainable to the people the community rightly making the announcement there. That was how missionaries brought education and health to Nigeria. If the politicians don’t know what to do with money the righteous one can teach them. Yes, this is Nigeria but it will be between him and God.
PoliticsRe: Oju Local Government Plunges Into Darkness After Transformer Explodes In Benue by Bfly: 11:11pm On Jun 10, 2025
gboyetade:
grin grin my senatorial district has no light for more than 12 years
Those kain thing fit dey happen for southwest Sha, especially Ekiti
CelebritiesRe: Cynthia Morgan: Before And Now Picture. by Bfly: 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2025
While she grows older, she looks better, healthier and even more original and responsible.
This is a positive transformation .
PoliticsRe: Defections: Hurricane Tinubu Sweeps 12 More Senators, Reps by Bfly: 2:12pm On Jun 10, 2025
The more the push back the more the alignment?
What an Irony in reality.
FamilyRe: Mothers Dressing Like Their Daughters Challenge Gone Wrong by Bfly: 2:00pm On Jun 10, 2025
Mama sef for don cashout from that content.

Btw
Why the government won’t bother about this kind of shameful trend going viral among the youth is brcause the money and the fun distract them from holding the government accountable.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Fit, Very Alert, Far Smarter Than Atiku, Obi - Segun Sowunmi by Bfly: 1:51pm On Jun 10, 2025
What Atiku failed to understand is that, he can’t spearhead a coalition and still wants to be the flag bearer unless he want to freely give Tinubu a second term.

Same thing Tinubu understood
Foreign AffairsRe: Susan Kihika: I Gave Birth In US So Junior Medics Won't See My unclothedness by Bfly: 1:36pm On Jun 10, 2025
Bfly:
What an hypocritical summation is this?
or is Madam president trying to tell the people, that only her husband is seeing it?
Imagine A president directing affair of a whole country with her Emotion. Women can just get along.
Zero Logic
Foreign AffairsRe: Susan Kihika: I Gave Birth In US So Junior Medics Won't See My unclothedness by Bfly: 1:17pm On Jun 10, 2025
What an hypocritical summation is this?
or is Madam president trying to tell the people, that only her husband is seeing it?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Which Type Of News Can Bring This Type Of Excitement In Nigeria? by Bfly: 8:01pm On Jun 09, 2025
When $1 equals #1
HealthRe: Which Addiction Is Most Difficult To Quit? by Bfly: 10:03am On May 29, 2025
Put Alcohol in that thing. Such an addictive something
FamilyRe: Mistakes Men Make In Marriage (MMM) by Bfly: 6:16pm On May 28, 2025
Rubyjade:
Real Masculinity Builds, It Doesn’t Dominate.
Marriage isn’t a battle of power or survival. It’s a partnership. And while men do make mistakes in marriage — the real errors are often rooted in outdated thinking, pride, or fear. Let’s unpack this:

1. “A woman must love, a man must provide.”
False binary. Love and provision go both ways in a modern marriage. A woman can contribute. A man should show affection. Reducing relationships to transactions is why a lot of marriages feel like business contracts instead of emotional homes.

A man who only provides but doesn’t emotionally connect becomes a stranger in his own house.

And no — it’s not her job to chase you after marriage. If you stop pursuing your wife emotionally, someone else eventually might.

2. “You must always look like a god.”
Yes, personal hygiene and appearance matter — for both partners. But a healthy marriage allows space for comfort and vulnerability.
Looking good shouldn't be about fear of being left; it should be about self-respect and mutual attraction. If she’s only with you because of your beard oil and boxers, the problem is deeper than your look.

3. “You are the lord. Let her have a say, but have your way.”
Bro. That’s not strength — that’s domination disguised as leadership.

Real leadership listens.

Real men build with their wives, not over them.
Being decisive is good — being dismissive isn’t.

4. “She’s not a mind-reader.”
True. Communication matters. But it’s not just telling her what you want.
Try asking her what she needs, too. Love isn’t just about managing expectations — it’s about understanding and growing together.

5. “Women love conflict.”
No. They love connection. What looks like “random conflict” is often unmet needs or emotional disconnection.

Avoidance kills intimacy.

Mature couples face tough conversations together.
If you treat conflict as drama instead of dialogue, you’re missing the deeper issue.

6. “Prepare for the rainy day; never let your wife be the breadwinner.”
Prepare? YES.
Fear her success? NO.
If your masculinity collapses when your wife earns more, the issue is insecurity, not identity.

Strong men celebrate their partner’s wins.

Marriage is not a competition — it’s coverage. Some seasons you’ll earn more. Other seasons, she might. That’s life.

7. “She’s not your best friend.”
Why not?
If you can’t laugh, vent, dream, or be your full self with your wife — who are you even married to?
Friendship is the foundation of lasting love. You don’t lose your masculinity by being emotionally close — you lose it by being emotionally unavailable.

✨ FINAL WORD:
Real men lead, but they don’t lord.
They provide, but they also protect emotionally.
They pursue wisdom, not ego.
And they build with their wives, not just expect to be served by them.

We need less alpha performance, and more emotional maturity in marriages today.
You don’t lose your role by listening — you strengthen it.
It is exhausting leading a woman; women subconsciously and intentionally made themselves difficult to be led.

You can’t probably protect an emotional warrior; it is her survival mode.
PhonesRe: If You Didn't Use Any Of The Phones With These Batteries Then You Be Gen Z by Bfly: 11:45am On May 26, 2025
The “Gen Z” cliche is getting tiresome
Even someone who does not know the significance of this generation things will start chochochoing
PoliticsRe: Tinubu At Two: Where Are The Jobs? by Bfly: 12:29pm On May 25, 2025
Tinubu is still a failure as of this period.

Grateful; Nigeria is bigger.
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 2:09pm On May 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
He never experience death but he is not alive which means he is awaiting resurrection.
God's word said all have sinned which means none of us can continue living until God's Kingdom comes.
Not experiencing death doesn't mean he is alive because he is not in heaven.
Death occur in the body which Enoch didn’t experience but translated to afterlife.

For more understanding

Even here; In vitro fertilization can happen without sex yet a baby is formed.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu's Armed Forest Guards Initiative — A Move Yahaya Bello Championed In 2017 by Bfly: 5:58pm On May 15, 2025
Should that then make him the next president or should that clear him of his misappropriation ?

Nonsense people
PoliticsRe: Senators Now Pocket At Least N2billion, Reps N1billion In ‘constituency Projects by Bfly: 5:31pm On May 15, 2025
Animal farm
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 4:13pm On May 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
He was taken away before his time to die so like everyone else Enoch is awaiting resurrection as one of those in God's memory book:


The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to what they had done. ‭Revelation 20:13 NIV‬




Dead in the sea means people who died in the sea.
Death means people who are no more.
Hades means people in their graves.


Enoch is in his grave (Hades) awaiting resurrection.
In what form did Enoch experience death?

Read Gen. 5
Which emphasized many others died at a point but with Enoch it was different thing as at 365 years, God took him
Also read Heb. 11 where it was emphasized that he didn’t not see death for he was translated by God different from others in the same passage.
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 2:06pm On May 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
It means he never grew old or killed by sickness rather God shortened his lifespan so that he didn't experience pain from evildoers around him.
How did God shorten his life?
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 1:18pm On May 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
By faith Eʹnoch was transferred so as not to see death, and he was nowhere to be found because God had transferred him; for before he was transferred he received the witness that he had pleased God well.

Enoch did not see death doesn't mean he is not dead. Many have come face to face with death but survived.
Do you understand now?
What does the bolded statement above mean then?
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 1:10pm On May 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Nowhere did the Bible promised that David is going to heaven!
The Righteous (in which David is one) have their place in Heaven
Check Hebrew 11:16
2Tim: 4:18
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 10:32am On May 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Sorry God's word said "a letter", Jesus said no man has been to heaven before his coming and according to God's word all humans (including Elijah) must die.

So Elijah was taken to another location on planet earth not heaven! smiley
Check Hebrew 11:5
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 10:23am On May 15, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Can you back the highlighted with Bible quotations?

Because this is God's promise that David himself penned down with his own hands:

The righteous (David inclusive) will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it. Psalms 37:29
They will live forever. yes, even you too; if you are as righteous. Yet wait till then.
The day is coming when that shall be; The Judgement day.
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Genuine Born Again Christian Not Know The Date He Or She Got Born Again? by Bfly: 10:03am On May 15, 2025
Truthseeker10:
Did they go to heaven? Simple question.
David has his place in heaven.
So also is Enoch.

Yet, they don’t live there for now.
EducationRe: Benue State University Renamed Reverend Father Moses Orshio Adasu University by Bfly: 8:00am On May 15, 2025
Here you know; Nigeria politics is of selfish interest. Not beneficial development.

Now A present Rev. Gov named a university after a past Rev. Gov.

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