I just hope it’s not a case of death during cult initiation and he’s found soon. His people need to knock the right doors to know if any such activities held during the time of his disappearance.

One word can have different or same meanings in several languages. The word aza is a Benin word which means treasury or safe. The term azaman was mostly used by NBM from a long time ago, as a secret coded word to refer to their treasurer. Just like their number 1 - when cults were still secret - is only known as kpoai and nothing else. Only Jews call them capone or any other name. Even their spiritual head has his own coded name.

As cult lingua began to cast, these coded names made it to the streets. Azaman was made popular by the NBM in Benin & refers to their treasurer.

99% of una just dey fool una self for this thread, the reasonable people no dey comment but dey observe una. All the unnecessary info wey dem no send una, wey no important una go put am here. Shey if una no post scores or gory photos una no go fit warn or educate people nii. If cult wahala dey any place, post the info, write ups don already dey on how to stay safe. No need to dey fool yourself. If you no get work, go use that time learn work.

Most of una na cultist e clear. Una never ready to change na why the shedding of blood dey sweet una to update. People don hear say cult dey fight for Benin, that one concern the people wey e concern, una also don share awareness for the innocent people, correct. Make una let better talk and discussions happen for here.

Some of una go post 100 times a day, must you post everyday? Must you even be here everyday? na once e show say una no get work or life?? Cult gist dey sweet you. Once e happen na una go rush come break news, post videos. How you take quick know? Why you dey carry am for head?

This thread no be for cultists, if you understand am like that una go know say una dey overdo. This na new year, face your life, drop the Eiye vs Aiye wey u carry for head no single advantage or gain whether as a cultist or jew. Fill our mind & head with better thoughts. You wey dey wake up come this thread dey wait for news of scores, death or photos you don dey sick be that but you never know. Na mental problem you don dey get so.

I no insult anybody but make everybody use them head. All of us know at least one cultist, them be our brothers, friends, colleagues etc. when we dey online we go dey talk like say cultist na ghost abi we never see them before. Some of una go still drink with them this evening, tomorrow come here dey advice government on how to tackle them, so who dey deceive who?

If una like make una insult me, I no go answer una. Make we just talk true to the young ones abeg. Cultism no good. Make them forget all the merriment and show wey dem dey see, all na fake. Cults be like man & wife wey go dey fight dey wound themselves, if them see stranger them go hug to look good. Cultism go kill you, e go spoil your life. No tangible single benefit inside.

He is working on this. Thanks for your advice.

JoyousFurnitire:


Could he link up with his course adviser or HOD? I want to believe that should help.

Hi, a friend of mine has just returned after some years abroad and is trying to obtain his first degree certificate from the university of lagos all to no avail. he graduated in 2012 and the new process says he has to generate a payment advice from his student profile which has proved abortive. conspicuously I noticed even his date of birth on his profile is set to default and can not be edited. all trips to CITS and senate yielded no tangible result. anyone familiar with the situation and can proffer a solution, please help. thanks.

Some of you can be very silly. He took her banging her morning afternoon night. She didn’t bang him too? Did he force her to be with him?

Because he didn’t bring you oil & yam tubers that invalidates what they shared? C’mon. If the family was okay with their daughter being with him before death, why are they now acting up?

If the bride price was so important to them they should have asked their daughter to come back home & not wait till she died. What nonsense all in the name of culture.

calmness0:
Op, most tribes act like that, you did not pay bride price and you have been with another persons daughter for years, banging morning afternoon night without paying bride price, you never knew death can knock early right? if it were your sister nko, op go and settle her family.

Big dogs scare the shit out of me. Went to visit a friend who trained dogs almost 20 years ago. Entered the gate and as I approached the house Omo…see full sized Rottweiler running at me, full speed. There was no way I was making the gate…so I braced myself.

I setup like I was going to kick a ball mid air. As it approached I launched the kick with rage. I got the side of its face. It circled me and as it was about to come for me again…the owner called. He stopped in his tracks.

The dogs teeth caught my sneakers leaving a big tear. Later that day me & the owner had a mad ass quarrel. Nigga was like…u wan kill my dog?

Bruh na God go punish you & your dog. We’re still friends till date though and he guards his dogs away from me. Na him and him dogs dey avoid me now.

kenzysmith

There are ‘sex addicts’ who have good jobs, decent self esteem, can hold their own and command respect. You’re just lazy.

Mentally you have downed tools. Pick yourself back up by first cleaning up. Clean up yourself. Eat well, rest a lot, dress neat, cut your hair & leave sex alone. In two weeks people will tell you how different you look.

Besides sex. What company do you keep? I hope you’re not a cultist? Bad company & unproductive lifestyle has ruined you mentally. I hope you’re not into substance abuse. You need a complete mental reset. Your mom is your pillar. Tell her your regrets and how you want to clean up. Thank her for never giving up on you and tell her your plans going forward. Hang around her often tell her about your fears and concerns.

Be serious with your life. You have a lot of catching up to do at 33 but you also have time to turn things around. Wake up!!

I like how you did not malign your husband and blame him for this. Most women would look for reasons to justify this unwholesome feeling by listing the shortcomings of their husband. The pastor knows you have a soft for him. As someone with a higher spiritual standing he’s supposed to kill whatever this is about but he’s fueling it. He’s the object of your fantasy but realistically he’s your problem.

What you are going through is not real. It’s just a flash that’ll pass, if you can contain yourself & give it time, you’ll see. If you do otherwise, it will blow up in your face to embarrass you and leave a lifelong taint on the character of your person. It may destroy your family. Trust me, the pastor will mostly not sacrifice his standing (which he spent years to build) for you or destroy his own family. If you go ahead, when eventually you’re found out, he’ll run you under the bus. Using even the lips you sent on chat as alibi that you were chasing & pressurizing him. His fellow pastors will rally around him & say it’s temptation, saying he needs to be backed up with prayers. You’d be postured as the tool the devil uses against Pastors, a Villian.

You have to stop being overtly friendly with him. Don’t reply unnecessary chats. No unnecessary smile. He’s an agent of destabilization, treat him as such. If he greets you in the midst of others, do not feel special, do not respond. Any discussions about improving your spiritual life or whatever are attempts to get close to you and fasten his hold on you. His intentions are not pure, blatantly turn down any of such.

And lastly, trust me when I say there’s people in the church who’ve observed what’s going on between you two and are watching. They may be his wife, or women he has tried to or built such connections with in the past, or just observant people. Trust me when I say eyes are on you already.

Yes it is. The older one is definitely gay.

krushdripper:
I was still under 15 when I once caught my neighbors, two brothers of same parents one late evening, the elder one who was about a year or two younger than me was giving his younger brother a Mouth Action a ward robe. A sudden heaviness filled my chest as they broke free on seeing me...

Is this also called incest or is there another word to call it?

And you are in heaven. Best wishes.

Benwallt:
You must be typing from hell

Thanks for this. You were young and didn’t know what you were doing. Now you are wiser and know better. As long as your request for forgiveness is genuine, you are forgiven. Shed the guilt and embrace life without any inhibitions or drawback baggage.

God bless you.

03072001hen:
i hvnt told this to anyone before, it hs been a secret i hv been keeping for years bt lt me use ds as an opportunity to let it out, wen i ws 9 or younger, there ws a man dt promised me a memory card cos i asked him if he had a memory card dt he is nt usin, d day he gave me d memory card my broda ws there, we put d card in my phone n found out dt it contains porn, we watched it a little bit n deleted it so dt we wont watch it again, bt after dt, i ws nt myself anymore, dt ws d moment i started getting sexual urges, we normally play a lot in our house wen our parents re nt around n since i watched dt video i started playin wit my broda naked. after som time i stopped n stated masturbating. my broda once caught me in d act which made me stop, bt after som time, i also caught him in d act, we were kids den so we ddnt hv knowledge of wt we were doin. as time goes on i started getting sexual imaginations n for no reason, i get turned on by anything i see to d extent dt i masturbated wit my mum's wrapper, i hardly sleep in d night cos i found it as d best opportunity to masturbate, my mom almost caught me bt anytime i notice ha coming, i pretend like am doin somtin else n she wil always tel me to go to bed. wen i entered secondary school, i watched d video again in my classmate's phone n ds time i couldnt get my eyes off it cos it ws all over me. i came back frm school 1 day n opened d door to our room n mistakenly saw my sis naked cos she ws changin ha cloth n forgot to lock d door. frm dt day, i got tempted to d extent dt i masturbated on ha while she ws asleep in d night cos ha bed ws close to our bed, i regretted wt i dd, i ws filled wit so much guilt dt i promised myself nt to do it again. 1 day, my parents caught me playing with my younger sis bt in a different way, n beat d hell out of me. i once had a sexual urge for my cousin usually wen i see ha wearing somtin sexy, bt by den i hv already understood d meaning of incest n made sure nt to hv dt urge again. apart frm dt, i stl masturbate bt its been lng i dd it, am trying my best to get my mind off it, i am trying to stopped watching porn n make sure dt my mind stays positive, becos i found out dt negative thoughts trigger it expecially wen am alone. d truth is dt i neva enjoyed any of it cos at d end i regret, i no all i dd ws wrong n i pray dt God forgive me frm d ones i hv done n wash me from all my sins

If there was a screening how will ‘I kill broke hows’ make it Lol Ode

You think it’s everyone you meet online you’re run your mouth on.

You’re a raging lunatic. You’re from a lineage of bastards and deranged animals. You will never amount to anything in this world. You will die miserable and poor. Hence, you have seized to be fruitful both biologically and financially. You shall cry and sweat & the wind of mercy will never reach you. Amen.

Mark this date.

ikllbrokehoes:
The same way your lineages are cursed, damned and extremely deranged

Who in his right sense will create such a stupid thread? I wonder why séun don't screen people before allowing them to register on this forum, you are really a fvcked up negro

Vee is 25? I’m doubtful

Full story

Sarkin Yarbawan sound or feels more like a title that individual was given by the traditional rulers in that area.

This one was conferred on him by a kingship that has no power over the area in question, absurd!

Its like the Oba of Lagos appointing a Baale in Kastina. You get the point yeah?

kehinde1588:
This picture below was taken personally by me and it shows an official vehicle of Yoruba king "sarkin Yarbawan" in funtua kastina states

What is the purpose of the outrage? To create hatred for the North while we enjoy the same benefit on their land too.

I don't know why Southerners especially the pigs like crying unnecessarily. Virtually all major tribes in Nigeria have their Kings in other part of the country.

God bless you.

ChasinGood:
The sad reality is that these crazy stuff really happens in this our clime also. You know how close some siblings can be, sleeping on the same bed when they're still teens and all that. If parents don't get enlightened bout this stuff they'll obviously let things slide and it can breed some messed up family traits but as 'Africans' wey we be, we'd always condemn op for trying to create awareness for most parents and other elderly folks reading this stuff to pay keen attention to the actions of their little ones so as to prevent the had I known line.

Create yours that ameliorates. Anyone can create a new topic and at no charge. All the time you have spent replying me to no end, you could have written a new topic with all of what you feel I didn’t write, to suit your agenda, just how you want it.

That’s easier and should do everything you think my post can’t. All the back and forth is unnecessary.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

This just proves you did not read the post. If you did, you wouldn't have said half what you just did.
Where exactly did I say put the kids down for what they did. In fact, I specifically said the opposite of that.

Again, if you read my previous post or at least, try to understand the context you claim I do not understand. You wouldn't have said half what you just did.

Even the point I was driving at by mentioning pedophilia (which could very well be categorised as an incestual relationship) was completely missed and twisted to me claiming you were talking about pedophilia

Also, Your original post did not mention anything about ameliorating the situation. Only that "we should share" as if we are couple of friends simply talking about football in a bar. So you should understand if people do not understand the "angle you're coming from" (which is still unclear by the way).

"You're stressing me"

I don't even know how to respond to that.

Tadeknkeepcalm

I decided not to quote your post so as not to create long mess. Thanks for taking your time to reply to me. First, when communicating understand context & scope. Its important else you’ll go of course and be boring or irritating.

I don’t care about pedophiles and what they do. This isn’t about pedophilia per say if you reread you would get it. I’m talking incest, sex in the family and my main focus was kid vs kid, both of whom are not fully conscious and aware and act out of impulse or curiosity.

I’m not Mr. Save the World but I do my bit and it’s doesn’t or must not be in your preferred format. By talking about this we’re drawing awareness to it. Most parents may know of incest but completely ignore or believe in their hearts that their children will never do such. By sharing stories we are making them more aware to know it could happen with any kids if they’re not properly trained and monitored.

By sharing stories, anyone would learn of instances when these acts might be suggested or begin to grow and if they find traces can quickly nip it in the bud.

I could go on and on but there’s really no downside to discussing issues like this. A lot of people were caught as kids involved in incest and live with the stigma today. A lot of people are products of incest. They’re victims if we’re being fair, so if I try to encourage them and make them feel no less does it mean that I’m encouraging other kids to go and do it

Your angle is neat but coming at me with it or the subtle attack on people in the group you don’t even know is unnecessary. You could create a thread that covers it or just put it down under this for others to see. You want to put people down for the mistakes they made as kids, well I have a different approach.

The post about the Tech guy was obviously to banter someone who was being silly.

You really need to understand context & how it works. You’re stressing me.

At least shave your armpit.

‘I kill broke hoes’

You definitely come from a lineage of mentally deranged people. You’re cursed.

ikllbrokehoes:
Who's this mentally deranged person? Pls get dah eff out of here, what nonsense.

Create one.

We do achievement challenge as well. So don’t make it about talk. 6 of us having our MBA at LASU at the moment. We are 8 two didn’t get in.

barnyamclee:

that group sounds very interesting tbh, i am always looking for such groups, although they are very rare

Sex education is important but not the cause here. Even in sane climes, these things happen. Thanks for your submission though.

Vinnie2000:


OP!!
This your post though!! He get as he be....

That's why Sex education is very important for children, even below 6-7 years!
But Nigerian parents will be claiming 'My Pickin Neva spoil'

Make I Tell Unah one Bad Story!

Many years as very young Boys of 9, 10, One friend of mine (Darlington) father travelled, he called an equally small Girl he has been Fvcking to come over!!
But Her brother came with her! As Darlington and Rebecca wants to start d Fvckk, her small but Mighty brother Mudiaga says 'You can't be enjoying my sister T*t* nah'..
So Darlington called his sister, Magdalene from inside room to 'attend' to Mudiaga!!
That's how a Bloody Sex siblings foursome started!
Until someone heard some noises,caught and reported!!
Things dey Happen so Parents should be Very watchful and responsible!!
But Most are unconcerned about this things!!..

No. We don’t think it’s a grand idea. Liberal only because we can share our experiences and others can learn. The average African will bottle things up.

People have lost their bearing in life because they think they’re evil or cursed or wired oddly for having these experiences. If we let them know they’re not alone they might be able to pick their life up, forge ahead, do better.

Talking about animals. Back in boarding school, a group of JSS boys were caught having sex with a goat. The leader of the gang is the owner of a leading tech company in Nigeria today. Knock yourself out.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
So what's the point of telling us to share or the stories you've heard?
Is it to normalize it?
Or make us think light of it?


Of course, it's the liberals. They will always find a way to expand on their "freedom".

Let us know when you talk about the animals you've copulated with.....or don't.

I happen to belong to a circle of liberals and upwardly mobile young people. We discuss anything any everything.

Over the weekend we started talking about incest and my ears were full. But I remember one time when I was 7 or thereabouts, I had my little sister pinned to the wall and my mom found us. I almost died that day from the beating. Infact the beating was why I will never forget that day. And one of my elders sisters use to make moves on me then but I didn’t like her. If my mom hadn’t caught us or I allowed my other sister, it could have been a different story today.

My point is, these things happen. One lady said she learned how to kiss and suck dick by practicing on her brother. Her elder sister was dis virgin Ed by her father. One said he had sex with his sister twice. Guy! My ear full.

I now know these things are more common than it is. They had stories of many others to share.

If you got yours let’s hear it.

Modification - I trust my people to come with the bashing. I expected worse, its the African way. I’m a Christian and like to pride myself as a child of God. This post is not to glorify incest or the devil. We don’t learn or teach each other by bottling things up and because you have refused to share your experiences don’t mean you are clean. Everyday social media and news space is awash with fathers getting daughters pregnant (especially in Ogun, Lol) but you all think this discussion must not be had.

If most you here were told to sleep with your mother or father for wealth, you’d jump on the idea immediately but the people in this group of friends sharing these experiences will never try such. Learn to understand that when people share certain experience freely it may be because they’ve moved away from the ideology. Try not to be judgmental.

If you’re a person reading this and involved in incest please stop it. Its not worth it. If you have such thoughts now, look for ways to kill them, else you’ll end up regretting it. You’re not wrong, or evil, or cursed for having these thoughts. Its the power of the mind. Many have had these thoughts before you & more will after you. Jettison the idea.

Parents tend to watch their kids when they’re out with others but hardly do so when their kids are with each other, bad idea. These things happen mostly when kids are young & not fully conscious. Adult siblings hardly make moves on each other so please watch your kids closely.

I’m sorry if the topic disgusts you or insults your sensitivities. I’m actively on Quora and Reddit. These are topics we thrash extensively over there. Forgive me.

I was issued. They’ll get to you soon. Don’t lift a finger.

luwiizy:
Bros please how fo i go about getting my own meter,.....

I was issued. They’ll get to you soon. Don’t lift a finger.

SenecaTheYonger:


How did you get yours? And how long did it take

Very right.

I have just got a new prepaid with EKEDC. How do I register it before the free units I got finishes and I can start buying credits. The NEPA official I sort for help is asking for N11k. I intend to run it and fall his hand.

I’ll appreciate useful advice and ideas. Thanks.

Stupid talk. Bowing to which pressure Ode

Because he’s not been sued means he is right!? Are you a human being with actual brains

obiekunie01:


Guy take a chill pill and stop talking trash.

use your sense for once. if his allegations are false why are all the people he mentioned scared to sue him for defamation?

Are you aware that Chidimma mentioned same man who happens to be Mrs. Ataga's friend as her guardian in one of her press interview?

Anyway keep wallowing in your delusional anger against truth and claiming you deal with facts when you cant even identify facts even if its sitting on your nose!