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Everyday na tips no one dey work

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PreacherX:
Couldn't read.... learn how to use paragraph!

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Dating advice in deed this guy cool I think
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Over time in relationship we find out that our partners are not
happy with us, feeling like something is still missing or we
wanted to do more. Even if you want to find our way into the
heart of the one you love there are three keys you need to have
to open the door of the heart.
Expression - : it is very important for you to know this how does
the person in question relate to others. Maybe the colleague at
work, friends in the neighborhood or in a gathering. Because
the way they relate to others they will also want people to do
the same to then. Notice the way they talk do their things will
give you some tips to what opens their heart.
Recommended Recommend dating tips that works
Complains - :listen to what they also complain about as what
hitting them up underneath. Maybe someone to cut the garden
or talk to. Or passing through some crisis. Who knows that
might be the thing that make them notice you even more as a
sensitive, caring and concern fellow.
Request - : also bear in mind as to notice what they are
requesting for from people. Maybe they need a gift from travel
or trouble with a particular office work school project or
assistance in doing assignment.
Recommend 5 mistakes people make in dating
With that you be able to know some of Their basic and crucial
needs. That what you all combine the three to open the door to
their heart and trust me it works
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Perfect picture:- what some ladies are looking out for first is the perfect picture of the
person they are chatting with so also the guys. Not knowing that you can't actually get
to know person with their external look am not saying a good dresser are bad just
wanted you to know that it a bad impression.

Too much attention on text - :at times we like people who are good with their text.
Although text message have being a good part of relationship but talking is still the
best. He might not be good in texting or fast reply but he might be better in aspects of
good conversation. Because that what bores some people out.

Impatient :- many of us are actually guilty of this maybe when the convo is not going
smoothly or things are not going according to plan we panic. Maybe that not your guy
but because of impatience you continue chatting with him ended up latter heart broken
and then start to paint online dating bad come on you brought it upon your self


Over analysis - : this is actually rapid about female folks they tend to over emphasis
things. They take issue to soon so fast. You just meeting stop thinking about the next
two months. Enjoying the moment

You want things to be magical :- this not Titanic or American love story. Things can't
just fall into place at once. Little by little does it. Possible you might be online for
months without getting your first date or hang out it happens. Just lower your
expectations a little bit.

Rejection - : common among male folks when a lady started giving them funny
reactions they already heart broken, feelings use or rejected that because you cost it all
by your self the expectations was very high keep things low remember there are also
guys who she did not even reply their chats

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There are many ladies like that online who always wanted to play smart. Be your self if
he wants you them it your luck. They end up messing things up for themselves.
Never do more than your self. If a guy loves you will surely appreciate all of you that the
meaning of love.
You don’t have to go extra mile to have him else you have to keep doing more to keep
him. Let him know your weakness he will appreciate you better


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TIPS TO PREVENT INFIDELITY IN DATING AFFECTING
RELATIONSHIP
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Many relationship have hit the rock all because couples gives
room for infidelity and the funny aspect is that they never see it
coming. But gradually dive into it.
To really vaccinate your relationship against affairs, Glass
recommends the following
guidelines. While some might find them too restrictive
7 Tips for Preventing Infidelity
1. Maintain appropriate walls and windows. Keep the windows
opened at home.
Put up privacy walls with those who could threaten your
marriage.
2. Recognize that work can be a danger zone. Don’t lunch or
take private coffee
breaks with the same person all the time. When you travel with
a coworker,
meet in public rooms, not a room with a bed.
3. Avoid emotional intimacy with attractive alternatives to your
committed
relationship. Resist the desire to rescue an unhappy soul who
pours his or her
heart out to you.
4. Protect your marriage by discussing relationship issues at
home. If you do
need to talk to someone else about your marriage, be sure that
person is a
friend of your marriage. If the friend disparages marriage,
respond with
something positive about your own relationship.
5. Keep old flames from reignitin g. If a former lover is coming to
a class reunion,
invite your partner to come along. If you value your marriage,
think twice about
having lunch alone with an old flame. (This may be unrealistic
in the lesbian
community, as exes are so often part of one’s community and
even friendship
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It no longer a new thing among Nigeria superstars to do
collaboration with foreign artist With the latest comming from
dbanj.. It appears that the superstar Jay Sean davido want to
drop another massive hit. As jay Sean took to his Twitter page
to share this news and davido himself affirmed it. From the
looks of thing OBO might not be in Nigeria. Fans watch out
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VERBAL ABUSE HARMFUL TO HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
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I think overtime it as if people don't give attention to verbal
abuse. Many believe that since beating or violence is not
involved but let me tell you that verbal abuse is harmful even if
not worse than physical abuse. It what the victim remembers
over time. In most cases of verbal abuse maybe when they are
dating such things did or don’t normal happens few out of
hundreds. But immediately they say I do problem starts.
. This makes us to understand that is not something that they
cannot control, it not a weakness it something done intentionally
and not uncontrollable.
People that do engage in such acts do it so as to put their
partners under subjection or subduement so as to prevent any
form of counter force on the part of the abused. They tend to
crush their spirits rendering them less of human begin with
statements like "I was happy until you came into my life."
They want to be in control all the time calling the shots without
any form of suggestions from their partners but not like before
when they started dating. They also sounds too possessive and
do not appreciate anything the partner does.
ADVICE MAKE SURE YOU SEEK FOR HELP IF SUCH THINGS IS
HAPPENING TO YOU.
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Issue on human violation rape is becoming hyper by the day.
The cases of rape treated this year mush more than last or year
before.
Like you know that on our blog we deal with relationship family
lifestyle among others and something about this case is that the
it like a poison the victim carries almost for life expect they go
for me which many might decide to keep to themselves.
Now when you go into a relationship with those people maybe
friendship bases or romantically problem decided to appear.
You need to know the signs of rape victims.
Anger issue - people that have passed through such traumatic
experience tends to be hostile to people and general environs
because the guilt and hurt still there especially when it about
intimacy. People like that hate touch maybe hug pat shoulder
rub or sort
Trust issues - : any form they do not trust anybody for anything
because their personal space has been violated already the fear
phobia is still very present. When they think or have a flash of
the ugly event they angry violent and scared.
Phobias
A common psychological defense that is seen in rape survivors
is the development of
fears and phobias specific to the circumstances of the rape, for
example:
A fear of being in crowds. - that reason why a grown up lady
will decided not to stay where too much crowd are it feels like
all the attention are on then which makes them feel
uncomfortable
A fear of being left alone anywhere. - they feel unsecured
unprotected they can't stay alone thinking not safe for them.
People like that likes to have flat mates or roommate
A fear of men or women. (androphobia or gynophobia) they fear
when people are trying to come closer to their life afraid so that
such case might not repeat itself
A fear of going out at all, agoraphobia .-they prefer staying in
door believe that their safe haven and also takes extra security
measures
A fear of being touched, hapnophobia .- like I said earlier they
feel other people touch irritating and dangerous to their spirit
begin, to them it shows breaking of boundary.
Past - they don't let talking about their past because they known
that one way or the other the issue Will raise up again which
they don't want to remember that ugly moment that brings rush
of sadness ever again so they shut the door, keep the secret in
the darkest part of their heart.
Solution - if your partner is a rape victim there is an urgent need
to open up. And if you know you can't help wait because the
process takes time better end the relationship but good to stay
to help such person quickens the recovery rate.
NOTE :-
ADVICE FOR ANY RAPE VICTIMS IS TO GO FOR PROPER
COUNSELING
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EASY WAYS TO GET OUT OF FRUSTRATION HELPING OUR
RELATIONSHIP LIFE
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Frustration. It winds you up and can take so much out of you.
Because it not only sucks energy but also distracts you and can
steal quite a bit of time.
So what can you do?
Well, sometimes that frustration can actually be a positive and
can give you a new idea or angle on things. Or it can give you
the
power to keep going just a little bit more until you reach your
goal.
But when you start going in circles, when the frustration just
makes you mad or your mind foggy and the day is starting to
slip
through your fingers then there are steps you can take.
There are ways to turn such a state of mind or day around.
Into something better. Into something more helpful. And into
something that will make you feel better again.
Step 1: Be here now.
When you are frustrated then you are often somewhere in the
future in your mind. Somewhere you wish you would be. Or you
are reliving a stumble or failure from your past.
Snap out of those headspaces and calm down by focusing your
mind and attention on what is now, right here at this moment.
You can do so by for example:
Focusing on your breathing. Sit down, close your eyes and just
focus on the air going and out of your nose for 1-2 minutes.
Take calm and slightly deeper breaths than usual and breathe
with your belly and not your chest.
Focus on what is around you at this time. The sun shining in
through your window. The kids playing out in the street and
the cars and people going by. The smells and feeling of the
clothes and warmth of the sun on your skin. Do this for 1-2
minutes to get your attention back to the present moment.
Step 2: Appreciate what you do have.
After you have pulled your attention back to where it can be
most
helpful focus it on what is still positive in your life.
The quickest and easiest way to do so is to focus it on
appreciating
what you do have.
A favorite of mine during this step is the important things we
may
sometimes take for granted. Like for instance:
A warm home and a roof over your head.
Plenty of drinkable water.
Not having to go hungry.
Access to the internet.
Your friends and family.
Spend a few minutes on this and you’ll find much to be grateful
for.
Step 3: Focus on what you can do right now.

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Drinking pap : it contains low cholesterol meaning it has low
calorie . It does not store fat in the body and gives more energy.

Eat nut : foods in Nigeria that also low cholesterol is nuts
groundnut walnuts cashew nuts. Good supplement to snacks

Eat beans: it contains protein which help for body building. And
does not store fat. And gives energy.

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Alcohol intake - when the alcohol intake is hyper it tends to
expand the walls of the stomach resulting to pot belly.

Lack of exercise- when there is lack of exercise of the body the
fat stays there it needs to be burn..so weight continues to store
up in the system.

Sleeping after meal early enough when the food have not
digested makes the fat in it just stay there because there is no
exercise to burn the fat and
metabolism rate is low.




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Alcohol intake - when the alcohol intake is hyper it tends to
expand the walls of the stomach resulting to pot belly.

Lack of exercise- when there is lack of exercise of the body the
fat stays there it needs to be burn..so weight continues to store
up in the system.

Sleeping after meal early enough when the food have not
digested makes the fat in it just stay there because there is no
exercise to burn the fat and
metabolism rate is low.




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5 HIRE KILLERS OF YOUR DREAMS
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Nobody strikes up a relationship hoping that it will be a drain
on productivity and
happiness. Unless you pay careful attention, toxic people weasel
their way into your
life and use your mental energy, patience, and happiness
without you realizing it.
We have all encountered people like this, and some of us may
have even been
toxic people at some point in our lives. If we really are the sum
of the five people
we associate with the most, it is crucial to avoid these five types
of toxic people.
1. The Gossiper
The gossiper is an insidious force in any organization. They
make you feel like they
are bringing you into the fold by sharing delicate information
with you. It seems like
all they do is gather and disperse chitchat about other people.
When someone wants to talk to you about someone else behind
their back, it is
almost always a toxic situation. It doesn’t add value to your life,
and if the gossiper
will talk to you, you can be sure that they’re also talking about
you to someone
else.
This is the person at work that corners you during break time
and talks badly about
another coworker’s performance. When the person feels that
they can come to you,
they’ll be likely to repeat this over and over. People see you
together, and they may
even label you as a gossiper just for being associated with this
type of toxic
person.
2. The Manipulator
A manipulator knows what they want, and they’ll use you to get
it. They don’t care
about your thoughts and feelings. It seems like the more time
you spend with
them, the less power you have over your own destiny. Stick
around this person too
long, and you’ll end up doing whatever they want instead of
standing up for
yourself.
Most of us don’t act without a purpose, but the manipulator is
bent on achieving
their mission at the expense of everyone around them.
Manipulation can take
several forms, but a classic way to manipulate is through victim
hood.
For example, I have a friend who is being in a toxic relationship.
His girlfriend is
controlling and abusive, and every time it seems as though he
will get out of the
negative situation, she manipulates him into staying. Whenever
he tries to leave,
3. The Judge
So many cultures revolve around shame, and the judge takes full
advantage of our
discomfort with shame to steal your energy. Regardless of what
you say, think, or
do, the judge will always have some criticism for you.
The judge never tries to put themselves in your shoes. Their
only concern is what
you did or didn’t do. The more time you spend with them, the
more depressed
you’ll be. You can never make them happy, and if their opinion
of you influences
your self-worth, you’re doomed to misery. When you’re dealing
with a judge, you’ll
always take the blame.
4. The Exaggerator
An exaggerator doesn’t know how to keep a small problem
small. They often resort
to saying things like, “You never do…” or “You have always
been…” They don’t take
the time to consider steps you’ve taken to fix the problem or
correct your mistake.
Mess up in front of an exaggerator, and be prepared to be
labeled by your
mistake. To an exaggerator, everything feels like the end of the
world.
Imagine you’re on a team, and you’re planning a big
presentation. You were
assigned to work on part of the presentation, but then someone
in your family
became ill and had to go to the hospital. You miss the deadline
to turn your part
of the project in to the team, but the final presentation is still
over a week
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Posted by Ade Bejide · September 03, 2017
GETTING HOLD YOUR JOB BACK
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There are many strategies that can support you and here are a
few of my favorites.
SET A GOAL AND STICK TO IT
Take a look at your current goals, do you have too many things
to focus on, but
lose the focus for the most important things? Maybe what
mattered two years ago
when you took this job no longer matters now.
Either way, take a look at your goals and assess what you want
to keep and what
you want to let go.
Activity breeds more activity. When you start to get busy, life
gives you more
things to do. You have to get clear on what matches your goals
and is aligned with
your long term plan.
GET MORE SLEEP
Late night work may have seemed productive for some; but the
reality is it hurts
more than it helps. Let go of the late nights and hit the pillow
sooner.
When you get more sleep, you can better handle the problems
that life throws at
you. Instead of reacting, you can create a plan and start shifting.
If you are afraid of not getting enough done, take a look at your
priorities and start
looking at what is on your plate that does not matter.
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