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I have been dating my boyfriend for four years now, and some months back i missed my period, i was so devastated and didn't know what to do so i told him and he laughed about it saying that junior was on the way. well, i thought he had accepted responsibility for it until he called me one day asking me to see him when i got to his place he gave me some drugs to use and stupid me i complied, after about a week and still no period took me to an hospital were i was confirmed weeks pregnant. the next question he asked the nurse was how we could get rid of it and how safe it was going to be, she said it was safe(d&c) but we had to see a doctor first and we did he advised us to keep it but if we still wanted to go ahead it was OK. When we left i was so confused, i was so scared and didn't know what to do. two days later he calls me and said i should make up my mind, it was so obvious that he did not want to have it and well me i didn't want him thinking that i was trying to trap him agreed to get rid of it and so we did. Anyway the bottom line is that a week after the whole thing he starts avoiding me like a plague, when i try to call him he says he's driving or when i try going over to his place he gives excuses like he is not home or he is out of town. well you can imagine what happend next, he told me that it was over and that we couldn't continue with the relationship. know the big question if you were in my shoes what would you do, keep hanging on hoping that someday everything would be alright or forget about him?